The first time...

[ottawaadventurer 5114]

I don't know why, but several of the posts over the last few days have been quite nostalgic.

So, I'm wondering if anyone would care to share their first SP experience..

What made you decide to see an SP?

How did you choose one?

Was it a positive experience?

And anything else that might be interesting....

I bet there are lots of folks who read these boards who haven't yet taken the "leap".

These stories might well help... :-)

 

Thanks in advance to all who choose to post.

 

OA

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[roamingguy 300292]

My first sp encounter was in July 2010 in Kingston

Unfortunately it was a "lady" from CL...but live and learn

We had scheduled a time/date, with specific requests from her menu

First was clothing request...dress and high heels (she agreed)

She shows up dress and shower sandals, and a brace on her leg (her photos btw showed her wearing high heels and no brace)

Then she says she's having her period, but "got to pay the bills hun, got to pay the bills" (I'm not making this up) so all she can do is oral, but there's lots of things I can do...what daty?????...think about it

She asked for her feet to be kissed and toes sucked...I was game, but when I went down...well do you think she washed her feet

She needed to take alot of breaks, and before she left, she asked to use the bathroom...do you think she closed the door!!!

Booked two hours, but she wouldn't leave after time up

She gave me this great offer though, be her exclusive client, and I could see her at her motel. She also suggested I pay for her to come to my place so I could cook her a meal

As for not kicking her out when she arrived, she came by cab, and from my vantage point the cab never left the parking lot (over two hours)...discretion being the better part of valour, not knowing who was in the cab, I sucked it up and went through with the encounter

That's why since then I avoid CL like the plague

My other encounters have been much much better.

Only good thing about this encounter, it got me over the hump of seeing escorts, I've just learned there are much better and classier ladies out there

And this story is true btw

RG

[jafo105 39057]

As per the SP's request I can not mention the agency or her identity.

 

My first time was in November 2010. I contacted an agency and asked for a specific lady I saw on there web site. This was a Safe GFE two hour session. She turned out to be every bit as beautiful as her pictures. She is tall, slim, fit blond with blue eyes and in her early 30"s. (She is not a member of CERB)

 

We started off chatting and almost ran out of time. We did manage to get some play time in. I won't bore you with the details ;-) , but she was incredible! As she was leaving she handed be a card with her e-mail address on it. She said "I'm your little secret". I saw her four more times that month and every time she was amazing.

 

Now I see her once or twice a month. We always start off with tea and chatting, followed by some play time ;-) , then finish the session with some more tea and chatting.

 

She even touches base with me if I get bussy and forget to contact her.

 

Did I mention she is an incredible kisser.

 

I must say I lucked out with this one of a kind lady.

 

Cheers,

 

BTW I am seeing her again tomorrow evening.

[martie 110]

Many years ago when the only place you'd find SP's was on the Market. Came out of a bar and went for it. Needless to say it wasn't a very good experience and it was many years later before I ever tried hobbying again and the next time it was via a phone call to an agency.

[Kubrickfan 12836]

I'll give this a shot, but I think it would be great for some of our ladies here to share their first time SP stories as well ... I'm sure there are some interesting stories there.

 

For me, it was about 3 1/2 years ago when I first contacted Tracey at Ottawa Play Girls and arranged to visit Trish. I was way too shy to phone OPG, so my first contact was via OPG's website. Fortunately, Tracey wrote back or I still may be waiting. I was very nervous, and didn't last very long, Trish was wonderful, and we have had many visits since.

 

I feel lucky as I really cant say that I have ever had a really horrible visit with any lady (maybe a couple close calls). But that involves taking the time to do my homework and try to find ladies that I know I'm going to have fun with.

[moonshadow 369]

Roamingguy...that is a crazy story. You are my hero....I don't think

I could have gone through with that. LoL

 

My first time was summer 2010. A less than stellar experience with

a CERB lady. Very mechanical and antiseptic. She advertized as a GFE.

But there was no touching,cuddling, caressing, DATY, or kissing.

 

I was out of there before my 90 minutes was up with a bit of an

empty feeling. I was less than impressed.

 

Luckily the second woman that I visited gave me a much better experience,

so I'm still hobbying. I learned a lot from that first experience.

