''only service''

[ottawaadventurer 5114]

I have seen this type of service on a few web-pages. It's never a huge discount (time is time, after all), but for me, having this option explicitly mentioned is good in that it makes me feel less weird for asking for it... That's my issue - not the money - just my perception that such a request will be seen as odd....

[Chanel Reign 28097]

You know, the more it comes up, I wonder why there isn't another menu item on the list

KCCC-kissing,cuddling,conversation and companionship

Seeing an escort is SO MUCH MORE than just sex, and judging by various threads/posts, I don't seem to be alone in wanting this

Just a thought

RG

 

There is. And I value these regulars very much. It is my thought; that this time is more for the soul rather than the mind and body.

 

Studies done on primates regarding non-sexual touch, socialization and the lack of, indicates that we need this activity as humans on several levels besides cerebral.

 

Being a big fan of hugging, I will get into your space and give you one. None of this European kiss kiss on each cheek. If I know you and it's appropriate I will genuinely hug you, as thats how I say hello.

 

I know some Ladies offer this.

 

Additional Comments:

I have seen this type of service on a few web-pages. It's never a huge discount (time is time, after all), but for me, having this option explicitly mentioned is good in that it makes me feel less weird for asking for it... That's my issue - not the money - just my perception that such a request will be seen as odd....

 

Odd?? Having you ask me to dance with a goat might be considered a little odd. But please never feel this service weird or think that it's odd. It's not.

:milleunenuit:

[jughead 45]

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Should we reduce our rates but start to ask extra for everything?? .....

 

So are you saying that opening the door would be an extra? LOL

 

Sorry, if I offened anyone I just could not resist the tempation.

 

The rate is the rate reguardless weather someone wants intercousre or just to cry.

[mtrbeowolf 170]

I read this after looking for just that, i had asked a girl i know about just a bj service, the 1 thing i dont get at home due to me thickness, 5.5 wife just cant at all, so i crave it now this is something i look for but now am hesitant for asking after reading this..... well i can see a person being insulted for being asked, but in the same token i am a guy looking for just that, and ya its wrong and i dont ask nor get

 

Frustrated.

[Tiffany Amber 7031]

I read this after looking for just that, i had asked a girl i know about just a bj service, the 1 thing i dont get at home due to me thickness, 5.5 wife just cant at all, so i crave it now this is something i look for but now am hesitant for asking after reading this..... well i can see a person being insulted for being asked, but in the same token i am a guy looking for just that, and ya its wrong and i dont ask nor get

 

Frustrated.

 

You allowed to specify that your just looking for a bj, but DO NOT ask for a discount! There are some ladies that offer 15 minute rates, but for thoose that do not, its very insulting to be asked to lower our rates because you only want a certain service. Your paying for the time spent, not what happens while your there!

[Nicolette Vaughn 294340]

You allowed to specify that your just looking for a bj, but DO NOT ask for a discount! There are some ladies that offer 15 minute rates, but for thoose that do not, its very insulting to be asked to lower our rates because you only want a certain service. Your paying for the time spent, not what happens while your there!

 

These so callerd 15 minutes services are bs imo. I know of a few ladies who have offered them and the guys that came completely abused and took advantage of the time. They would keep trying to prolong the happy ending. 15 minutes is 15 minutes especially if you're only paying $80 or $100. It sounds like it's more trouble than it's worth and I'm not a revolving door.

[Meg O'Ryan 266444]

It sounds like it's more trouble than it's worth and I'm not a revolving door.

 

I love this comment!!!!

[PistolPete 61421]

I really never understood the 15 minute service, so not personal at all, 15 turns into 30 minutes very quickly so why bother?

 

You might as well withdraw another 80 or 160 from ATM and pay for the full hour if her rates were 240 an hour, if you had to spend 80 on 15 or 160 for 30?? .

 

I enjoy the full menu and dine for a full hour or more, sure makes it feel a lot more personal and is a lot more fun then getting a quick gobble.

[Chanel Reign 28097]

I really never understood the 15 minute service, so not personal at all, 15 turns into 30 minutes very quickly so why bother?

 

You might as well withdraw another 80 or 160 from ATM and pay for the full hour if her rates were 240 an hour, if you had to spend 80 on 15 or 160 for 30?? .

 

I enjoy the full menu and dine for a full hour or more, sure makes it feel a lot more personal and is a lot more fun then getting a quick gobble.

 

It takes 15 minutes just to get settled in with a client after chit chat, hugs, them freshening up, business taken care of, pre cuddles and caresses...

 

I cant imagine why a person would want 15 mins of my time for a bj or anything sexual. I guess I'm a selfish SP. If we both aren't going to have fun, I'm not doing it!

 

Revolving door indeed! lol

[Guest t**obb****]

rate is the rate,

but what if your on your lunch hour, need 15 mins to get ther 15 min to get back, and really need a few min. to get organized before and after?

 

If you could get a good 15 min. service to break up a boring day, why not?

 

don't ask the SP for a discount, but hey don't slam the service either.

 

Its there because likely there's a place for it. The rest is just semantics.

[Andee 220524]

You know, the more it comes up, I wonder why there isn't another menu item on the list

KCCC-kissing,cuddling,conversation and companionship

Seeing an escort is SO MUCH MORE than just sex, and judging by various threads/posts, I don't seem to be alone in wanting this

Just a thought

RG

 

I know if I did that, guys would ulitmately try to negotiate a lower rate because their argument will be that there's "no sex" taking place even when a lady specifies the donation is for her time. I consider any touching like kissing and cuddling to be outside the limits of "social time" which I do have a lower rate for

 

I can see how guys get confused when some ladies have prices based on menu/services as opposed to time.

