PistolPete 61421 Report post Posted March 25, 2011 Holy snap Samantha, I thoroughly enjoyed reading your post, perhaps I should see you and Missy in action together :) 2 tongues are always great ;) Missy is learning.. it could take awhile to perfect. lol She is not into anything rough or deep like I am but shows her love for it in her attitude. Performing oral is extremely pleasurable for me. I love doing it. I have always loved doing it. Have been known to cum from it. My ex-SO had extreme stamina and loved my oral which meant me performing 3times a day for 45min sometimes each. He was very dom and we liked exploring many positions with this act. With your SO, sadly I am not sure you can change anyone to really enjoy this act. I can say make it fun maybe with food or body paint. lol pointing arrows saying LOVE NEEDED lol. I would find something your SO loves to do and concentrate on that for abit. Sometimes that will make her want to give you something you like in return for showing her attention. Eating Pineapples is the best.. STay away from Mcdonalds! Dom..I am here for you :-) Not only are two tongues better but the positions we come up with are amazingly hot ! Cant wait to show you Dom :-) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mike7550 133 Report post Posted March 25, 2011 I'm currently single, and quite awhile prior to the final parting of ways between my ex-SO and I, the "head count" went down dramatically. MY FAULT. Nothing to do with hygiene - I keep myself very clean and trim. My job is extremely time consuming and often times stressful beyond belief. Being a typical male, I took that home with me with the attitude that the "little things" that needed to be done at home were just not that important. "Little things" in quotes because they simply were not. I still showed her love and respect, but neglected the small stuff. Not realizing my error, we finally discussed the issue and I still did not think it that important. Well...I was wrong. I realize, Sinnister, you seem to be very cognizant of the household duties, etc., but let this be a friendly cerbite warning to the rest of you (assuming you wish to remain with your SO :icon_lol:). Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kingBong 93 Report post Posted March 25, 2011 Soap and water. Also, give and ye shall receive. What have you done, non-sexually speaking, for her lately? Do you clean up after yourself, make dinner, reduce her at home work load at all, are you more work than a kid? Do you ever just give her some affection without expecting or suggesting it lead to more right now? Date nights? Demands and expectations without reciprocation never go down well with women. They keep a list, and everytime you disrespect them, hurt their feelings, fail to deliver on a promise, a black mark is put down against you. If the marks against you outweigh the marks for you, you get nothing. If the marks of approval outbalance the marks against you, you get rewards. Women are very simple lol. OMFG, I hope you're wrong, but I'm afraid you might be right. This is some kind of blackmail. If she doesn't like giving head, I understand, but keeping a list to punish you... If my so were like that then she can keep her list and I can keep my sp list. :-) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Megan'sTouch 23875 Report post Posted March 25, 2011 Why not offer her something for head? Like a massage, or a chore around the house you wouldn't do otherwise? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
moonshadow 369 Report post Posted March 26, 2011 Goin to the grocery store tmrw and buyin me some pineapple. I'm not sure what it has to do with getting more oral action at home...but at least its healthy. Posted via Mobile Device Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Kr****er09 Report post Posted March 26, 2011 It makes your cum taste better over time, and I have heard ( but do not entirely beleive) it helps with the smell around the area as well. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BootyLoving 2441 Report post Posted March 26, 2011 Why not offer her something for head? Like a massage' date=' or a chore around the house you wouldn't do otherwise?[/quote'] From first hand experience, offer money ... 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kingBong 93 Report post Posted March 26, 2011 From first hand experience, offer money ... I think if you do that, you're in for some trouble...She will make it clear to you that she is not a prostitute (unless you want a divorce). Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Megan'sTouch 23875 Report post Posted March 26, 2011 Money not be useful if, like many married couples, you pool your money. Posted via Mobile Device Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BootyLoving 2441 Report post Posted March 27, 2011 That would explain things!!! Additional Comments: That would expain things!!! Posted via Mobile Device Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rickoshadows 937 Report post Posted March 27, 2011 Money not be useful if' date=' like many married couples, you pool your money.Posted via Mobile Device You mean like "Her money" and "Their money"! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Megan'sTouch 23875 Report post Posted March 27, 2011 You mean like "Her money" and "Their money"! Maybe I'm just ignorant but the way my parents did things, and the way I do things, is that the couple has a joint bank account and any purchases are approved by both couples, and we may get $40/week pocket money. I guess the man could offer his pocket money, but from my perspective if my partner offered to vacumn our whole house or give me a massage, that would be way more sexy/appreciated than just money. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
roamingguy 300292 Report post Posted March 27, 2011 (edited) Goin to the grocery store tmrw and buyin me some pineapple. I'm not sure what it has to do with getting more oral action at home...but at least its healthy. Posted via Mobile Device Get fresh pineapple, tastes alot better than tinned, and if you go to the produce section at some grocery stores (Sobey's for example) it comes pre chopped...no prep work needed RG Edited March 27, 2011 by r__m__g_uy double posted Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
swampgas 838 Report post Posted March 29, 2011 Lots of good advice here. I think you need to determine whether it is something with you, or with her. Some women simply just are not into it, and never will be. You can't change someones true nature. They are either naturally inclined towards it, and you can do things to sweeten the deal and make it more fun/appealing. But if she is not naturally inclined toward it... Then it will always be a struggle to get what you need. That's my experience at least. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ottawaadventurer 5114 Report post Posted March 29, 2011 I gave up on this battle a while ago... some things aren't worth fighting over. She just hates it - period. In the end, for me, this is minor compared to all the wonderful things she does. In the end, I wouldn't enjoy it anyway since I know she doesn't... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rickkm 328 Report post Posted March 29, 2011 Treat her well man; if she doesn't want to, assuming she used to do it, it's because you may not treat her right. I'm not suggestiing you are mean to her or anything like that, but she needs to feel that she is special and likely will reciprocate by treating you special; she knows what you want, no worries there dude; you don't need to tell her!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
moonshadow 369 Report post Posted March 29, 2011 Okayy...I've been eating pineapples for a week now. My breath smells like a yummy tropical drink and I'm pretty sure stiff green leaves are about to sprout from the top of my head. But still I have a raging erection and I don't see a SO coming to take care of me. I'm pretty sure I need more than pineapples. Posted via Mobile Device Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Carrie Moon 68826 Report post Posted March 29, 2011 No one has brought this up yet.. but is she into 69 at all? In my experience it's a great way to enjoy giving head as I'm getting reciprocal treatment. Plus the added bonus is you won't hear any complaining with both parties having their mouths full :p Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest f***2f*** Report post Posted March 29, 2011 I love oral...somewhat fixated on giving face to a woman (thus my nickname) and absolutely love getting blown...as Carrie states 69 is great fun and I'm a huge fan of that mutual oral activity. I can't imagine being in a relationship with a woman who would not love giving and receiving orally. If someone thinks it's disgusting to play with my body or have me play with their body their are some serious hangups there me thinks. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
