non reviewed sps

[roamingguy 300292]

I had one, just recently, a (not cancellation) but postponement. But she let me know well in advance (I wasn't in my hotel, waiting in vain for the knock on the door) I wouldn't call the lady I ended up seeing Plan B. Instead, the lady I saw I planned on seeing at a future date. So instead, I contacted her, set up a date that was originally intended for the lady that postponed. And in the New Year, I am going to set up a encounter with the lady that postponed, and reschedule it. In short, all that happened is I changed the dates on seeing two ladies I wanted to see

There are some benifits with having to plan a few months in advance, some freedom to juggle if the unexpected happens.

Life happens, if it hands you lemons, make lemonade :D

RG

[harmony-bc 319]

One of my favorite regulars I met because I was his plan B. So thank you to whoever you are for not answering the phone when he was on your corner, lol

 

Life happens. Work wise, I have been stood up hundreds of time. In my personal life, I have been stood up a few times, and I have also been the guilty one once or twice.

[SamanthaEvans 166767]

It's unfortunate when cancellations are unavoidable, but if the companion contacted you ahead of time, that's a plus. Many of us have children and, as we all know, that can introduce some unpredictability into our plans if a child gets sick or is in an accident at school. I've only ever had to cancel meetings a few times, but I'm glad I could communicate with the client ahead of time to let him know. When I have had to cancel a meeting, I have also offered an extra half-hour at the same rate if they decide to see me at a later date.

 

The number of men who make appointments and then don't shown up or call to cancel is far, far greater, in my experience. A couple of years ago one guy told me that he and some of his friends regularly contacted escorts in the Vancouver area, arranged meetings, sometimes elaborate ones, with no intention of keeping the appointment. He said that they did it because they didn't approve of prostitution and figured that one way to stop it was to make it difficult for us to make a living by filling up our appointment books with no-shows. In his mind, this would force me and others to get a "legitimate" job.

 

As for the question of women for whom there are few or no posted reviews, making assumptions about them could deprive you of a very fine experience. As others have noted, clients are notoriously reluctant to write reviews or even to remember to write them. Some don't want to make details of their experiences public to others. Many men enjoy the fantasy that their companion won't see anyone else, or that she really is their girlfriend, if only for a couple of hours.

 

And some of us have been in this business long enough to have a sufficient roster of regular clients such that we don't need to advertise all that much, or we may only accept particular kinds of clients.

 

If you book meetings in advance, take the opportunity to get to know the companion in the meantime. Most of us are happy to exchange some e-mail or have phone conversations. You can get a very good sense of the kind of woman you're going to meet by paying attention to what she writes and how she sounds on the phone. You're expecting her to develop a sense of safety and trust from these things, too, aren't you..

[Grass_Hopper 18263]

I met a lot of my regulars by being plan B. Of course, I've been offended, but it gave me the chance to proove myself and to create a thight relation with them... Guys have a tendency to need to talk when they are turned down and I listen well. I believe respect must be rule #1.

 

But again, sh*t happens...