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[Ottawacomet 8139]

This a simple choice for the client if he or she wants to see a certain provider than you have to follow their screening process. The screening process is in place for the providers safety and to ensure they are comfortable when you arrive at their door or your room door. If you do not want to follow that providers screening process than move on to another provider who has a screening process your comfortable with and see them...

[Gregsand 6116]

Gregsand I'm hoping you don't respond to my post though I realize you may, given your posting pattern. I have no idea whether many will agree with me but given the positive approach here on lyla I would hope there are some. I'm not neutral. I agree with the ladies' posts. If you carefully read the posts the message is quite straightforward and clear. Screening: Just do it. Or move on.

 

I've only been seeing sex workers for a little over 7 years and I've only been asked once to provide a reference (6 years ago). The ladies I visit are almost exclusively lyla members so it is easy for me to get a sense of their approach and reputation but I always marvel at their calm and poise when this stranger (me) shows up at their door. They are strong women and I respect and appreciate them.

 

Cheers.

 

Instead of jumping on the band wagon and demonizing me, you should maybe read my comments and see for yourself what I posted. I never once objected to the screening procedure. I simply said it could be done in many ways. Providing personal info should simply be a last resort. I never had any problems in providing multiple recommendations and was often invited for repeat sessions.

 

Having a different opinion on something doesn't mean I don't respect or appreciate women. If you want to say otherwise, you better post something better than a few misinterpreted or out of context comments!

[GoinDown 3669]

@ gregsand let it go man ! you're not going to 'win' this debate nor should you.

[cat 262460]

Instead of jumping on the band wagon and demonizing me, you should maybe read my comments and see for yourself what I posted. I never once objected to the screening procedure. I simply said it could be done in many ways. Providing personal info should simply be a last resort. I never had any problems in providing multiple recommendations and was often invited for repeat sessions.

 

Having a different opinion on something doesn't mean I don't respect or appreciate women. If you want to say otherwise, you better post something better than a few misinterpreted or out of context comments!

 

I've read your comments, word for word and you never once gave logical and viable alternatives to providing personal information that has actual accountability in any of your posts that you claim to have. You actually never provide anything asked of you to further the conversation, like statistics of violence against clients (which you claim is a genuine risk in todays industry) or ways to facilitate business transactions in this industry that meets both sides needs which you again, claimed to have. The fact you reiterate you get invited back screams "I'm a good guy!!!" Men who need to tell women they're good guys usually aren't so I do question your statement of respect and appreciation of women. You prefer women that are willing to negate keeping themselves safe which indicates you target women that probably struggle with self worth and self respect. Typical nice guy behaviour. ;)

 

From what I can see, waterat doesn't quote you at all, let alone misquote or take you out of context. He obviously read your comments, doesn't demonize you; he simply disagreed with you. Telling him "you better post something better than a few misinterpreted or out of context comments!" is again not furthering the conversation given it didn't apply to his actual post but attacked him for simply speaking his truth. Once again, the insight is fascinating...

 

smiles, cat

[Jasmine Rain 23126]

Instead of jumping on the band wagon and demonizing me, you should maybe read my comments and see for yourself what I posted. I never once objected to the screening procedure. I simply said it could be done in many ways. Providing personal info should simply be a last resort. I never had any problems in providing multiple recommendations and was often invited for repeat sessions.

 

Having a different opinion on something doesn't mean I don't respect or appreciate women. If you want to say otherwise, you better post something better than a few misinterpreted or out of context comments!

 

Wait, wait, wait.

 

Sorry, I know I am becoming the bain of your existence here but I can't just let this ridiculousness go on.

 

Jumping on the bandwagon? So anyone who does not agree with you is "demonizing you"? Really? Can't be that you are behaving the way people are saying. You have how many people in this thread alone telling you how your attitude towards us is arrogant, passive aggressive and in some case just downright rude and condescending and yet you say you are being demonized? No sweetie, you are being called out. There is a difference.

