Potential First MA Visit (Take 2) Advice welcomed

[Bern 341]

Note: As of this writing I have not figured out how to delete this post from the escort section. Again I apologize for my lack of attention (*feeling shame*)

 

I have been "debating" this for some time (been out of the game for a looooong time. It's not a "game" I have played very often, but that is another story). I have never been to a MA . I have read many threads but too many are full arguing (WTF?, another board mostly) and they are hard to follow, IMO.

 

So I figured I would post what I'm looking for and perhaps someone(s) (fellow member or MA's) would be kind enough to give some advice and info.

 

1-Bed, shower for 2, hot tub? : The massage table is not appealing for me. Mostly because I'm a big guy and that may not be very comfortable for me (I would think). Also looking for more then "just lay there on your stomach/back" for an hour.

 

2-Amibiance: More then realize why people go :-) but I am looking for an experience, a great fantasy. Something hot or even beautiful and not just "...and done!" You know what I mean? (perhaps I am asking too much?).

 

3-A nice person: I don't care how hot the MA is. I want to meet someone one who is truly nice and kind. I'm not looking for trouble, just want to spend some time with a nice lady.

 

4-A clear fee: This confuses me a bit. Some have a door fees, but then later on...is it realistic to ask or expect the fee of my whole experience before I show up?

 

5-Within MA limits: I'm pretty sure I get that but if someone could "elaborate" on what I can expect (via PM of course) I would be grateful.

 

That's it. Some may think this post is dumb but I rather know what I am getting into.

 

Thank you for your time

[IsaMassage 54318]

Note: As of this writing I have not figured out how to delete this post from the escort section. Again I apologize for my lack of attention (*feeling shame*)

 

I have been "debating" this for some time (been out of the game for a looooong time. It's not a "game" I have played very often, but that is another story). I have never been to a MA . I have read many threads but too many are full arguing (WTF?, another board mostly) and they are hard to follow, IMO.

 

So I figured I would post what I'm looking for and perhaps someone(s) (fellow member or MA's) would be kind enough to give some advice and info.

 

Hi and welcome to the MA world

 

1-Bed, shower for 2, hot tub? : The massage table is not appealing for me. Mostly because I'm a big guy and that may not be very comfortable for me (I would think). Also looking for more then "just lay there on your stomach/back" for an hour.

 

Best is for you to narrow a search and find out directly with some of the ladies that you are interested if they have a bed available, myself I have a bed in my incall but I rather stay way from doing massage on it as is more for my personal comfort although there has been instances where as you mention you are a large person so yes it may be a better option to ensure your comfort.

 

2-Amibiance: More then realize why people go :-) but I am looking for an experience, a great fantasy. Something hot or even beautiful and not just "...and done!" You know what I mean? (perhaps I am asking too much?).

 

That I will leave it up to the gents to help, Independent ladies can offer something a bit more personalized due to the fact that is not really a place where you will be bumping into other clients or perhaps hearing what happens on the room beside you.. myself I have a cute and very cozy small place ...

3-A nice person: I don't care how hot the MA is. I want to meet someone one who is truly nice and kind. I'm not looking for trouble, just want to spend some time with a nice lady.

Again another question for the gentlemen to answer to you.. but if you are nice and respectful you will get treated the same. I believe most independent ladies have a big reputation on personality but I am sure there is tons of spa ladies that also have fantastic personalities (I used to be one of them)

4-A clear fee: This confuses me a bit. Some have a door fees, but then later on...is it realistic to ask or expect the fee of my whole experience before I show up?

Independents will always have a set fee (flat)

as per spas, most have a door fee and the tip is to be discussed with the ladies but usually is not higher that 100$ plus the Door fee depending on the length of appointment you are looking for.

There is also the Private clubs which also offer a flat fee similar to independent ladies

 

5-Within MA limits: I'm pretty sure I get that but if someone could "elaborate" on what I can expect (via PM of course) I would be grateful.

MA limits means: No FS, No **... other services may be YYMV (your mileage may vary) mostly depending on chemistry and comfort level with the lady

 

That's it. Some may think this post is dumb but I rather know what I am getting into.

