So nice to see all those gentlemen names in the "Recent Visitors" of our pages

[Loralee Reach 245]

However, I never have seen some of those men; even if their handle names have a +++++ behind, meaning they were electronically visiting me many times....I never got an appointment request with them.....

I wonder also about those who browse in "secret", I believe this site has a feature for it....their names do not show up in your screen....like private browsing.

In my personal experience, I get very happy when I get a message from the other SP's giving thanks for visiting their web sites; some agencies also give thanks for going and checking their sites.....but what about those "regular-silent-visitors" in our pages? are they afraid of saying "hi....nice pictures" or "hello....ugly pictures", or "i like so much your xxxx that I keep looking at your pics"....whatever would be nice, I think.

I get attracted to many of the ladies' pictures; yesterday I sent a message to 2 of them after opening their sites to see "more" of them. I told them how beautiful they were.... and you know what? they answered very happily and sensually. Why "regular electronic visitors" do not say a word....?

I do not mean the men who come to check us once or even twice.....I am talking about Regulars with capital letters.

If I was asked how many of the gentlemen that are "very very very often" on my pages as visitors I have had in my arms?....I would estimate a 25%....the rest keeps visiting quasi-anonymously....

The gentlemen see our names also when we check their sites to see who they are...whose friends....what posts....what statistics....etc....I usually go in their sites when they request an appointment. As a normal person I want to know more about my next lover and I leave them a message of some sort, as a presentation card of my intrusion.

It would be nice to hear from the men who do this and the ladies who have noticed it....

Thanks for visiting my page!

Loralee

[Guest s******ecan****]

Well said, and a nice sentiment Lora, we should all be more mindful of this.

[Guest W***ledi*Time]

However, I never have seen some of those men; even if their handle names have a +++++ behind, meaning they were electronically visiting me many times....

 

I believe that the "+" sign indicates that they are on your Cerb "Friends List".

 

The "*" sign seems to mean that they are using "Invisible Mode". I too have been curious about what has recently prompted the sudden use of Invisible Mode by so many members -- I think this "fad" (if you will) started about a month ago. (I'd be surprised if they all individually and deliberately selected this mode -- but I don't know, either, of any other mechanism which would have turned this feature on in so many member's accounts, but not in everyone's.)

 

As far as viewing other members' Public Profiles -- I freely admit to sticking my nose into all sorts of places on an ongoing basis! Often I find it convenient to "pass through" a members' profile page as an easy route to start searches, etc. Hopefully no-one is reading anything unusual into seeing my name as a recent visitor. I'm perfectly harmless, ha ha!

[Winnipegcub 21293]

Agree with the sentiment of this post and the gents above that providing a little feedback after viewing a profile is nice. I am a frequent visiter of many of the ladies' profiles and for the most part try and provide a comment. Inparticular if a new member for me, or new pics. Also if I've been impressed by a conversation in chat or a post she's made. I don't use the 'silent' approach and don't think I would. I don't mind someone knowing I was admiring their profile even if I didn't leave a message. Now because I'm not in Ott I must say that I've visited many ladies' profiles and chatted with them but chances are I won't ever see. Likely be back many more times in the future Loralee and hope you and other ladies don't mind.

WC

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[cat 262460]

I owe an apology to anyone who has visited my page because I just went to it for the first time in years and I have nothing there! Maybe it's time I put some sugar in it...

cat

[Lexy Grace 103697]

It really is nice to see who has visited my page or left a comment. I do my best to thank all and reply to all comments. I have to say I love CERB and I do meet some very great gentlemen here. What would we do without having such a loving community?

 

I do want to send out a Special Thank You to Emma Page for telling me about CERB.

[Lowdark 5613]

Good point. I wonder if it might be because of the increased traffic that may have resulted from the closing of CL? There were no connections or sense of community there, so perhaps . . .

[Luscious Laurel 205]

I am new here and clicking around and getting lost.

 

I clicked on an advertisement cause I liked the woman's pic and ended up on her personal page and when I saw my name in her visitor's box I felt a bit like I had walked into someone else's house by accident.

 

I felt a bit snoopy, which, is of course what I was! I actually do like peeking into homes! He He!

 

Next time I will drop a line on her 'screeny place where people leave messages'.

 

Thank you for the reminder

[capitalman 3861]

Yes Cat some photos would be nice!

 

I owe an apology to anyone who has visited my page because I just went to it for the first time in years and I have nothing there! Maybe it's time I put some sugar in it...

 

cat

[wellie 652]

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I clicked on an advertisement cause I liked the woman's pic and ended up on her personal page and when I saw my name in her visitor's box I felt a bit like I had walked into someone else's house by accident.

 

I felt a bit snoopy, which, is of course what I was! I actually do like peeking into homes! He He!

 

 

You have no reason to feel awkward or embarrassed when visiting the personal sites of other CERB members. CERB is a community and members feel a need to get to know other members. I for one am always pleased when someone visits my site, whether they leave a message or not.

[April Dawn 12207]

I find myself checking out the profiles of people who's posts I enjoy. I should probably stop being a creeper and leave a hey.

[pjrd 324]

Well I guess I'm guilty of checking out people's profiles without leaving a note. I really didn't think it bothered anybody. With the guys there usually isn't any information anyway. Sorry girls, I'll start sayin hi