Guest Report post Posted May 10, 2013 So we all like this kinda stuff. But am I wrong, I don't see anyone chatting about it. Pers Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Em*lyO**o (Retired) Report post Posted May 10, 2013 Oops. Hit a wrong button lol. I personally would love someone to tie me up and take some pictures do this group. Maybe then we "talk" more ;) Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
sparhawk 4169 Report post Posted May 20, 2013 Hi all. I have been fascinated by BDSM and have just getting started practicing. I am wondering what rope is preferred. I have a few from doing rock climbing but would like to know which is better. Some say Jute is, but others say nylon. Any input would be appreciated. Thanks. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
piano8950 32577 Report post Posted June 4, 2013 I'm giving it a go on Wednesday. I'll see how it turns out, and write back Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
tacolvr3 200 Report post Posted June 17, 2013 Well Emily, maybe we could do those pictures you want on friday and you could upload them for the group... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Malika Fantasy 144625 Report post Posted June 29, 2013 I don't believe that there is a lot of activities in this group, but it would be great to see more people participate! bdsm is awesome :D Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BrettonWoods 4365 Report post Posted July 1, 2013 Malika, I agree but my problem is that I am just starting to learn and donâ??t know much. I will therefore make a suggestion to try to help get some discussion going wherein those of you with experience can enlighten us. Maybe you could start more conversation by expanding on your comment â??BDSM is awesomeâ?. I think I would tend to incline toward being a submissive. I have this vague sense that it is mentally liberating. I have heard of altered consciousness called â??subspaceâ?. Maybe those experienced can elaborate. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Shagman 100 Report post Posted September 17, 2013 Hi people. I am new. I have dabbled in bdsm a little in the past. It ranges between girls who want to be tied up with soft velvety ropes to guys like myself who enjoy the pain / pleasure combined with a sense that you are not in control Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mmgg 201 Report post Posted January 11, 2014 My two cents... BDSM is all about trust and control. It takes me time to build trust, when I find a partner who cares and wants to give me pleasure or pain...be gentle! It opens the door to more exploring of the kinks and likes or not so much like! I found that giving up control by bondage or simply being told what to do is liberating! I'm one who wants control and sets the agenda in bed most times... giving up the control is tough... No power to do... at the mercy of the Mistress! Btw... thats what she wants! So... start small, blindfolds and spanking.... build trust and research together what kinky stuff you and her can evolve too... a Sensual Dom is my favorite! Its unlimited only our fears hold us back! Rock your world...its naughty fun! Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
SirNorth 100 Report post Posted September 29, 2014 Greetings all. New too site, but not too BDSM. Going too take a bit too figure this place out, but one I do, I will happily discuss the wonders of BDSM with any that so desire. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
tanyathetgurl 857 Report post Posted October 24, 2014 Good morning! I have I've been into BDSM for a long time, and I was also trained as a professional Dominatrix by Ms Cleo Dubois at the Academy of SM Arts in San Francisco. I'm also a switch and a transexual girl. So, I probably have an unusual perspective from which to contribute. Feel free to ask me questions. I'm not emphasizing my BDSM skills in my work as a service provider but if someone has a strong interest, I'm open to the possibility. There would have to be a high level of mutual trust, including several in-person meetings in a public, social setting such as over a cup of coffee or tea somewhere. The getting-to-know-each-other public meeting(s) would be at no charge (I'll even buy you the cup of coffee or tea). If you're in Vancouver please say "hello." Here is a picture of me. .Tanya Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest B**** Fo***ine Report post Posted November 1, 2014 If anyone wants to learn or is looking for information, I would be tickles to share my knowledge Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lady3jane 100 Report post Posted April 19, 2016 This thread needs to be brought back to life! I'm personally a big fan of pain, is anyone else with me? I like it all but impact play makes my heart race like nothing else. :) Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
capitalCforcougar 16766 Report post Posted April 22, 2016 Myself puuursonally, I am not much of a 'pain wh0re' <grin> but am very adept at providing it ;) I am fairly involved in winnipeg's kink community and know a number of impact fanatics ;) it fascinates me, but not my thing hehe I very much enjoy breath play (giving/receiving), shibari (g/r).. I have very few avtual taboos... and welcome any/all questions inquiries and discussions.. as most who have met me, find me wonderfully open and candid ;) and yes, this definitely needs to be brought back to life ;) Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jafo105 39057 Report post Posted January 22, 2017 Lately I have been feeling a pull towards having my own female sub or slave. I have even considered the possibility of having two female sub/slaves in a polyfidelity (also sometimes called polyexclusive) relationship. For myself, I am not into causing a female sub/slave pain, punishment, or humiliation. That just seems so wrong. But, to each there own, I do not judge those who do lean towards that style of Dominance. I would use kind words, praise, love, affection, guidance, training, etc. -- to win her honesty, loyalty, commitment, and love. Yes there would be consequences if she did something wrong. Such as discussions, correction, corner time, time out, and in extreme situations bum spankings. Followed by after care. I would consider her to be my equal, best friend and l-o-v-e-r. Yes she can be all that and still be submissive. Submissive to my wants, needs and desires. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Paul0331 9 Report post Posted January 10, 2021 Just new to the group and have always enjoyed BDSM with a domme I recently have tried pegging and really enjoyed it looking for service providers that will also partake in this as well Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
