jjnk 100 Report post Posted January 16, 2011 Ok I know I posted a similar question a little while but here?s the deal: I am a university student and really want to see an escort, most likely for an incall (as the whole outcall thing requires allot more money and preparation with the hotel and all) but I cannot shake the fear of getting busted and having my life ruined as a result. I know quite a few people have told me that an incall with a privately run escort would probably not be targeted by the police but what if... This issue has really been troubling me for the past while and looking up the Canadian laws have bothered me even more. Form what I?ve read couldn't I technically get in quite a bit of trouble just for going into an sp's house since it would be considered to be a bawdy house? What is the actual penalty for this? would it be a criminal record..car taken away.. massive fine? Then again has there ever been an incall bust for visiting a privately run sp? Also, do you think it would be safer to see an sp who works out of an apartment vs. house, since there would be possibly less suspicion form neighbours? Perhaps for total safety and outcall may be the only way to go. Sorry for bringing this up again, as a post like this most like puts a damper on everyone?s mood who comes where to discuss the amazing experiences that they have recently had, but again the more opinions on this matter and info I can get form people who are experienced the better. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Megan'sTouch 23875 Report post Posted January 17, 2011 Post Deleted. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
fortunateone 156618 Report post Posted January 17, 2011 Well, to be blunt, for 'pefect" safety, don't do it at all. At this point, your paranoia whether outcall, incall or hotel room rental is destroying any chance at all of relaxing enough to have a good time. This is not something you should be doing. If however, you can stop the scare tactics (on yourself) and actually listen to reality, (not your fanciful imaginations based on American television) then even a tiny bit of common sense will tell you that the chance that LE is sitting around, wiretapping or email inspecting your chosen sps interactions with potential clients enough to narrow down the exact day and time that you plan to show up, then while watching from outside her location (assuming that they have also been monitoring all of your conversations (whether by phone or online) to the point where she has provided her complete address, so they know where to go, after 10 minutes or so of you being welcomed by your chosen sp, they bust down the door of the lobby, and using that same door busting device, then break down her apartment door, and a half dozen officers armed to the teeth, plus one dog for effect, burst into that apartment while you are just starting to relax and start shouting and breaking things, while you scramble into your clothes, hit the ground arms over your head and......... OK, so the other thing that is wrong with that scenario is that not ever not once has such an event ever been mentioned, reported or even reported in the news....for a independent sp working privately from a discrete incall location, on her own. And to answer one question, choose someone in an apartment not a house. 3 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest al****s Report post Posted January 17, 2011 (edited) I don't think that this is the right route for you. I think your paranoia and the fact that you get so worked up just thinking about taking this leap speaks volumes. I can't foresee an enjoyable time between you and an escort with the feelings you have. There are many other ways to meet women...perhaps you should try some other avenues. Good luck to you... alexis...xoxo Edited January 17, 2011 by al****s Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
qwertyaccount 15793 Report post Posted January 17, 2011 How many of the kids at your University smoke pot? Outside of the new ?medicinal? exemptions it is something that is unquestionably illegal to grow, sell, possess or use. It is something that has to pass though many hands before it reaches yours. How many are arrested for smoking openly? This is something where the legalities are murky at best, especially in the light of the recent court challenge, between two consenting adults behind closed doors in a discrete manner. Stick to the recommendations you?ll find here at cerb and 99.99999% of the time you?ll be ok. I think alexiss is correct, considering how nervous you seem to be, this probably isn?t the right time, maybe next month, maybe tomorrow, but not today. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Capital Hunter 18263 Report post Posted January 17, 2011 (edited) You are a student and you can meet female students relatively easy in university social events, parties and classrooms/labs. That was how I did when I was student lasting 10 years with little money. If you have to meet escorts, it doesn't take that much to book a relatively inexpensive hotel for one night (search for special deals, check sites like hotwire.com and book well in advance for cheaper rates) or even a motel. This way you will relax as you feel comfortable that what you do is not illegal and can enjoy your time. Incalls are illegal but it is very low risk unless a complain is made (noise, heavy traffic) or drugs are involved. I don't do it myself so I can't advise it to another person except giving you the facts that it is illegal but very low risk. Edited January 18, 2011 by S*****t Ad*****r Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Seymour 3970 Report post Posted January 17, 2011 I cannot shake the fear of getting busted No one here can tell you what to do - only you can decide what you are going to do. With everything there is risk and you are the best authority on your risk tolerance. Incall or outcall aside, if the above fear is on your mind, you likely will not enjoy your experience if/when you decide to proceed with it. When you have conquered your fear, you will benefit from a much better experience. Good luck. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SamanthaEvans 166767 Report post Posted January 17, 2011 At this point, your paranoia whether outcall, incall or hotel room rental is destroying any chance at all of relaxing enough to have a good time. This is not something you should be doing. I agree with everything the other ladies have said, here. I'd just like to say that if I know a prospective client is as nervous as you are, I won't see him. It's reasonable to be nervous or a little tentative. After all, you're meeting a stranger for an intimate connection. I think it's important for me, as a companion, to do what I can to help ease a guest's mind and help him relax, reassuring him that I am who I said I am and that he can expect to enjoy himself. If I do say so myself, it's rare for me not to succeed.... But I would not be comfortable with someone who is so suspicious and, frankly, paranoid. From my standpoint, such a man is not with me, but is engaged with hostile, dangerous fantasies that may encourage him not only to misinterpret things I do or say but also to act abruptly or unpredictably on such misinterpretations, putting me in harm's way. That's not a risk I will take. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest G***f****** Report post Posted January 17, 2011 You are a student and you can meet female students relatively easy in university social events, parties and classrooms/labs. That was how I did when I was student lasting 10 years with little money. . For some people, that is much, MUCH easier said than done. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
stevecurious 42059 Report post Posted January 17, 2011 For some people, that is much, MUCH easier said than done. I agree, when I was that age I didn't have the confidence to ask myself out! I am a much different person now...due mostly to my low self esteem being at an all time high! Regardless if you are feeling hesitant in anyway toward meeting a lady, your first lady as it would seem, then my advice is to wait. Wait to see if your nerves ease up or if you will always be hesitant when attempting to book. Afterall how much fun can you have with THOSE thoughts in your head. Take a step back and re-evaluate your situation...there is no harm or shame in being patient! Sometimes we need our minds to catch up to our bodies... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Capital Hunter 18263 Report post Posted January 18, 2011 You are a student and you can meet female students relatively easy in university social events, parties and classrooms/labs. That was how I did when I was student lasting 10 years with little money. Actually I have to clarify my statement above. I was looking through my own window. I was very happy and fulfilled with friendship, partying/dancing, sharing lunch, socializing at the dorms/schools/classrooms. The requirements for my fulfillment did not include sex at that time. I now notice that the OP may have a different requirement than I used to have at the time. So, I take back the suggestion/statement, though I remember many students in relationships. On another issue (asked by OP but likely not so far responded) : I am no lawyer but if you don't have a criminal record and caught first time, the penalty is not likely a criminal record but you may qualify to pay a fine to cover the cost of what is called "Johns' school" where you have to attend for a week or so). However, You will have a record which may likely ruin your life, if you are already charged with same crime before, or have criminal record. This is to the best of my knowledge but as I said I am NOT a lawyer and I could be wrong. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
