forkyew 225 Report post Posted December 23, 2017 Last night, I was about to contact an SP. However, as I keyed her number into my phone, a pre-existing contact popped up on my phone! I already know her. She's MY customer. I run a small delivery service business, and I have delivered to her several times. We already know each other and have a pre-exising, semi-flirty, but still a business relationship. On one hand, this is great. I already know her. I know her pictures are real. I know she lives in a positive environment etc. Certainly, she knows that I am safe for her. I'd certainly enjoy availing myself of the services that she provides, but ... Is this appropriate? Should I contact her and acknowledge who I am, or should I simply let this one go and pretend that I know nothing about her livelihood? 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
alpharise 413 Report post Posted December 25, 2017 Maybe if you go ahead with it and don't say anything, maybe she won't say anything either! That could be exciting, but since you don't know her reaction, a little risky too. (Those things left unsaid..) 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Dbass34 2238 Report post Posted December 25, 2017 Hmmmmm... I would avoid. Don't mix up thing, in case you end up with an issue. It's a big risk! 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Report post Posted December 25, 2017 Personally if someone I knew in my civilian life were to approach me as a client.. I would find that very awkward and uncomfortable. It would also make me uncomfortable if I needed that persons delivery services again. Just my feelings. Maybe other ladies feel differently ?? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Prufrock Cummings Report post Posted December 25, 2017 This is an interesting one for sure! If I were in your shoes and really wanted to book time, I would go forward with full disclosure so that there are no unpleasant surprises. Worst case she says no, but on the flip side, she might say YES, I'd love to see you! Best of luck to you! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NotchJohnson 214132 Report post Posted December 25, 2017 Do you really want to get in an awkward situation and then wish you could go back in time? It's a tough decision to make, first you already know how she looks and she knows you, will it always stay a comfortable situation when you will see her in the future in your professional life? If you decide to go ahead with it which I would not myself, I would advise her that things would remain the same as before when you meet her on your delivery route. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Jabba 18389 Report post Posted December 25, 2017 While potentially a hot (but cliche - sorry) scenario, I would avoid. Keep it simple, professional & cordial. Things could get complicated if for example, you both expect concessions from each other on your services. While enjoyable to think about - it may be just that ... "enjoyable". 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Source 1015 Report post Posted December 25, 2017 I'd pull a U-turn and explore elsewhere. I want to keep an airtight seal between my hobby life and my regular life. On the flipside, who says that lady doesn't have an incall place and wants to keep her living place confidential? Some ladies are very sensitive (with obvious reasons) about this... Contacting her for services would be skating on very thin ice, in mho. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bobbi 1388 Report post Posted December 25, 2017 ... as I keyed her number into my phone, a pre-existing contact popped up on my phone! I already know her. She's MY customer. She advertised her escort services with the same number she's been using (for a long time) for her personal life? 3 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
forkyew 225 Report post Posted December 25, 2017 She advertised her escort services with the same number she's been using (for a long time) for her personal life? Apparently, yes. After noticing the match up on my contact list, I did some googling. I see now that she has advertised with two different numbers. The newest number appeared on a Backpage ad a couple of days ago. Anyhow, I appreciate everybody's advice. I'll just quietly go about my delivery business with her without drawing attention to what I've discovered. Thanks! 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
waterat 20911 Report post Posted December 26, 2017 I guess I agree with the advice that has been offered above but I'll add a different perspective. While an awkward dynamic might get in the way of your delivery business (could be sort of sexy turn-on too! lol) I think that discretion is somewhat assured by the 'MAD' (mutually assured destruction) principle. Not completely 'assured' - that is reserved for death and taxes. There is another possibility: maybe she is unaware that a number has been used for both businesses. She may not fully comprehend the long term memory of the internet or just goofed up posting an add - two or three glasses of wine can make me impulsive and silly! lol She might really appreciate the heads-up that she has cross-linked her businesses and you both get to have some fun while making her aware. I had something similar happen with a very active and well reviewed member here - her email account for escorting somehow got linked to her personal email and her name would appear when I went to reply to her. I warned her but didn't hear back (turned out she didn't want to acknowledge anything over email) so I went to visit her again and ensure she was taking action to fix this. She really appreciated my concern and discretion and we had an absolutely lovely time. I think she is semi-retired now but writing this has inspired me to arrange another visit if she's still working. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
forkyew 225 Report post Posted December 26, 2017 To be honest, I am no longer certain its her. The age and body type certainly matches up, and I was relying on the fact that the phone numbers match up. However, as of yesterday she was advertising with a THIRD number. So, either this is a scam, or she's read my posting here and decided to change her phone number. It's actually possible that my client now owns the phone number previously used by this SP. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
waterat 20911 Report post Posted December 26, 2017 It's actually possible that my client now owns the phone number previously used by this SP. Timelines would likely determine whether that is the case..... don't bother letting your delivery client know that her number was previously used by an escort http://cerb.ca/vbulletin/images/icons/icon11.gif but do continue to make flirtatious deliveries! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
