Enjoying this lifestyle

[NotchJohnson 214123]

I have started this lifestyle almost 10 years ago and I did look back a few times in those years(specially in the beginning before I found Cerb). I will admit it was awful at times and it almost made me quit it, but then comes some great ladies that will gives you the perfect date, sometime I couldn't imagine that it could be that perfect. I can honestly say that when it was bad it was very bad BUT when it was good it was amazing.

 

 

 

For those that know me, some of you personally(ladies I adore you) and the ones that are cyber friend(you guys rock) and the ones that will send me a PM thanking me for helping them with making a great choice it is greatly appreciated. I enjoy making new friend and helping out those who are serious about this.

 

 

With BP out and many of you looking for an alternative venue to find the perfect lady to spend from 1/2 an hour to a full day with I would like to shout out to all the ladies from Lyla to post more often their availability on this site. For about 1 year now I have met 6 ladies that have raised the bar up high on awesome dates.

 

 

 

I'm a new person now, I keep an open mind about the ladies that I meet. It doesn't matter if she was 20 years old or 60, if she was a white Canadian or Hispanic or Asian or if she is an Ebony lady I had fun with them because I listened. I listen to their body language, these ladies love what they do and if you are there to give as much as to receive then you are in for a good time.

 

One thing that made me feel good was one lady that I was kissing when I walked in the apartment, our eyes were closed but I took a quick look and noticed in the mirror that one of her leg was lifted back at the knee. Now I'm not sure what it really means but it was either because I was too tall and she needed to keep her balance or she was really enjoying the kiss.

 

 

 

In my last year of participating in this lifestyle I received many compliments form all those ladies. Compliments such as I was a great kisser, I made it worth it for her to get up early that morning, I have been more inside of her then anyone(with what she was feeling like that day), they were glad that they finally got to meet me, etc...

 

I will admit that when I first started this, it was to fill a void in my life. Now I do it because I want to improve myself with my love making skills with as many sexy ladies that this site offers.

 

 

 

So why have you chosen to be in this lifestyle?

[GoinDown 3669]

While I too enjoy it, I wouldn't glorify it too much.

Like cocaine, it can take control of your life.

[Studio 110 by Sophia 150333]

While I too enjoy it, I wouldn't glorify it too much.

Like cocaine, it is illegal to purchase !

 

Ohhhh dear! Sorry thats how you see this lifestyle!

To many of us, its a way for a man to have his own time away from whatvis expected, demanded, and predicted.

I mean, for my clients the purposly visit to have that hour or more just to unwind and decompress while enjoy some touch therapy and little extra ego boost!

[Katherine of Halifax 113932]

Ohhhh dear! Sorry thats how you see this lifestyle!

To many of us, its a way for a man to have his own time away from whatvis expected, demanded, and predicted.

I mean, for my clients the purposly visit to have that hour or more just to unwind and decompress while enjoy some touch therapy and little extra ego boost!

 

Well said Sophia. I was just thinking of how now to be rude in my reply. No need for me to take a great post and start an argument. :)

[GoinDown 3669]

Sugar coating it doesn't change what it is.

Every time a guy buys sex, he breaks the law in this country.

I'm just as guilty of it as anyone on this board.

But I prefer not to glorify it.

[Katherine of Halifax 113932]

Sugar coating it doesn't change what it is.

Every time a guy buys sex, he breaks the law in this country.

I'm just as guilty of it as anyone on this board.

But I prefer not to glorify it.

 

I believe everyone knows the laws . Notch was ever so nicely sharing his experiences . It was a lovely uplifting post at a time of great unrest and uncertainty. We are all, ladies and gentlemen somewhat lost with new sites and new people to navigate.

 

Notch's post made me smile and I felt gratitude for his sharing . Can't that be a gift here ?

[Meaghan McLeod 179664]

I just had a new visitor recently. He's retired, relatively good shape, active but so nervous. His long time wife is bed ridden, hooked up to tubes and many medications to keep her living. He was so void of affection. Hadn't had a real hug in so long, he just needed some affection.

 

I started slow with him. We cuddled and talked. I could feel his feelings so clearly. When I felt he was ready to move forward, he actually cried as I celebrated his release. He hadn't had someone with him in so long. He normally would just self serve himself, and feel somewhat alone after. So he was thrilled to be with me while he released.

 

We cuddled some more and I suggested we go again. He felt no way, he's never been able to do that before, but I'm a persistent bugger. Sure enough, he was ready. It was slow, sensual and I told him to enjoy the journey and not worry about the destination. His next release was even more powerful then the first and his gratitude was clearly evident.

 

As he left, I noticed he had a skip to his walk, a grin from ear to ear and I know I made his day.

 

He still has to deal with a very sick wife, but for that moment, all was right in his world.

[Luckyme 41401]

Wow, what a beautiful and heart-warming story!

[Julia Sky 1071]

Meaghan, this is a lovely, heartwarming story... These encounters are part of why I love my job <3

[BrettonWoods 4365]

Aww thanks folks. Glad you liked it.