Harlotry: What Iâ??ve Learned About Money (And Self Worth) From Sex Work

[Sweet Emily J 172062]

[B]Harlotry: What Iâ??ve Learned About Money (And Self Worth) From Sex Work[/B]
[I]By Harlotry[/I]

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[I]Thereâ??s a common assumption that all sex workers are very rich or very poor. You hear about poor, put-upon street workers or ballinâ?? out of control escorts and dominatrices. Neither of these is the norm, in my experience. Most of us are comfortably middle class.

Granted, we do achieve that coveted dying privilege earlier in life than many of our peers, but it doesnâ??t change the fact that we mostly live pretty normal lives. The thing that sex work does give us, though, is great money management skills. The thing about sex work is that one week you can take home multiple thousands of dollars, but the next week you can make nothing at all.

This means a few things.

Firstly, it means you have to grow some budgeting and self-control skills. You canâ??t go out and buy a pair of Louboutins or a fur coat or whatever on a week you made three grand, because who knows what the hell youâ??ll be making the next week. You have to save, for taxes, rainy days, and dry spells. It may be tempting to look at all the zeros in your bank account and decide you can afford to splurge on something ridiculous, but it isnâ??t a good idea to make a habit of it because you donâ??t know when youâ??re going to need those zeros to survive.

Secondly, and most importantly, it means that one absolutely can not tie earnings to self worth or self perception.

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