clarky1 100 Report post Posted January 1, 2011 Anyone know a female service provider in the area, independent or otherwise, who may be intersted in setting up a discreet, long-term client relationship? I'm in my 30's now, so going out to meet people is tired. I like to be comfortable, so I think regular company is what I'm looking for (cip?). I'm looking for someone friendly, fun, and spontaneous. Not affraid, through comfort, to get intimate. I'm not interested in anything over-the-top, which is not my style, however if you have any quality suggestions, please let me know. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kubrickfan 12836 Report post Posted January 2, 2011 Respectfully, that's very unlikely to happen through the normal "commerce" of this board. If anything, its harder to establish that sort of relationship with SPs than just undertaking ordinary dating as, with dating, people are often looking to establish relationships, whereas SPs almost without exception are not. I suggest you set up some appointments with some of the ladies you think are interesting to you and definitely don't rush things. If what you are loking for is a long-term SP-client relationship, that certainly is a possibility, but as with any other relationship, there has to be a mutual desire to maintain it over a long period of time. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest W***ledi*Time Report post Posted January 2, 2011 ... I like to be comfortable, so I think regular company is what I'm looking for (cip?) ... I'm not up on all the lingo these days ... in my day, "cip" meant "cum in pussy". Is this what you mean? If so, that is not a safe practice. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Megan'sTouch 23875 Report post Posted January 2, 2011 I've been in a couple long-term-paid relationships. This is not something I discuss with someone unless I've met them several times. It's imperative that we have the right chemistry, and that can only be discovered through meeting and getting to know each other. There are also a lot of "time wasters" out there who will email/call and try and get their ego stroked by presenting themselves as a wealthy "big shot." I just don't have time for this. If you're serious, make a few appointments with different ladies, repeat with the ones you like, and when you're both comfortable with each other, suggest an arrangement. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PistolPete 61421 Report post Posted January 2, 2011 Well said Megan :) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kubrickfan 12836 Report post Posted January 2, 2011 Sorry folks ... didn't even pick up on the "cip" reference. If WrinkledinTime is correct about that, and that's what clarky1 is really looking for, he probably should be looking for a monagamous relationship. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Cowboy kenny 50799 Report post Posted January 2, 2011 Much like a "real" relation ship you can go looking or shopping for something like this off the shelf. Like a "real" relationship you find yourself in it before you even realize it. For this type of arrangement to work you need chemistry with the one another otherwise you might find yourself committed financially but disconnected emotionally. Don't rush into this type of arrangement do your research and find the right provider. Finlay if you are looking for cip, then my advise is to go get yourself a real girlfriend, I can't imagine any of the established and respected providers here that would consider such an option, at least not in public. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
roamingguy 300292 Report post Posted January 3, 2011 By long term relationship, do you mean living under the same roof, or do you mean relationship as in portraying a girlfriend in social occasions. If the latter, take whatever you would budget for hobbying, and when required, use that money to get a lady to accompany you on social occasions As for cip??? some already mentioned, unless both partners are monogomous, no...and escorts by definition, and hobbiests by practice, just aren't. And if that is what you want, get a girlfriend Some ramblings RG Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
clarky1 100 Report post Posted January 30, 2012 capital improvement plan.. meaning, regular/steady business. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
etasman2000 15994 Report post Posted January 30, 2012 capital improvement plan.. meaning, regular/steady business. What you are looking for is commonly called being a Sugar Daddy or pre-paid retainer. Usually you met a few ladies and come to an agreement after establishing a common ground/interest. It would be rare for someone to jump into this arrangement without prior meeting. My suggestion is to find at least 3 ladies that capture your interest, schedule some play time with each and take it from there. Alternative: Bethany Massage is organizing the next Ottawa social in Feb which would be a nice low key means of meeting the ladies. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
VexingVixen 2519 Report post Posted January 31, 2012 I highly recommend the social. It lets you see all the lovely girls in 3D instead of just photos, and has the lovely benefit of dialogue! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
just2enjoy 1621 Report post Posted January 31, 2012 Ottawa social in Feb? Where can I find any info on this - where/when etc? Thanks :-) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Boomer 33202 Report post Posted January 31, 2012 Ottawa social in Feb? Where can I find any info on this - where/when etc? Thanks :-) February Pool Party Social http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=77412&highlight=pool Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
just2enjoy 1621 Report post Posted January 31, 2012 Thanks for the link Boomer :-) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites