holigone 100 Report post Posted April 21, 2008 My girlfriend and I are curious about introducing another woman into our sex lives. We have talked about it on and off for awhile and it gets her very excited. A few months or so ago we were messing around and she started talking very specifically about what she wanted. We decided that the big issue for us is that we wouldn't want it to be anyone we know and we would want whomever we find to be discreet, professional and patient about how fast or slow things go at first. She has never been with another woman before. Has anyone here brought an escort into your relationship before? Details, advice, discussion is appreciated. EDIT: I originally posted this as a request for recommendations in the TO area, but I figure it might be worthy of discussion here as well. It might also get noticed! (I hope) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
antlerman 17064 Report post Posted April 22, 2008 there are many similar topics like this on other boards.....but I would be interested to see what this board has to say about this.... As this has never happened to me I can not add any incite to your question Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SunSky 101 Report post Posted April 22, 2008 My girlfriend and I are curious about introducing another woman into our sex lives. We have talked about it on and off for awhile and it gets her very excited. A few months or so ago we were messing around and she started talking very specifically about what she wanted. We decided that the big issue for us is that we wouldn't want it to be anyone we know and we would want whomever we find to be discreet, professional and patient about how fast or slow things go at first. She has never been with another woman before. Has anyone here brought an escort into your relationship before? Details, advice, discussion is appreciated. EDIT: I originally posted this as a request for recommendations in the TO area, but I figure it might be worthy of discussion here as well. It might also get noticed! (I hope) Hi...We do cater to couples...The best advice i can give you two is this...First of all It's great that you are supportive to your gf's desire to pursue this fantasy...Make sure you both discuss what the boundaries are...Do's and don'ts before you start any play at all...There can't be any jealousy between you both...Onething you do need to make sure of, since this is her first time experience..That it's a memorable one for her...You don't want her to try it and it ends up being a bad experience and she won't do it again...Your gf is in control, this is mainly for her...You can't be selfish, just continue to be supportive to her...This is a fantasy for both of you to enjoy and enhance your relationship...When you do hire an SP make sure she knows that it's her first time and to be delicate and handle your gf gently...If your gf doesn't want to go down on Sp, she doesn't have to..She can just cuddle and caress....Sex isn't just about intercourse, there are many other sexual sensations that can be just as pleasureable...It might be best for you to let your gf and SP start out together while you watch a bit...Just tell your gf to let you know when she wants you to join in...As i said "communicate as adults"...Make sure if the SP has toys, that condoms are put on them before she uses them...You can read the review in our website GnL did for us..They are a cple we have been with...If you want you can email me and i'll answer any questions you or your gf may have and do my best to guide you in the right direction to get this fantasy fulfilled...I hope this helps you both...Good luck... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
d*mm*y 887 Report post Posted April 29, 2008 In a past relationship I had, my exwife really wanted to do this, we went to swing clubs, strip clubs rub clubs etc... However she wanted to have sex with the 2 of us, not me to have sex with the other girl, as long we were all paying attention to her, more importantly I did not notice that were other people in the bed with us, it was all good. It was actually easier for me with another guy because I was not distracted from my wife. She eventually just started seeing women without me. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites