Toftt Job Opportunity

[riverrunner28 469]

If someone could figure out a way to fund a guy, or a small group of guys, who can do all of the toftt duties, then I think everyone would be happy. People do not visit most of the Escorts/Ladies/SPs that travel to respective towns because of lack of trust. Photos, pimps, service, etc, etc all are suspect, until someone decides to toftt. Once that happens, everything changes, and either you are comfortable to go, or stay away. I think that the SPs who are legit would love to have a positive recommendation from a trusted source, and maybe we would have a "Kingston gate" to those who are not legit. They would not stick around long, as our "gate-keeper" would let the rest of us know to be wary.

 

I only say this, because everyone is posting "can someone toftt", all of the time, and nobody ever seems to do so. Example being, Carmi (newcomer) who seems really sweet, and legitimate, but could be a complete scam. There are risks involved, but an experienced fellow could take precautions. Carmi would benefit from someone saying "She's Amazing", and then everyone is comfortable visiting. Her business booms, and everyone's happy.

 

Just need to set up some "Go Fund Me" fund for our chosen-one lol. If all of the followers in Kingston area threw in a few bucks, it would be more than enough. It's kind of like a Stag Party, when everyone pays for the dances :).

 

Just so you know, I know it will never happen, but it's fun to talk about.

 

cheers

[Helena D'Orville 33237]

The term "Toftt" is so charming.

 

 

I've always wanted to be treated like a ball in a football game...

 

 

Seriously, Dude, you are on a recommendation board! Not the "other kind" of board. You have a lot of verified SPs and recommendations here.

 

 

Not enough?

 

 

Don't "Toftt." Just make a wise decision. Use your brain.

 

 

But maybe you left it in the boys' lockers room?

[Andee 220524]

Take the chance and see some ladies yourself.

[Jasmine Rain 23126]

Wait wait wait!!! I am only half way through my first coffee, so let me get this straight.

 

You want to be the TOFTT guy whereby men on this board give you money to screw other women and report back so they know if they should try them????

 

I mean I get your point, someone has to try out new unknown providers. I totally get that. Has been happening since the dawn of time.

 

I guess my question - why are you so special that you should get funded for this when for almost 20 years that Lylas has been around, guys have been doing this with their own money and sharing for free with the rest of the guys here.

 

I guess I am just trying to figure out if you need some education on how the world works, or some therapy to help with the naracism. Maybe I will try to figure it out after my second cup of coffee. Certainly too much to figure out with only one cup in me.

[Jabba 18389]

If someone could figure out a way to fund a guy, or a small group of guys, who can do all of the toftt duties, then I think everyone would be happy. People do not visit most of the Escorts/Ladies/SPs that travel to respective towns because of lack of trust. Photos, pimps, service, etc, etc all are suspect, until someone decides to toftt. Once that happens, everything changes, and either you are comfortable to go, or stay away. I think that the SPs who are legit would love to have a positive recommendation from a trusted source, and maybe we would have a "Kingston gate" to those who are not legit. They would not stick around long, as our "gate-keeper" would let the rest of us know to be wary.

 

I only say this, because everyone is posting "can someone toftt", all of the time, and nobody ever seems to do so. Example being, Carmi (newcomer) who seems really sweet, and legitimate, but could be a complete scam. There are risks involved, but an experienced fellow could take precautions. Carmi would benefit from someone saying "She's Amazing", and then everyone is comfortable visiting. Her business booms, and everyone's happy.

 

Just need to set up some "Go Fund Me" fund for our chosen-one lol. If all of the followers in Kingston area threw in a few bucks, it would be more than enough. It's kind of like a Stag Party, when everyone pays for the dances :).

 

Just so you know, I know it will never happen, but it's fun to talk about.

 

cheers

 

Well Dang!

Why didn't I think about that sooner (and say it out loud)?

 

What an enterprising and thoughtful suggestion.

I can see that will work perfectly. How much of a donation are you looking for as a start?