 

I just explain that I don't accept a lower rate, except for social time such as going to dinner, etc. (which is usually followed by a rendez-vous behind closed doors at my normal rate).

 

I lose my patience when someone persists on pushing a service or a price on me after I have politely declined.

[Chanel Reign 28097]

rate is the rate,

but what if your on your lunch hour, need 15 mins to get ther 15 min to get back, and really need a few min. to get organized before and after?

 

If you could get a good 15 min. service to break up a boring day, why not?

 

don't ask the SP for a discount, but hey don't slam the service either.

 

Its there because likely there's a place for it. The rest is just semantics.

 

Im not saying that there isnt a place for this service.

 

There is a place for the 15 minute session; on both sides of the fence. It seems to me that if you are high volume SP, its much easier to offer this as an option. If you can't take a longer lunch then yes, ripping a quick one off is a solution.

 

Since I do this for sexual enjoyment as much as a Hobbiest does, this type of encounter would leave me rooting through the toybox for some satisfaction after the Gent left.

 

I can honestly say that frequently there are times when my clients have to remind ME what time it is! :icon_biggrin:

 

Different strokes...

[waterrat 1261]

I have had short time experiences - mostly not in Canada I admit. Generally speaking anything under 40 minutes left me feeling unsatisfied.

 

When I meet an SP I feel that we are sharing intimate time. Clock pressure is as much of a mood killer as an à la carte menu. In fact in my xp they ofter go together.

 

Nothing kills the mood more than "Stop, if you want to touch my breasts that is extra", followed by "Stop, if you want multiple positions that is extra"...

 

I would rather accept that I am paying for the lady's time and then subject to her personal restrictions (kissing, no bbbj etc.) there is no further discussion of money. Likewise for me a 15 minute rate is too much clock focus.

 

I prefer to take my time, an hour or better two and enjoy. If I have only a short amount of time I would rather turn my attentions to other matters and call an SP when I have time to enjoy our time together.

 

But that is just a personal opinion.

[jimjac 100]

Could we open a used car dealership with the same policy?? where does HONESTY in advertising come to play here?

[caveman 147]

Folks, rather than continuing as an informative thread on the problems with negotiating rates, this has turned into a debate on the merits (or lack thereof) of the 15-minute session. Maybe that should be its own thread?

[Guest ****ven]

I certainly am 100% behind this one as well Rebecca.

 

Constantly bargaining is starting to be the bane of my existence, especially from newly joined people that don't know the rules. I have an hourly rate, and what happens during that hour is very flexible but it is a firm rate.

 

It's not like I'm going to change my mind because I have to do "less", and honestly a BJ rate? why would that be less then intercourse?

 

Arghhhh.

[Sentimental 281]

Rebecca..... avoid seeing people who have an interest in partial activity. Maybe these individuals are seeking a street walker's brief encounter for a quicky. As a courtesan, there should be no need to encouter these individuals !

[doctorlove 110]

I agree with you it would be stupid to ask "only this service" It would be very complicated to handle that and will create confusion. GFE is clear enough for me.

[Guest Ni**t*****t]

I have never even thought of this before. I normally ask the price for a specific amount of time. If I sit down and chat for the entire time I do not expect to pay less. Any service for me was always priced considering time. I have seen many girls and this has been my experience... and what a great experience so far!!! :)

 

Honestly, if the price is agreed before you meet it is a much better experience for both. I never negotiate. If a SP says it it so much for X amount of time then it is my decision whether to meet or not. It is as simple as that... and so far, I do not have any complaints... well... maybe one... but that's in over 15 years :)

[TheRiddlerMan 872]

I agree that it's not good to negotiate, but since I am only looking for particular services I don't see a problem with asking about them. I'm not looking to get something on the cheap, just to see if what I like is available.

[Andee 220524]

I agree that it's not good to negotiate, but since I am only looking for particular services I don't see a problem with asking about them. I'm not looking to get something on the cheap, just to see if what I like is available.

 

What you like may be available, but be prepared to pay the same rate, that's all we are saying. For example, if a BJ is all you want, that's okay with me, but you're still going to pay set rate.

[guitarguy81 100]

I am not sure why asking whether a certain type of "service" and "Rate" exist, is such a big Faux Pas. If the lady says that she does not do that type of service, then it isn't a problem, that client should move on.

[Meg O'Ryan 266444]

There is no harm in asking for a particular service. The feathers get ruffled when it is assumed that just wanting a particular service should be less costly than what is viewed as full service. A half hour is a half hour no matter what transpires. I think that is what the ladies are trying to convey. If they offer a half hour minimum at XXX then what you both decide to do with the time is irrelevant unless she has a detailed advertised menu :)

 

Oh yeah....my pet peeve....read the ads, website etc so that you know what it is that she does offer!

[roamingguy 300292]

It is compensation for the ladies' time. If all client 1 wants is one thing, for a hour of the ladies' time at reduced rate vs client 2 wanting a hour long encounter including more than just the one thing paying full price, the lady is further ahead to see client 2. Her compensation for the same period of time will be higher. Doesn't make sense for the lady to offer one service only at reduced rate. She is shortchanging herself

As I see it

RG

[Guest n**se_**n]

Very simple imo - that person should be looking elsewhere. When I make an appointment my expectation is that I am spending time with that person, nothing more, nothing less. If we have some chemistry and the end result of our time is some "adult fun" then great. I will be honest I am a man and I do hope that is the end result, but by no means is that an expectation.