Beeautifulbabee 1010 Report post Posted August 24, 2017 Does anyone use fetlife and thoughts on whether it benefits you or not? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
DarksideHobbyist 1883 Report post Posted August 25, 2017 never heard of it Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Leviathan31 8387 Report post Posted August 25, 2017 I know a girl who used to use her Fetlife profile for escorting (she was highly reviewed here on Lyla) and she got quite a few calls via that site. Thing is, she would always say how different those clients were vs non-Fetlife clients. Different breed of people on that site and sometime it reflects in their sexual desires/choices. Long story short, the Fetlife clients were almost always "creepy" or "strange" lol She was also able to sell a lot of videos to members there. :) 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kayradis 170 Report post Posted October 31, 2017 Bottombitchnaomi? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Leviathan31 8387 Report post Posted November 1, 2017 Bottombitchnaomi? lol - that is the account of my friend/former escort "Sexy Lexi". She is now out of the business and is doing very well. She has no more access to her own page on Fetlife, so she can't delete it. :( Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
harboursmoke 3087 Report post Posted November 1, 2017 Bottombitchnaomi? Im a new member of fetlife. I remember her. I was always worried about her age she looked so young in her pics... 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
halifax76 2855 Report post Posted November 2, 2017 I was involved with fetlife a long time ago. Fetlife locally is just like every other lifestyle club in the area. There is a lot of nice people you will come across. Unfortunately there is a lot of drama making it difficult to find them in some cases. Life is too short to waste that kind of time and energy so i chose to leave the social scenes. Having said all that, lexi was one of the ones i'm still kicking myself for constantly second guessing. lol Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
harboursmoke 3087 Report post Posted November 2, 2017 I was involved with fetlife a long time ago. Fetlife locally is just like every other lifestyle club in the area. There is a lot of nice people you will come across. Unfortunately there is a lot of drama making it difficult to find them in some cases. Life is too short to waste that kind of time and energy so i chose to leave the social scenes. Having said all that, lexi was one of the ones i'm still kicking myself for constantly second guessing. lol Is it open to hobbying ? I have created an account and I am just looking around right now. The search function isnt the greatest. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Leviathan31 8387 Report post Posted November 2, 2017 Having said all that, lexi was one of the ones i'm still kicking myself for constantly second guessing. lol I remember her. I was always worried about her age she looked so young in her pics... She had problems with that to the point she posted a pic of her ID in her Lyla profile to help clarify after it was brought up in a thread about her. I also first saw her on Fetlife. She wasn't using the site as advertising for escorting at first, but when that changed and I saw she was working in Halifax, I just had to hire her after seeing her Fetlife pics. She was literally the second girl I ever hired (Vandal Vyxen being the first). She then moved to Toronto and fast forward a year later, I hired her again when she returned to Halifax. 8 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
status4 790 Report post Posted November 2, 2017 Is it open to hobbying ? I have created an account and I am just looking around right now. The search function isnt the greatest. No not really, it's a meet and greet, Adult Friend Finder kind of site for people into alternative scenes like DOM/Submission, S&M etc, not really intended for commercial purposes, I joined a long time ago with a then girlfriend, it's very clicky, unless you've been on a long time it can be hard to get to meet people, and many of the people are just into playing online, when it comes to actually meeting a lot are cop outs. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Jabba 18389 Report post Posted November 2, 2017 I have an account, but I don't indulge. I tried, but too many guys are just looking to get laid and not into exploring the other stuff. It kind of pollutes the air if you know what I mean. If you do reach out to make contact with a member, you are treated with suspicion. Maybe rightly so. I found that if you go to some of the events, you meet some nice folks. The events are a little contrived though. One reason I don't participate anymore is that there is a very unpleasant and angry undercurrent. At times the forum serves as a podium for outright, rant style male-bashing. Continuously. An Us against Them thing. A LOT of angst among the female population, yet they still keep a presence on the site. If they're so angry and rage-filled, why do they stick around? My nickel's worth. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
fortunateone 156618 Report post Posted November 21, 2017 editing out tons of personal outing information that makes it super easy for anyone with a grudge or a vendetta to find her and stalk her in real life..... :) what the hell is wrong with you Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Leviathan31 8387 Report post Posted November 21, 2017 what the hell is wrong with you I think the line you quoted above was initially meant for someone who was in the situation I described in that line, if that makes sense. I also think she was with me when I posted that. ...and there is lots wrong with me - I'm human :-P Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