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[VedaSloan 119179]

I will tell you about my first experience as an escort.

 

I had no idea what I was doing in terms of security, information I needed to get, or even what to charge. I can be kind of impatient and rather than do much research, I threw caution to the wind and jumped in head first. It was with a gent from CL and it was pretty short and to the point--he only wanted oral. But he was clean and polite and the whole thing was over and done in no less than 15 minutes. And I had made what I would have at a full day of work at my then part-time job. Booyah.

[spence_ca 722]

I visited an MP Parlour in the city (also one of my first experiences on this front) and the girl gave me her telephone as I exited, suggesting I could see her sometime at her place. Being nervous enough about being seen entering the parlour I quickly accepted.

 

Upon my first visit to her place for a massage, she suggested there was more on the menu. Although I only visited her on a couple of occasions, neither repeat visit consisted of a massage. And so I broke my pseudo SP cherry!

[lustForLife 302]

Nov 2012 - nervous calling from outdoors to a Quebec City sp & little to no belief what would actually be going down. Had a great visit with a lovely & energetic young lady and afterwards phoned for my next visit right away!

 

A few visits to some wonderful Ott based sps later that week & was sold how great this could be! Now signed up here & reading about experiences all over -looking forward.

[whiteman 14028]

Boy, people here remember their first experiences right down to the month!? I'm a bit older than most here, I would say, so mine was in the late 80's (sorry, I'm too old remember months, or even exact years for that matter). :icon_wink:

 

My first encounter with a sex worker of any kind was with a stripper at a now defunct club in town called Cheek's Cabaret. The girl's name was Stacy. She and I agreed to meet at her place after work. The first time I was with her, I was way too excited to see a pussy, and so I spent the whole time just licking hers: no intercourse until the second time I saw her. At that time, just looking at a naked girl and touching her was enough for me. :icon_lol:

[Guest **oo**e]

The breath-taking Isabelle, a dancer from Pigale, at the Chateau Laurier, where we had a 24 hour sex marathon and I came 13 times. No bullshitting. Couldn't get enough of her.

[whiteman 14028]

The breath-taking Isabelle, a dancer from Pigale, at the Chateau Laurier, where we had a 24 hour sex marathon and I came 13 times. No bullshitting. Couldn't get enough of her.

Interesting, how long ago was that?

[Guest **oo**e]

Interesting, how long ago was that?

 

 

About 20-22 years ago.

[stand on guard 1186]

My first foray into the hobby occurred in 1995. The Ottawa Sun had and continues to have ads for escorts. I was always into older women and after calling a number of times, but never going through with it, I found an an for "mature independent pro". I remember how nervous I was as I was riding up the elevator and went to her door. She was wearing a teddy with fur on the bra portion. She led me to the bedroom and while my nerves made the experience, we managed to have a great time. I will never forget the sense of excitement as I entered her apartment. I had no idea what to expect, how long I would last, whether I would enjoy the experience, whether I would be able to please her and if it would be enjoyable. It was, and I continued to see her for many years and to this day. The sense of excitement is different now, but as she has remained in the same location all these years, I still remember the exhillirating feeling I had on that first visit.

[Meaghan McLeod 179664]

My very first experience was working in an agency. The madam told me "no matter what, do not discuss what you will do for the $". I wanted to make sure I didn't mess up, so I followed her lead.

 

Well, the gent came to the door. We exchanged pleasantries and he gave me my donation. He asked me a number of questions like "is anyone making you do this, is this what you want to do?" etc. I was so new, I didn't understand why he was asking these questions. He then stood up and said he was leaving. I was confused and actually devistated. What did I do wrong. Am I not pretty enough? Am I too fat? All these thoughts are running thru my head as I am showing him to the door.

 

I go back to let the owner know he has left and she can tell I am confused and upset. She then tells me that this is a guy from vice. They always come to check on new girls. Wants to make sure they are not underage, under pressure to work etc. She said, you passed with flying colours.