 

Thank you for your time

 

Hope this was somewhat helpful.., but I really hope some of the gentlemen can provide you with names... also remember to check out the Add section and if the lady has a website, go through it, look at the pics, read the info.. rates, most have links to their recommendations and reviews.. etc..., that should give you a pretty good sense of the kind of person the lady is...

 

Good luck in your search and hoping you find the right MA to introduce you to Massage

xoxox

Isa

[Bern 341]

Thank you Isa!

[fit4life16 1040]

I have not ventured into the ma world yet but being here a while i can tell you how nice Isa is. I can see her personality in her posts and when i decide to go the ma route she will definitely be the person who i will contact.

For me i always felt if i didnt get fs it was a waste but i like the idea of a massage and the teasing and playing that goes with it

[Phaedrus 209521]

1-Bed, shower for 2, hot tub? : The massage table is not appealing for me. Mostly because I'm a big guy and that may not be very comfortable for me (I would think). Also looking for more then "just lay there on your stomach/back" for an hour.

 

Spas: Brass Club has some rooms with double-sized massage tables or beds. Paradise has a hot tub. ALO have a new venue called the Loft which I think has beds, and I've heard good things about it although I haven't been there myself.

 

Indy MAs... probably variable - you'd have to ask. I think Jackie Gilcrest has a bed that she uses.

 

2-Amibiance: More then realize why people go :-) but I am looking for an experience, a great fantasy. Something hot or even beautiful and not just "...and done!" You know what I mean? (perhaps I am asking too much?).

 

3-A nice person: I don't care how hot the MA is. I want to meet someone one who is truly nice and kind. I'm not looking for trouble, just want to spend some time with a nice lady.

 

These two are kinda similar... and it's really down to the individual MA. All I can really recommend is that you read some recommendations, and see who you think you might connect with. I've found that following people on Twitter is a good way to get a feel for what sort of person they are (for the ones with active accounts that do more than just post ads/availability, at least). What you're looking for is definitely out there, but it's also very dependent on intangible things like chemistry.

 

4-A clear fee: This confuses me a bit. Some have a door fees, but then later on...is it realistic to ask or expect the fee of my whole experience before I show up?

 

You can always ask in advance, especially if you've worked out who you want to see and you can contact her before hand. Indy providers almost always have a flat fee. Some spas have a single fee (CMJ and Brass Club definitely do), some have separate door fee and "tip", but the total you pay is likely to be similar whether or not it's split. Again, this is where tracking down MAs on Twitter or advertising sites is useful - they often have ways to contact them directly.

 

5-Within MA limits: I'm pretty sure I get that but if someone could "elaborate" on what I can expect (via PM of course) I would be grateful.

 

Nudity, manual release, no oral or penetration. Things like kissing and mutual touching are less predictable and more at the MA's discretion - if these are important to you then doing your research and asking the MA in advance is probably your best bet.

 

Hope that helps! Have fun!

[jackofhearts 1010]

From what you described, the MAs that offer $45 to $60 services will give you exactly the opposite that your looking for. They are no frills, to the point, exactly on time and nothing special. You could possibly build a loyalty relationship, perhaps offer a big tip for a deserving MA where maybe things will open up a bit, but its also an investment. Alternatively, consider an MA who's fees are in the $100 or more for a better experience. As the saying goes, you get what you pay for.

[Guest]

From what you described, the MAs that offer $45 to $60 services will give you exactly the opposite that your looking for. They are no frills, to the point, exactly on time and nothing special. You could possibly build a loyalty relationship, perhaps offer a big tip for a deserving MA where maybe things will open up a bit, but its also an investment. Alternatively, consider an MA who's fees are in the $100 or more for a better experience. As the saying goes, you get what you pay for.

 

I am going to assume that the implication here is not that offering more money will get you services that were not previously on the table.

I would certainly not want beginners to think that is an appropriate way to approach a lady. Rates and services are generally made clear in advance and offering more money is not going to change what services she is comfortable providing. In fact it is pretty insulting.