 

Secondly, no you don't respect the screening process at all and you do object to it. The first part of ALL screening is getting personal information such as real name and real phone number. The reference, board handle, work verification, that is all a choice for the escort to extend her screening, but the screening starts with PERSONAL INFORMATION. Debating that, saying that personal information sharing should be a last resort, when in fact it is the FIRST, is objecting to it. How does that not compute?

 

Third, you are also giving those rubbish excuses. You are a good client because got invited back to see other escorts? I am sorry to say but I personally, and I am not alone, have you on my Do Not Book list. Simply from your post history. You are a person, I would decline. That is how screening works. You say you are a good guy, would be a good client but I personally do not think so. Maybe you are with others, but you would not be with me.

 

Escorting and screening are not just about physical safety. It is about emotional and mental health, safety and comfortability. I think you are arrogant, misogynistic and I truly feel you are or have some type of narcissistic personality issues. Reading your post on this and other topics as given me a glimpse into your mind and I would never book with you. Don't worry, you don't have tell me you would not book with me either. I already know. You don't like me. You don't like strong women who counter you. So it is equal in that regard.

 

It is just proof that the "but I am good guy" line is a rubbish excuse, just like the author of the article said.

 

I would get into the rest, but Cat covered it. She hit the nail on the head with your lack of providing anything relative other than your objections and disdain.

[Shadowman007 1704]

Just to add my 2 cents here, I have read this thread with great interest. I believe the Business entity is entitled to set up the business model they choose and if we do not want to conform to that business model, it is pretty easy to just move on. I will use an example of my experience to explain what I am trying to say. Huge Golf fan, was taking my nephew to the driving range and the business chose not to offer payment via Debit or Credit, cash only business. They have a Debit machine on site and I could have chosen to use my debit card in the machine, for a fee and make the price of a bucket of Balls $3 more. But as there is another driving range down the street that has the same pricing, and does allow debit purchases I chose to leave the facility I was at and move down the road to a different location that conducted their business in a way that I choose to conduct my business. I hope this is clear in that I am saying I will always try to conduct business with an entity via their rules, and if I am not willing to follow those rules I will just move on and find a business of the same type that will be as I choose. I will never expect a business to change their modus operendi to suit me, but will find a business that does suit me. In conclusion, respect the business models as they are and your customer experience will be well received by the Businesses in question. You are the client and it is up to you to follow the rules, not vice versa. Respect is earned and not a right.

SM

[Jasmine Rain 23126]

Just to add my 2 cents here, I have read this thread with great interest. I believe the Business entity is entitled to set up the business model they choose and if we do not want to conform to that business model, it is pretty easy to just move on. I will use an example of my experience to explain what I am trying to say. Huge Golf fan, was taking my nephew to the driving range and the business chose not to offer payment via Debit or Credit, cash only business. They have a Debit machine on site and I could have chosen to use my debit card in the machine, for a fee and make the price of a bucket of Balls $3 more. But as there is another driving range down the street that has the same pricing, and does allow debit purchases I chose to leave the facility I was at and move down the road to a different location that conducted their business in a way that I choose to conduct my business. I hope this is clear in that I am saying I will always try to conduct business with an entity via their rules, and if I am not willing to follow those rules I will just move on and find a business of the same type that will be as I choose. I will never expect a business to change their modus operendi to suit me, but will find a business that does suit me. In conclusion, respect the business models as they are and your customer experience will be well received by the Businesses in question. You are the client and it is up to you to follow the rules, not vice versa. Respect is earned and not a right.

SM

 

 

That is a great way to handle it!

 

Much better than going YELP, Reddit and other sites complaining about why the driving range doesn't allow the payment pay that you want, stating how they are purposely making your life hell because you had to waste time and gas, how you nephew got all distraught and scared he would never be able to smack a ball and whatever other lame rubbish that could be thrown in there.

 

I think that is the big thing that most of us escorts are trying to say when these threads come up. If it doesn't work for you, just move on. Bringing up thread after thread after thread with the same tired excuses simply shows a lack of respect for us and in quite a few cases, it is a bullying attempt to get escorts to change ways that help ensure their safety.