 

She then said the "doug" would like to see me. He is a regular and has a passion for ripping pantyhose off, so get an extra pair. Off I go to the drug store to get another paid of pantyhose. He comes to see me, and everything is going well. However, the pantyhose I had were the control tops and he could not rip these things no matter how hard he tried. If I had worn the cheap ones, it would not have been a problem, but because I was wearing $10 quality ones, they would not rip. I learned from that experience that in this business, buying the expensive quality items is not always the best thing.

 

I always have an extra set of pantyhose, thigh highs etc in my stash so I can accomodate these types of requests. I saw Doug a number of times after, and always had the cheap easy to rip pantyhose on hand for his pleasure.

 

Meaghan

[whiteman 14028]

About 20-22 years ago.

Nice! Things were a bit more easy-going back then, that you could have a full day with her.

[emiafish 30979]

I realized I have been in the hobby for longer than most of the SP's I see have been alive. My first time was with a street walker from the Main in Montreal back in the summer of 1980. This girl was a natural red head with a spinner body and more freckles than I had ever seen. She spoke no English and my French was only passable, but somehow we managed. The whole experience was mechanical and somewhat clinical. It was over quickly as well.

 

Since then I've had the great pleasure of sampling SP's from across North America, Europe and Asia. In truth, Ottawa has the best resident SP's that I have ever encountered in one place. This includes Vegas and Amsterdam. I am so grateful for the ladies of Ottawa and for the CERB community.

[Wolf Knight 29667]

(The first time continued......)

 

The door opened and my eyes rose from the floor. Disarmed! Emerald pools shimmered and suddenly I was awash in amazement and completely disarmed.

 

I had seen her photos and I expected beauty but was not prepared for the magnificent woman that stood before me. My head began to swirl, "was I dreaming?" Angelic features framed in crimson waves that cascaded over her shoulders culminated in soft full lips. Afraid to let eyes wander any further I stood transfixed in her gaze. She spoke but the sound of my own blood pounding through my veins drowned out her words. From her actions I knew she was inviting me in and I followed like a helpless lamb behind her.

 

Aware that jumping up and down and shouting, "Whooo-Hoooo!", would not be cool, I forced myself to snap out of my enamored schoolboy state.

 

We'd shared a number of e-mails over the weeks so instantly she felt familiar as she expertly glided to the sofa and opened the conversation. For an hour we sat and talked like old friends catching up, laughing and musing about each others lives.

 

As a first timer I had requested that we meet for two hours but within minutes of walking through the door I knew that an entire week would not be enough to even scratch the surface of what this amazing woman had to offer to the world. Truthfully, I could have sat, talked and gazed into her eyes for our entire encounter and left with a sense that I had just experienced something beautiful with one of the universes most unique and special creations.

 

But in the next moment she stopped and touched my hand and asked, "How are you?". My first instinct was to say, "very hard" but her touch was too much and my throat dried and I could only mutter, "great". She smiled and as her lips curled a hint of mischievousness crossed her face and she leaned in and whispered, "let's have some fun" and led me to the bedroom.

 

I was completely unprepared for the sensation that flooded over me as she pressed her lips against mine. A soft sensual lingering kiss left me reeling, blood coursing through my veins and we soon became very aware of where all that blood was rushing. I needed more of her, all of her. She made a couple of swift movements and I now felt her silken skin beneath my fingertips. Her body pressed against mine, I could feel her fingers nimbly making short work of removing the fabric between us.

 

Erotic and sensual she moved against me and as flesh met flesh the intensity grew. Like tender lovers of many years we melded into one with sweet agony breaking only for playful giggles and sighs of pleasure. As I finally lay panting against this woman, this work of art, this sculpture of perfection and gazed into her eyes I was instantly humbled. What I had searched for was not a conquest, not sex, not an orgasm, it was intimacy, and she had given me all of that and more. One of the world's most exquisite women had just given herself onto me and as I realized the gravity of her gift, part of me shattered, aware that my gift to her was not but a mere token of her worth.

 

Today I sit here and type these words truly humbled that this woman allowed me to know her. My hope is that all men once in their lives have the immense fortune of experiencing a woman of such grace and beauty.

 

Thank you Emily.

[Wolf Knight 29667]

After some thought, "first time" is a subjective thing. I don't feel like my first time is something that has come and gone. With so many wonderful SP's with their differences unique features I think each new time will feel like a "first" over and over again. I can't wait!