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[paddiewack 731]

I love the challenge of coaxing those supposed "legit" massage ladies into a more sensual experience. Usually, I find it turns out to be much more erotic than those who clearly advertise sexual services. Anyone wishing to share such experiences can PM me as not something to be publicly disclosed. And, obviously not a common occurrence but it does happen!

[ssimard1 190]

Same here. I prefer going to a "legit" one and see if I can pick up on hints an give hints of my own, rather than an obvious rub and tug one.

 

I have been successful on quite a few of them :) and also unsuccessful on many more. But the rush was enjoyable none the less :)

[Gregsand 6116]

Legit therapists and RMT's obviously want to draw a clear line between their services and what SP's/rub-n-tugs offer. This is done to protect their reputation on a professional level and also for their safety in order to avoid the wrong clients knocking at the door.

 

That being said, they are human beings and not made of wood. So, what happens "off the clock" is there own business. As long they separate work from pleasure/relationships, everything is A-OK.

[jackofhearts 1010]

I enjoy it too. They tend to be better priced and there's also the notion that its a clean place. In my last place of residence, I had a place that was seemingly strict, with christian crosses in almost every room. After a few month of therapeutic massages, the sensual massages became a nice welcome. Does anyone have any suggestions in finding independents other than on BP or drive by?

[Guest S***dst***]

Legit therapists and RMT's obviously want to draw a clear line between their services and what SP's/rub-n-tugs offer. This is done to protect their reputation on a professional level and also for their safety in order to avoid the wrong clients knocking at the door.

 

That being said, they are human beings and not made of wood. So, what happens "off the clock" is there own business. As long they separate work from pleasure/relationships, everything is A-OK.

 

 

It is actually still quite dangerous to date a client as an RMT.

There is a one year threshold but if, for example, you dated a client and shit went south? They could claim you forced them/abused your power/fooled them into a relationship and the college will side with them guaranteed and you WILL lose you license.

[Gregsand 6116]

It is actually still quite dangerous to date a client as an RMT.

There is a one year threshold but if, for example, you dated a client and shit went south? They could claim you forced them/abused your power/fooled them into a relationship and the college will side with them guaranteed and you WILL lose you license.

 

People are entitled to a private life, no matter what they do. If they want a relationship, they'll find a way to make it happen and keep it low profile. People can sometimes act like adults.

[Guest S***dst***]

People are entitled to a private life, no matter what they do. If they want a relationship, they'll find a way to make it happen and keep it low profile. People can sometimes act like adults.

 

I'm not saying they won't or don't.

I'm just letting you know that it is dangerous for an RMT to see a client even in their personal life.

Trust me I was one, they make sure to drill their code of ethics into your head; and that's a big one.

[Gregsand 6116]

I'm not saying they won't or don't.

I'm just letting you know that it is dangerous for an RMT to see a client even in their personal life.

Trust me I was one, they make sure to drill their code of ethics into your head; and that's a big one.

 

I've been with two and as long we kept the kinky stuff out of their workplace they were not losing much sleep about it.

[Gregsand 6116]

In the past days I received a few private messages asking me to recommend some open minded therapists. For clarity, I'll repeat here what I wrote to them:

 

Massage therapists will only open up to men(or woman) they feel comfortable with. It's not because one opened to me or someone else, they will instantly do the same with everybody. Discretion is essential. So, what happens between a therapist and client/friend should remain private to avoid burning her, her career and your reputation as a lobbyist. Think of her as a woman and not as an escort. And the same should be said about all women offering adult services. Respect and privacy goes a long way and can make the difference between receiving the bare minimal and a unique out of this world experience between two consenting adults.

 

Hope the message is clear and I won't need to come back on this.

 

Thank you.

[Guest J**ck*9]

I must say that I am truly disappointed with the OP's post as well the one post that immediately followed. Because the way I'm interpreting said two posts is that you are treating this like a sport without any consideration for the RMT.

 

RMTs are bound by a code of ethics, whereby if they were to violate this, it could mean the loss of their license and reputation as a legitimate RMT. So to go to an RMT in an attempt to see if she is willing to "Cross the line" with some coaxing and or manipulation in order to get that thrill of the conquest is highly disrespectful.

 

If you feel the need to go for a massage with the full intent to get that happy ending, then go see an actual MA and pay the full price for the time spent with an MA. There are many reputable MAs who offer this service, but to go to an RMT to see if "she's willing" to give you that happy ending at the RMT rate is truly sad.

[Gregsand 6116]

Some people need to understand the difference between what's normal and what's not.

 

It's like having someone saying he ended up in bed with a bar waitress after tipping her generously all evening, and you somehow believe this is customary.

 

Life is full of surprises, and should be appreciated as such. If someone from the health, restauration or other industry wants to get personal and physical with you, there's nothing that stops you from a discreet and respectful relationship. But if you choose to deal with that person for this sole purpose, it will make it awkward for both on top of potential legal and personal problems.

 

If you want a fwb/gf use POF or other dating websites. If you want something else, SP's and MA's are there for that purpose. Be a responsible adult and don't expect fairytales(or porno) scenarios from every encounters.

[gorky2949 1000]

I get it as I've had insurance cover a few happy endings much to the benefit of all involved. As with much of sexual life its reading what is unsaid and simply a matter of taking in subtle cues. But just straight up asking an RMT without any hints would be very rude.