$magnum 493 Report post Posted December 27, 2017 Personnaly i find it exciting it hapend to me with a girl i new working in a bar i recognise her pic on her add When i returned to the bar i started to flirt a bit and told her about the add and she was hapy that i aproched her we met and still do and still go see her at the bar 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Meg O'Ryan 266444 Report post Posted December 27, 2017 I prefer to keep my civilian life completely separate and would feel completely uncomfortable if that situation arose especially if my guest was aware that he knew me almost kind of creepy 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
forkyew 225 Report post Posted December 27, 2017 I prefer to keep my civilian life completely separate and would feel completely uncomfortable if that situation arose especially if my guest was aware that he knew me almost kind of creepy I understand. I feel kind of badly after seeing nude pictures of her. It seems wrong now to approach her at the door with a delivery, see her in person, repeat that nude picture in my mind, and she doesn't get any compensation for it. Not fair, but it's probably not right to draw attention to the ad because as you and others have said, she likely wants to keep her civilian life separate. Oh well, I guess this isn't really my problem so long as I leave it alone now and don't pursue it. Each of you women who choose this occupation are taking a risk that you will be discovered by people you'd rather not discover you. The fact that I have discovered "you", isn't my fault. Additional Comments: No, I don't know this girl. I'm being fooled. Time to expose her. http://ottawa.backpage.ca/FemaleEscorts/sexy-blonde-jenna-incal-outcall-6139005113-downtown/93249272 http://ottawa.backpage.ca/FemaleEscorts/let-s-break-all-the-rules-today-not-much-restrictions-wild-and-pretty/99579567 Note the seated girl with the bra. Note the name change. This is also the third phone number as I mentioned above. This is all BS!!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ashley Ann 75247 Report post Posted January 9, 2018 A long time ago, prior to joining this site and/or using the internet to schedule appointments, I was advertising via the Ottawa Sun classifieds section. One day, I booked an appointment at my in-call location. Once the gentleman arrived, I looked through the peephole of my apartment door only to recognize him as someone I used to associate with in my high school days. I did not answer the door. He eventually left and called back and I told him that I had to cancel due to a last minute emergency and he hung up on me. I understand the fact that he was annoyed, however there was no way I was opening that door, even to say no thank you - as this would have exposed me as a provider, and he would have been exposed as a client, which I am certain he would also want no one in his inner circle to know. Too much at risk, I would never want to meet with clients who knew me in my personal life. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
2bigalow2 2938 Report post Posted January 10, 2018 A long time ago, prior to joining this site and/or using the internet to schedule appointments, I was advertising via the Ottawa Sun classifieds section. One day, I booked an appointment at my in-call location. Once the gentleman arrived, I looked through the peephole of my apartment door only to recognize him as someone I used to associate with in my high school days. I did not answer the door. He eventually left and called back and I told him that I had to cancel due to a last minute emergency and he hung up on me. I understand the fact that he was annoyed, however there was no way I was opening that door, even to say no thank you - as this would have exposed me as a provider, and he would have been exposed as a client, which I am certain he would also want no one in his inner circle to know. Too much at risk, I would never want to meet with clients who knew me in my personal life. you should have called him back 1st if possible and apologized. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ashley Ann 75247 Report post Posted January 10, 2018 you should have called him back 1st if possible and apologized. As I said previously in my initial post - Ottawa sun days - did not have a contact number to reach him at other than the payphone he called me from. Thanks for posting! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
IsaMassage 54318 Report post Posted January 10, 2018 I advertise my massage service with a different number than my personal one.. as this is not 2 things i like to get mixed up.. because i use an app on my phone the contacts do get shared for both and it has happened to me that people i know in a personal way have contacted me for a massage.. sometimes i just ignore their request but if it becomes repetitive i just give some general info and then saybi am busy or for anyother reaspn i cant take their booking.. and then if we get to see each other in a personal level i just ignored they contacted me and dont mix my friendship with my business... therefore if ahe showed up in yoir contacts... you will show up.in hers too... or if she uses ur services ina. regular basis she will.recognize the number .. on the other hand .. if she is advertising with her personal number.. most likely is she is ok with people from her personal life knowing about her escort services. so you have 2 options.. 1. just let it go and dont try contacting her.. if youbthinknit woud be awkard.. or u wpuldnt want her to know u use escort services... 2. contact her normally as if u dont know.. if ahe sees ur number and ignores you or looks for an excuse to not see you.. this means she would be uncomfortable seeing you .. if she follows along just go along and dont mention anything. I think that if you go full.disclosure can be more awkard if she decides that after knowing the situation she wouldnt want to see you... because at this point it means she didnt want to mix both and most likely she will never use your service again... IMO Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bobbi 1388 Report post Posted January 11, 2018 I advertise my massage service with a different number than my personal one.. as this is not 2 things i like to get mixed up.. because i use an app on my phone the contacts do get shared for both and it has happened to me that people i know in a personal way have contacted me for a massage.. sometimes i just ignore their request but if it becomes repetitive i just give some general info and then saybi am busy or for anyother reaspn i cant take their booking.. and then if we get to see each other in a personal level i just ignored they contacted me and dont mix my friendship with my business... therefore if ahe showed up in yoir contacts... you will show up.in hers too... or if she uses ur services ina. regular basis she will.recognize the number Most likely he uses a app too therefore you won't have his app number in your contacts. Why would he want to mix his personal life with his service seeker life. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Katherine of Halifax 113932 Report post Posted January 11, 2018 Most likely he uses a app too therefore you won't have his app number in your contacts. Why would he want to mix his personal life with his service seeker life. Exactly , to many creepers out there. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
