Touch 57501 Report post Posted January 10, 2011 (edited) In light of a recent post here in the ?In the News? section of CERB about a Virginia man who was prosecuted (but acquitted by a jury) of being seen through a window while being naked in his kitchen, how careful are you (clients and providers) in closing the drapes when engaged in an outcall date? I am a pretty modest person so I was surprised when several of my outcall escorts flashed themselves (if 30 or 40 seconds is ?flashing?) to large sections of downtown Montreal or simply didn?t want the curtains pulled shut at all for our outcall session. All the events I am talking about were outcall sessions in Montreal high-rise hotels above the 10th floor. Basically, I have come to let my escort partners set the tone in this regard, but mostly they have been much less privacy oriented than I am. Touch Edited January 10, 2011 by Touch Typos Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
waterrat 1261 Report post Posted January 10, 2011 I am not concerned. On the upper floors of hotels (7 and up) I am not too worried, unless there is an office building or another hotel across the street looking right in my window. If the lights are off/low people outside are not going to see much. Even with the lights on they will need really good eyes to see the "naughty bits" lol. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Miss Scarlett 25073 Report post Posted January 10, 2011 I only do incalls, but even if I was to consider an outcall I would require the drapes to be closed. What happens behind closed doors (or windows) is between us and nobody elses business. I am a private person and prefer to keep it that way. My drapes are always drawn before the client arrives. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Stewie_1 100 Report post Posted January 10, 2011 Interesting. Always close the drapes for me. In or Out. It is important to maintain privacy both for hobbyists and SPs unless ofcourse they want to give a show ;). Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
roamingguy 300292 Report post Posted January 10, 2011 Closed, unless you want to be on YouTube.:bigclap: At my age, hey, I would look real good, having good, actually great taste in women8), but the lady, they would be questioning her taste in men:?:. Just kidding, what happens behind closed doors should stay behind closed doors RG Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SamanthaEvans 166767 Report post Posted January 11, 2011 For incalls at my place, I usually ask the client what he prefers. My bedroom window looks out on a wooden fence and, beyond that, the blank side wall of the house next door. No one walks by the window, so no one will be able to see anything we do. But closing the drapes is not a problem. For outcalls, upper floors of hotels are not an issue for me. Lower ones are, and I will ask to close the drapes. Privacy is very important. As for us ladies being shy... only if you want us to be! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Victoria Banks 21899 Report post Posted January 11, 2011 Always have them closed at all times for playtime...its all about discretion right.. :dncdick: Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Seymour 3970 Report post Posted January 11, 2011 Depends on the situation and the people involved. Drapes open can be a good thing and help set the mood or heighten the mood. http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=11390 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cat 262460 Report post Posted January 11, 2011 My suite has no visibility from the neighboring buildings so closed drapes are not mandatory but I love the dim shadows for setting the mood during the day. If a guest wants the drapes open, that is good with me as long as it's not street level; no harm, no foul. The voyeur in me is strong and I love to people watch so I will spend my evenings in the summer on my balconies watching my neighbors doing absolutely anything. They don't have to be naked or doing anything remotely exciting. I love watching the everyday things like making dinner or straightening up. Watching the movements, the expressions and body language fascinates me especially when they don't know they are being observed; I'm not sure why I have this hobby, I just know I enjoy it. If I could live on an airport bench I probably would. People watching is my #1 favorite pasttime. If there is something racy, that's just a bonus.... cat Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest **cely***r***ne Report post Posted January 11, 2011 I like how the low light makes the atmosphere feel so calm and sensual. Plus seeing as privacy is a key element to me I always keep the curtains closed. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Meg O'Ryan 266444 Report post Posted January 11, 2011 If I could live on an airport bench I probably would. People watching is my #1 favorite pasttime. If there is something racy, that's just a bonus.... cat Me too!!! As for the drapes....closed is my preference! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NotchJohnson 214123 Report post Posted January 11, 2011 I'm from the country and not shy at all(OK a bit at first but not for long), so with this I do not mind having the curtains wide open. One of my fantasy is having sex in the same room as another couple or more, no swapping or gangbanging. I want to see another girl getting it while I am enjoying my partner. This could be another thread by itself. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Touch 57501 Report post Posted January 11, 2011 For the most part I like dim lighting. Whenever I can, I arrange my dates just before sunset so it gradually gets dimmer and it is in candlelight darkness when we are finished. On high floors I am usually very comfortable with the drapes open. Now and then I get an especially frisky escort who when it gets darker actually hops up on the windowsill and disport herself nude to the Montreal skyline. This makes me a bit nervous, but I never stopped one from doing what ever she wanted to do up there! When I do have a daytime date, I do like the drapes shut or nearly so; I do like dim light and candles. There have been a few exceptions. Once I had a corner suite in Montreal on about the 16th floor with near wrap-around windows. It was about -20C and as often happens there when it is very cold, the sunshine was a bright as the Sahara. My escort-date pulled open all the drapes, pull everything off the huge bed but the sheets and we made love there practically seared by the intense sunshine on the white sheets. That was as close as I am personally likely to get to making love on a sun-baked tropical beach. There is also the schadenfreud pleasure of being snuggled under the covers with a comely escort watching through the window the Montreal winter wind whip snow around the tops of the lower high-rises from the heated comfort of a 16th floor suite. Yes there are many pleasure of hobbying with the drapes wide open? Touch Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Lexy Grace 103697 Report post Posted January 14, 2011 I like how the low light makes the atmosphere feel so calm and sensual. Plus seeing as privacy is a key element to me I always keep the curtains closed. I agree with Angel. I like the drapes closed and the atmosphere that candles give off. The lighting is beautiful and serene. I have been to a place where the house was basically all glass without drapes and it was so secluded that it was fun and romantic by a beautiful fireplace. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
