GFE versus PSE??

[TRman 536]

Is there an excepted definition or comparison??

[dreamer8 510]

GFE = girl friend experiance (kissing bbbj makes you think your with a GF)

PSE = porn star experiance (greek, cim, cob, etc)

[cat 262460]

From an SP's perspective, it's the attitude going in that is different, not the service. Neither acronyms should be interpreted as "unsafe play allowed" unless indicated by the advertising or communications that follow contact. I define them as...

 

GFE: warm, softly sensual, intimacy with the intention of enacting a mutual experience, like one with someone you know and care about. Gently starting, but the road leads to anywhere the participants choose to travel mutually.

 

PSE: copies the films, it's all about the visual, all actions are for the males satisfaction, little attention needs to be paid to the female fulfillment aspects.

 

I find that PSE is a focus rather like a caricature of the true acts, much like Jessica Rabbit is to the real woman. Fun to watch, but should never be thought of as "real" in any way shape or form.

 

Catherine

[mod 135639]

I have been trying to tell everyone the same thing.

GFE and PSE are STYLES OF SERVICE and do not imply any actual specific services.

 

If GFE or PSE are not mentioned you can expect a standard service (Also referred to as MECHANICAL service) where you just get in and out and get the job done.

 

If anyone expects specifics like bbbj to be included in any style they are setting themselves up for disappointment as that is not how all the ladies perceive this. A lot of "Girlfriends" and "Portstars" insist on condoms too guys!

[loneskater 25635]

I have been trying to tell everyone the same thing.

 

GFE and PSE are STYLES OF SERVICE and do not imply any actual specific services.

 

If GFE or PSE are not mentioned you can expect a standard service (Also referred to as MECHANICAL service) where you just get in and out and get the job done.

 

If anyone expects specifics like bbbj to be included in any style they are setting themselves up for disappointment as that is not how all the ladies perceive this. A lot of "Girlfriends" and "Portstars" insist on condoms too guys!

 

That is why some SPs advertise as safe GFE meaning their style of service is GFE and the type of service is all safe (With condoms)

 

As MOD says this has been repeated many times, still Style and Type of service keep getting mixed up during reviews or when inquiries are made by new members looking for recommendations on SPs. Hope all can make the difference between the 2 in future posts.

[d*mm*y 887]

Always confused myself with all these definitions, to me GFE is extended curdles nice kisses nibbling a bj that takes time and teases you not just work it till it pops. PSE has always meant a little more aggressive pushing and shoving harder foreplay talkin dirty the girl moans a little loader screams a little deeper, definitely some less safe practices like BBBJ and DFK. And the experience that Cat is referring too to me has always been more the MSE Montreal stripper experience, look at me, do you want to do me in this pose, can I add a little lap dance, very little interest in the womans experience.

 

Just my 2cents worth

[mod 135639]

Yes, you guys here in Ottawa do refer to that often as the MSE .... that is really the style the rest of the country refers to as "Mechanical".

 

Again, if you assume BBBJ or DFK is included with either PSE or GFE you may be upset if she says no. These are VERY common with the ladies who advertise as PSE and GFE but not all of them!! Yes, many of the ladies post "Safe GFE" so guys don't get disappointed or need to ask but not all the ladies will include the word SAFE... and I bet a lot of them choose those options when they evaluate the client in person as well.

 

If you don't have a shower chances are your not getting offered anything extra

so as always YMMV with any of these style terms.

 

My advise is always "Don't assume things" either read the other peoples recommendations and go with that (or) ask the lady some questions (but remember not all the ladies are comfortable talking about options over the phone so ask the members here first) - Some of the SP's will refuse to discuss stuff over the phone or email but will actually offer these services in person once they see you first hand. Some feel it's safer from a legal standpoint to not discuss anything before meeting so always keep that in mind as well.

 

Recommendations by long term clients here are usually a good sign of legit information.

[BootyLoving 2441]

When I had a GF, our first time, I usually have rain suit on, and even afterwards, they remained on. However, there was usually DFK involved, however, its never a promise. Once I had a GF that only LFK'd. But that relationship didn't last too long, as I was being used to get someone else jellous - I considerred that a mutually benefitial trade, but not really, as the scheme didn't work out the way she planned it.

 

PSE - Never had one exclusively. But I would imagine its what Cat and others above describe it as. The closes I had was with a mature SP, however, she was too sensual with me for me to say that it was only PSE, more like GFE+PSE combined - as I've never had a GF that can do what she does.

 

This industry doesn't operate precisely according to a minimum code for said services offerred across the board, as there is no BBB to govern the service they offer. However, this site is as close as it gets to a regulating body.

 

Service quality varies from one individual to another. Sometimes it helps to ask them what you can expect, and what you won't receive so you don't set your expection beyond what you will be getting. Likewise, you should let the SP know what you don't want, and what would like to receive.

[Guest slick_rick]

GFE: LFK/DFK, cuddling, spooning, massage, etc.

 

PSE: I guess once you have had it you will know what it is, and it is likely different for everyone. To me the BBBJTC with CIM/OF kinda defines the PSE but that is just the tip of the iceburg depending on what you are into.

 

I find good GFE is a lot easier to find then good PSE, but when you find a woman who likes to play the part of the porn-queen then it is generally a very memorable experience.