How do SPs view emails with clients - a time-consuming necessity or important tool?

[SamanthaEvans 166767]

When someone contacts me by e-mail, I always reply unless all they've written is something like, "Send yr rates & pics." My return e-mail describes what I do, what my limitations are, my fees and when I'm generally available. I'm happy to answer questions but I find that very lengthy, detailed exchanges are usually a waste of time. The men who want those are just trying to get some kind of personalized porn and have no intention of booking a meeting.

[prairieboy 103]

I am fairly new to the "hobby", but have found that a well worded e-mail, with a bit of information about yourself, that is polite and respectful will almost always get a positive response. I sometimes hesitate sending an e-mail post "visit" but have found when I have it is generally appreciated.

[SamanthaEvans 166767]

I sometimes hesitate sending an e-mail post "visit" but have found when I have it is generally appreciated.

 

Prairieboy, I for one love to receive e-mail after a visit. That kind of a thank-you note, while certainly not required, means a lot to me. E-mail leading up to the encounter is, in many ways, a way to test each other out and decide whether meeting is likely to be a good thing. There's no ulterior motive for a post-meeting note, though, which is part of why it's so nice to receive it.

[EmilyRushton 253377]

The only way I can be contacted is via email or the booking form on my website, I prefer contact via email as it allows for us to get to know one another before visiting and ensure that we have some chemistry.

 

I do not not find it time consuming, just part of everyday life. The only emails that I do not find enjoyable to reply to are the one-lined ones or the ones lacking details.

 

Let me know a bit about you and the possibilities are endless, be secretive and/or rude and I will not reply.

[Kubrickfan 12836]

Prairieboy, I for one love to receive e-mail after a visit. That kind of a thank-you note, while certainly not required, means a lot to me. E-mail leading up to the encounter is, in many ways, a way to test each other out and decide whether meeting is likely to be a good thing. There's no ulterior motive for a post-meeting note, though, which is part of why it's so nice to receive it.

 

I always try to do this after a visit ... It's a great idea if it's a sincere note and it allows me to continue a bit of a rapport post-meeting (not that we have to become best pen-pals). But I don't always get a response from the lady ... Maybe about 2/3 of the time I do.

 

I think some of the ladies may be a bit concerned that it's going to become an endless string of e-mails that they will be obliged to respond to, so the Guys need to understand that an hour or two of "intense excitement" (smile) doesn't mean weeks of e-mails. Maybe that's a bit cynical, but it's first thing in the morning and maybe I just need more coffee!

[Pink Kitty Escorts 6195]

I know we might seem a bit old school, but we are not the biggest fans of emails.. I just don't find anything very personal about it. I would like to think a phone person, live.. is sooo much more interactive.. So hard to read tone and all of the things that are really important, these are lost via email.

 

I just find so much more can be accomplished by a quick phone call on both ends for the client and the SP.

 

Now day we are also leery about responding to emails as its easy to get IP addresses and we like to keep that to a minimum.

 

Again it also cuts down in the cut and paste emails you get alot of as well, many guys dont realize its an agency they are dealing with as they never bother to notice its the same phone number in some of our online advertizing. WE get the same email sometimes 6 times. :prout:

[Ashley Ann 75247]

For the initial contact, I do in fact prefer emails ONLY when, the sender takes the time to tell me somethings about themselves..indicates what they are perhaps looking for and/or what it is they like best..as well as other pertinent information...

 

What I DO NOT LIKE and honestly, will not even bother responding to is one liners such as:

 

"If the price is right..I would love to see you"

"are you into dirty talk at all, Do you enjoy receiving rimming ?"

"I have a proposition for you...do you like liquor? If so let's chat! Let me know"

If this is the way you choose to introduce yourself to me, so be it. However, these type of emails will NOT GET YOU A RESPONSE.

 

I see emails as a great tool to break the ice so to speak....and if the person prefers to chat on the phone, I don't mind that at all...BUT, with that being said, I am not referring to talking prices or restrictions, because that is all listed on my site and/or my ad. I always insist on speaking with whomever I am going to meet with over the phone prior to our first meeting, even if we have chatted via pm's...Hearing the persons voice beforehand provides a certain comfort level for me....because after all a man can be sweet as pie via a pm, but when you actually hear their voice, you can kinda sorta get a feel of their demeanor too.

[J Galt 337]

I know we might seem a bit old school, but we are not the biggest fans of emails.. I just don't find anything very personal about it. I would like to think a phone person, live.. is sooo much more interactive.. So hard to read tone and all of the things that are really important, these are lost via email.

 

I find it quite the opposite - I'm kinda shy sometimes around the beautiful ladies and can clam up on the phone, but in an email I can be much more open and forthcoming.

[Pink Kitty Escorts 6195]

Well Common sense has to always rule, so if I recieve an email like that, usually we can try to accomodate.. but generally speaking it ends up being alot of back and forth and often, (more often than not) ends up being tire kickers..

 

Ppl that call are much more likely to see someone.. and in this city where so many no shows happen, we have to put priority on the most likely appts that are going to actually happen.