forkyew 225 Report post Posted November 29, 2017 Meaghan, I think you're missing the point I was trying to make. Being open right from the very beginning about your restrictions is perhaps a good idea. However, to openly offer a bare service as a first and only reply to a question about this woman's availability, is not being open. It tells me that she is a very risky woman. In other words, I think there is a movement of SPs who are trying to get an edge on their competition by openly offering these bare services. Yes, there is demand for that service, but the demand is being encouraged by the supply. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ottawacomet 8139 Report post Posted December 10, 2017 I maybe a little old fashion and a gentleman but why are men asking providers to put lives at risk. She has no idea about the you or what have you been up to. As for the low ballers it is the same thing she has set her price and if she wants to give you a discounted then it is up to her. These are just a matter of respect and good manners. We are both adults not a bunch of children... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest *ass**x Report post Posted December 13, 2017 Agreed, but it is not always the man seeking this service. I have been in mid appointment and had, at least, two providers say "put it in" sans condom. I didn't ask for it and did not do it...but it is offered and there was no uncharge specified. Don't bother asking for names. I will not give them out. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Gregsand 6116 Report post Posted December 13, 2017 Agreed, but it is not always the man seeking this service. I have been in mid appointment and had, at least, two providers say "put it in" sans condom. I didn't ask for it and did not do it...but it is offered and there was no uncharge specified. Don't bother asking for names. I will not give them out. In the past two decades of doing business with SP's , I also seen similar situations. When chemistry and trust exists between a lobbyist and provider, you compensate more for the time than the actual service. And when both feel a bit too comfortable and emotions are high, people tend to do foolish things in the heat of the moment. We can all pretend it never happens, but nobody's perfect as we're all human. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest *ass**x Report post Posted December 13, 2017 In those situation it was with established and favourite SPs. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Gregsand 6116 Report post Posted December 13, 2017 In those situation it was with established and favourite SPs. What happens between two adults behind closed door is their own business. Not condoning it, but lobbyists and providers have to take responsibility for their own actions. No need to say more on the subject. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Sensual Saddie! 609 Report post Posted December 13, 2017 Hi lady and gent,Is it me or low baler and people asking for bare sex is more and more frequent? Is it me who is becoming less patient or it becoming a real problem? Just today I block 5 person from asking bare sex or/and barging...on top of people not reading ad !!! Sorry guess just need to vent a little. I totally agree have been an SP for many years off and on. But in the last year this negotiations and or asking for Bare everything has become out of control. I have never been asked these two questions so much but in the past year. My guess to why is once one lady offered it than it all began to fall apart. This industry was a diamond on a ruff before it became so main stream. Now i do understand if a SP wants to give a regular client a deal once and a while but for someone you never seen before to ask you to cut your already reasonable rate in half is ridiculous. It really is becoming so frustrating but hopefully as time goes on we can fix things to accommodate the rest of us who still take pride in what we offer and do a good job at it. Sorry rant over! 4 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Gregsand 6116 Report post Posted December 13, 2017 This industry was a diamond on a ruff before it became so main stream. Sorry but I don't buy into this argument. For a long time, we could find escort ads in newspapers. In places like Montreal, Ottawa and Toronto, full columns and everyone knew what they were. Now they all moved online and not everyone is familiar on where to look to find providers. I recently visited Quebec city and couldn't find where the local SP's were advertising and very few used CL or BP. Ways of advertisement and communication have evolved, but to the public eye the sex trade still remains the same. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