[Kilt Boy 29353]

#dibs

 

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[WhereIRoam 21825]

First, he never stated he wanted to be the one to be funded or to do the TOFTT himself. Second, I would have never thought TOFTT would be offensive. This is an old acronym, the first I hear of it being taken as offensive, and no one mentioned a sport. Offices have teams who perform certain tasks or are responsible for certain activities. Don't find that disrespectful in any way. The 'team' part of the acronym refers to the team of clients not sweaty men tackling each other playing a sport. I realize the true team is all of us who are part of the industry, the split only comes since some provide the services and some purchase the services. Three, 'Therapy'...seriously? He seems pretty stable to me. He just had a thought he wanted to share with us but lets pick it apart and psycho analyze him and his post?!? Last but not least, Lyla is the best community but it is not the be-all and end-all of this industry.

 

Lets all stop posting anything on Lyla besides recommendations and positive Provider information so no one is offended. :')

[riverrunner28 469]

I will not reply further, as I feel that I have been negatively targeted, and I can only lose by continuing this discussion. I do thank "WhereIRoam" for clarifying the previous posts.

[trax58 137]

Lets all stop posting anything on Lyla besides recommendations and positive Provider information so no one is offended. :')

 

Pretty much what I have done

[Jasmine Rain 23126]

For the record, I am not offended by the TOFTT reference but as a hobbists I may have been slightly offended that someone wants to be funded for what you guys have been doing here for each other for years now. And I can see how some ladies would get offended at the term. Some don't want to feel like a piece of meat. We know this and to them, that term, the idea behind it, is offensive. Some women are offended at being called fat. As a larger woman myself, I am not. You may not feel it is or should be offensive but clearly it was to some. So because of that, we are going to take our ball and go home????

 

I mean seriously, how many guys have a hard enough time funding their own hobby, so let's fund someone else's???? The "idea" was silly even if it was just mean to be "fun" which again I don't believe is the case.

 

And I am sorry if anyone was offended by my opinion but I personally think anyone who asks for hand-outs either needs education or therapy. Which is what I think this is. Asking for a handout. That is just me.

 

Kind of like the SP who posts on Twitter about all her financial troubles with hints to being willing to accept "help" but not directly asking for it. People play all kinds of games like that.

 

The Go-Fund Me site has hundreds of people just asking for a hand-out and it is disgusting how people in society have turned into online panhandlers.

 

This post reeked of that. It did not come across as a fun discussion to dream about. It appeared to me and clearly some others, to be a thread about wanting a hand out to TOFTT.

 

And BTW - I was directed to this thread like I have been to others. Just putting that out there. Some people feel how they feel about things Roaming. You know this. You see him as posting an idea for discussion, others don't. Others often read between the lines. There is no way in hell that if this thread went the other way and guys got on board, that he would refuse being the one funded to TOFTT. Which is what is in between the lines in his post.

 

Just look at the title for crying out loud. - job opportunity??? Come on. Anyone who has been online for a nanosecond can see what this truly is.

 

 

OP - I am sorry you feel negativity targeted but I don't understand why. People don't agree with your "idea". Disagreeing is not negativity targeting, neither is multiple people disagreeing. Clearly you have some support so post away. Explain further if you feel you must but you can't come here to post and think that everyone is going to blow you sunshine kisses and give rainbow hugs. Not everyone is going agree. You say it is not for you, I don't think I believe that. It is what it is.

[fortunateone 156618]

If someone could figure out a way to fund a guy, or a small group of guys, who can do all of the toftt duties, then I think everyone would be happy.s

 

everyone will be happy?

 

nope

 

lol

 

 

i think like many sps we aren't looking to be number 12 on some kind of team score card. I am looking for genuine connections with someone who is looking to have ongoing meetings. I may not be the one they finally settle on, but going in knowing someone is only there for the intention of doing a writeup of some kind because other guys are too scared to show up for themselves, not interested.

 

never been interested in the review site mentality that tells guys they can't see who they want to see or do what they like doing in a session or spend what they want to spend, but try to bully them into silence if they try to tell these kinds of stories.