Cat: A Southern Belle and sheer delight

[loneskater 25635]

It is valuable for prospective clients to have a place to share their service experiences, good and bad, and especially to warn others of "fly by night" operations and poor quality experiences based on the advertising provided.

 

Some gentlemen have the habit of "over-sharing" on the forum. They say some things that are, frankly, quite rude from a lady's perspective.

 

I'm sensitive to the issue from a similar thread to this present discussion in the SPs private area. Guys -- we're talking about very personal private acts, people's bodies, and things we do together which, in all other areas of life, are kept extremely private. Why would any "gentleman" even care to disclose on a public forum such explicit information unless he was bragging?

 

As SPs we don't review you in explicit detail. We don't go off to our private SPs area and discuss your body parts or who you are in the daytime or your jobs or how you perform when you are with us. We're very professional. We talk about whether you're a reliable client, keep your appointments with us or habitually cancel, are easy or difficult to set up appointments with, whether you hassle, stalk, or otherwise exhibit predatory behaviour, and occasionally a comment comes up if someone hasn't washed their willie lately. That's it. All about the business.

 

I have to agree on the part where you talk about over doing a review and bragging. There is no need to provide explicit details. I think the ones where member provide a rating for such things as service etc... are appropriate. There is also nothing wrong with saying if what the SP advertises for service is true or not. If she advertises BBBJ I don't see it as something wrong to say if she did or did not provide this service. There is also nothing wrong in saying an SP is a safe GFE if she is. There are many clents who are happy with this type of service. The review has to be honest.

 

I have something to add to what you said about some comments being rude and how you do not discuss such things on the SP only area. Yes I must say some of these reviews go too far and comments might be rude. However not only are they shared between clients but all SPs who are member have a chance to view all comments and provide a response if we are not acurate or have not seen your side of things. When it comes to the SP area only, we as a client can not see anything and therefore do not have a chance to respond. We saw on another tread about antlerman how easily mistakes can be made.

 

What if a client does happen to be late for some reason but you do put a comment in the SP area. He would not know that is name is even on your SP discussion. What if it was the one and only time this ever happen. We are all human and the next SP who gets a call from that client might say I will give him the last appointment of the day, this way if he is late it will not interfere with other appointments or decide not to see him.

 

I am not saying here that you should not have this SP only area because I am sure there are safety related discussions in that area that need to be shared between SPs. I have always said the SPs safety is extremely important. But you have to admit that, under normal circumstances, discussing someone and not providing him a chance to give his side off the story is also not fair. So SPs have concerns and clients too. It is great that we can discuss them here.

[rickoshadows 937]

I Why would any "gentleman" even care to disclose on a public forum such explicit information unless he was bragging?

 

BINGO!

 

For many of the "gentlemen" who frequent this and other boards. This is the only place they can talk about their exploits. They are keeping it secret from their families, friends, co-workers and neighbors. That is why these forums, while commonly referred to as "Review Boards" have less reviewing and more discussion about many things related to this activity. I wouldn't worry too much about it, we all understand that a good fish story usually has some embellishment to it, kinda like a phone girl's description of the staff (sorry, couldn't resist). I myself, prefer to read a few details about an encounter to explain why the reviewer gives a certain rating. An outstanding review without any details is useless just as is a poor review without any details as to why, is useless at best and slander at worst.

[d*mm*y 887]

Visited Cat today, she has a new location and it is stunning!!! I am so jealous of the Sana! The flow of the place is incredible it is a real Victorian gem in sandy hill and very fitting for this incredible lady. I am sure that there are going to be some very good times in the new space, I know I plan to visit regularly. Candles, big crown moldings, high ceilings, classy decor, comfy coaches, and a nice large bed. This is a great place designed with comfort and satisfaction for us, take some time out and visit the new place, you won't regret it.

[amadeus65 113]

:DI would like to see cat sometime myself, I have been all through the south so would probably have good conversation with her, very very good posts on this thread, she definately sounds like a wonderful woman at least from what i have read, i dont get east very often though, but i would look her up in a heartbeat, I actually spoke to the sp i am seeing next week and we had a wonderful conversation, if its one thing I respect its an educated and well travelled woman, I know there are plenty of things we can talk about to break the ice and that is sooooo imporant to a shy guy like me :-)

[cat 262460]

:DI would like to see cat sometime myself, I have been all through the south so would probably have good conversation with her, very very good posts on this thread, she definately sounds like a wonderful woman at least from what i have read, i dont get east very often though, but i would look her up in a heartbeat, I actually spoke to the sp i am seeing next week and we had a wonderful conversation, if its one thing I respect its an educated and well travelled woman, I know there are plenty of things we can talk about to break the ice and that is sooooo imporant to a shy guy like me :-)

 

Darling Amadeus,

 

I can't agree more that conversation is key to a great experience. I love finding a man that has a whole pocketful of stories and experiences to share. It is the test for me, if our couch time doesn't click then I simply explain to my guest that this probably isn't going to work. I appreciate how hard you gentlemen work for your paycheck and I would not want someone to walk away with anything less than 100% of me. If the connection isn't there, then I am not there either and I won't continue. He leaves with his wallet intact, and the option of looking for someone who is better suited to him. This is all about people finding that spark, and no one is perfect for everyone. That is why it's always so much fun, there are so many options out there!

 

I am so glad you finally are getting someone out your neck of the woods. Have a great time, enjoy and smile....

 

Catherine

[amadeus65 113]

thanks cat i definately will, i tell you though another 10 years and i am heading to warmer climes, holly springs, MS is just about right for me, love the smell of the magnolias in may :-), plus not too far from Tunica which is even better. I agree on conversation, for me if i cant talk and "warm up" so to speak it wont be a satisfying experience. Take care and again happy mothers day to you :-)

[donchichi 100]

she sounds like a lot of fun, im gona give her a try