Noshadow 1010 Report post Posted July 14, 2017 So after a few months of being on the fence about whether or not I should do it, I decided to take the plunge and book an escort. I decided to go with an indie with a reputation for working well with first timers/inexperienced guys and sent her an email making sure to be polite and give all the information she asked for on her website. The day I tried to book for passes but she hasn't responded. I send a follow up email on and get a response asking if I want to book another time and I respond trying to set up another date. A day later and no response so I decided to send another follow up and two days later still no response, which brings us to today. I'm wondering if this is something that happens often to you guys or if it's just me that's unlucky? Is there anything I should to at this point? 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kelwus 1030 Report post Posted July 15, 2017 I have found some take alittle longer to reply as others do Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SexxxyRebecca 57990 Report post Posted July 15, 2017 She might be on vacation? Did she post her availability in the advertising section? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Noshadow 1010 Report post Posted July 15, 2017 No mention of her being on vacation on the advertising section, her twitter or the first reply she sent me. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
fortunateone 156618 Report post Posted July 20, 2017 i always assume emails are not getting thru in the first place. some sps won't even open an email if the email address looks sketchy too, with some overly rude/graphic/cutesy email address. also, is emailing the way she wants to be contacted at all? i can be reached by email, but if/when i do reply it will only be to say i don't provide info or bookings by email, someone has to phone me., if sp is on this site, send a pm. if on twitter and you are on twitter, send a DM there mentioning your attempts to email and the dates you tried. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NotchJohnson 214132 Report post Posted July 20, 2017 (edited) I have had that problem too in the past and if I don't get a reply within a day I start looking for plan B and it has happen that I ended up going to plan D. The only thing that is sad is that my plan A was my favorite and plan D was my 4th on the list and many times I ended up liking plan (B, C, D) better then plan A. All I can say is have a contingency plan if you have a special day planed up. I don't want to hijack this thread but if us gentleman warn the lady we want to see that we have a back up plan would that put pressure or relieve pressure on date planning? Just asking ! Edited July 21, 2017 by NotchJohnson spelling 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
fit4life16 1040 Report post Posted July 21, 2017 Sexxxy Rebecca responded to you. I would highly recommend her for a first timer. She is great and very personable 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
conquistador 18487 Report post Posted July 21, 2017 I would just move on to another provider. Why waste your time in emailing when you can't seem to get a response. There are lots of providers out there that will want to meet you. Find someone reputable. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Meg O'Ryan 266444 Report post Posted July 21, 2017 To answer Notch...no lol. But then again I always answer an email in a timely manner. If I am not available at the requested time I would let you know as soon as I could. If you sent a text during a time when I wasn't available, I would not respond after an hour or so for purposes of discretion unless you specified that I could text back at any time. My two cents 7 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Parker 19761 Report post Posted July 26, 2017 I don't want to hijack this thread but if us gentleman warn the lady we want to see that we have a back up plan would that put pressure or relieve pressure on date planning? Just asking ! Sadly, the majority of guys that do this do so without letting us know and then just don't show up.. it's very annoying and costly. I use to not see guys who do this, but now that I require deposits for bookings it really makes no difference/doesn't bother me anymore. xx 3 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
KarynSvensen 2074 Report post Posted September 19, 2017 If you sent a text during a time when I wasn't available' date=' I would not respond after an hour or so for purposes of discretion unless you specified that I could text back at any time. [/quote'] I do follow the same pattern as Meg. I won't answer a text after an hour, unless it is a regular who gave me the permission to or you mentioned it in your message. You did contact her by email, in this case you should've had an answer anytime she got less busy. Don't forget, like other girls said, that emails might not be in the "accepted" way to contact her, a lot of girls do it by phone only. Your email might have never reached her inbox as well, with the strong spam filters these days. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Hukupp 1651 Report post Posted September 19, 2017 Another solution. There are very popular texting apps whereby it's your actual phone number and you can even post any pic of your choice as your profile. No funny business for the MA or SP and it won't show on your phone records like texts and calls. Above all, you can see when the person has read your texts so you can make a choice right then and there about going to another plan or sticking it out with your intended plan. Easier from both sides really. It may not be for all but it is certainly a no hassle solution for many. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites