Guest jake_cdn Report post Posted March 7, 2011 In writing some reponses to threads recently I have struggled with describing the time spent with ladies arranged through this site. Is there a proper way or a preferred way to refer to this time? Is it a(n); ... appointment ... session ... meeting ... rendez-vous ... time spent with ... arrangement ... booking ... visit ... scheduled time ... tryst I know it is a simple question but one that I am sure is struggled with by everyone on this board. What is your preference? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
April Dawn 12207 Report post Posted March 7, 2011 I really think it's all up to the person. It says something about their personality and how they express themselves ;) Posted via Mobile Device Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest jake_cdn Report post Posted March 7, 2011 I really think it's all up to the person. It says something about their personality and how they express themselves ;)Posted via Mobile Device True but I also believe that it says something about respect and professioanlism. I know that it can just be symantics but sometimes the chosen words belittle the experience and respect for individuals. Agreed people express themselves in different ways but how they express themselves often reflects their true thoughts and may impact another's perception of the individual. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
namssa 562 Report post Posted March 7, 2011 Personally, I use mainly session or appointment, but they all work to different degrees. The only one from your list that I would not use is tryst. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest AdamK Report post Posted March 7, 2011 In writing some reponses to threads recently I have struggled with describing the time spent with ladies arranged through this site. Is there a proper way or a preferred way to refer to this time? Is it a(n); ... appointment ... session ... meeting ... rendez-vous ... time spent with ... arrangement ... booking ... visit ... scheduled time ... tryst I know it is a simple question but one that I am sure is struggled with by everyone on this board. What is your preference? Of the examples you've provided I prefer "rendezvous" as it gives an air of secrecy to the encounter, and discretion is important to both parties involved. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mrrnice2 157005 Report post Posted March 7, 2011 To this point I have been using the terms meeting or appointment. Both sound rather cold to some degree, but words such a tryst or rendezvous to me almost imply participation in something that is "not quite right." Semantics and interpretation can sometimes be taxing, so to each his or her own. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
roamingguy 300292 Report post Posted March 7, 2011 Appointment, to me, has a clinical ring to it...I've used it a couple times myself, but why do I feel like I am arranging to go to a doctor's office LOL A term I more often use, is encounter I like using the term date. To me, it conveys what this is all about. A date with a lady. (yes, a paid date, but date nevertheless) But some ladies don't like this term, others don't mind. And no, I'm not delusional, thinking this is leading to a relationship. My thoughts on the subject RG Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kubrickfan 12836 Report post Posted March 7, 2011 Visit always works for me. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Seymour 3970 Report post Posted March 7, 2011 Call it what you're comfortable calling it.. any of those terms are acceptable given the context. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PistolPete 61421 Report post Posted March 7, 2011 Really does not matter,does it? what we call our hour or more "getaway" (yes a new one!)any options above are fine except tryst I never used that before and would not personally. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
LeeRichards 177238 Report post Posted March 7, 2011 I had the exact same thoughts when I started on Cerb. I now prefer Date or Visit myself. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Katherine of Halifax 113932 Report post Posted March 7, 2011 Most of my guests visit during the day so we call it a mini vacation especially if its an extended visit. Just seems to be more fun when you call it a vacation! :icon_smile: 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
stevecurious 42059 Report post Posted March 7, 2011 Just seems to be more fun when you call it a vacation! :icon_smile: I've always enjoyed my vacations with you Cathy! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Katherine of Halifax 113932 Report post Posted March 7, 2011 Myself as well, and ..... we sure can pack a lot into our vacation, sort of like an all inclusive. ;) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PistolPete 61421 Report post Posted March 7, 2011 Lol I like that:) all you can eat at your mini vacation, an all inclusive Cathy resort ;) Myself as well, and ..... we sure can pack a lot into our vacation, sort of like an all inclusive. ;) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Winnipegcub 21293 Report post Posted March 7, 2011 It really isn't important to me what it is called. However, I think I have more often tried to mirror the language that the lady uses in her ads/website. If she says it is a meeting then that is what it is, if she likes encounter then I'm ready for that. However I think for most it might be more of habit than preference. As long as any negative words are avoided and the communication overall is positive and respectful I think any label for the 'rencontre' would be fine. Cub Posted via Mobile Device Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Adamo90 231 Report post Posted March 7, 2011 Lol I like that:) all you can eat at your mini vacation, an all inclusive Cathy resort ;) Ugh shoot, now I'm hungry. Partial to the term "visit," but like to mix it up with "encounter." Start your engines gentlemen, rumour has it Cathy may visit Ottawa this spring. Sorry to go off topic OP. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jughead 45 Report post Posted March 7, 2011 You know that is something that I never really gave much tought to, he does raise an interesting question though. In my mind it really does not matter as long you you post with a positive iintent most people will walk right ove what word you use. I have been liking I have spent time with ...........lately. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
VedaSloan 119179 Report post Posted March 7, 2011 Appointment, session, date, encounter...it makes no difference to me. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest jake_cdn Report post Posted March 8, 2011 A term I more often use, is encounter RG ... I like encounter and it is one that I have not used. Good suggestion. There have been some comments about the use of tryst and I agree. I would never use that term but it has been used on this board. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Studio 110 by Sophia 150333 Report post Posted March 8, 2011 Does it matter really what you call it? The important thing is you had a good time! Hehehe Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
alexgrenyait 2186 Report post Posted March 8, 2011 I like to call it a date:) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
A***** A***** 510 Report post Posted March 8, 2011 Appointment, session, date, encounter...it makes no difference to me. same here, great minds think alike Posted via Mobile Device Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Dorinda Bloom 44036 Report post Posted March 8, 2011 I've said "Tryst" (gasp!) lol I think it reflects more of my sassy naughty side and use use it when feeling especially randy ;-) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PistolPete 61421 Report post Posted March 8, 2011 I've said "Tryst" (gasp!) lolI think it reflects more of my sassy naughty side and use use it when feeling especially randy ;-) How about "Randy time" ;) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites