Rimming

[p_hodson 922]

Just wondered if there were any SP or MA that are into both giving and receiving. Any info appreciated. Last search was a while ago. Maybe some new info available. 

[NotchJohnson 214123]

Most of the ladies that I see love receiving(DATO) but as far as rimming it all depends on how clean you are and this will depend on the lady that is seeing you, I recommend that you contact the lady you wish to see if she offers it. 

[p_hodson 922]

Thanks. I will do that. Just wondered if there were some that actually enjoy or at least do it before I start emailing. 

[Nesbot 598]

Same here. I’ve been looking here since my favourite SP retired years ago and still not much luck.

[Luckyme 41401]

I agree with NJ.  Based on my experience, this is a highly YMMV activity and therefor, emailing may not get you an answer.  Chances are higher when the lady knows you better after the first encounter.  Being respectful, gentle, hygienic and your will to please her will go a long way to obtain your goal.

[Guest]

Most ladies are quite selective on who they give this to and will rarely list as an option.

I only seen two ladies who did it and both time came out of the blue during a massage.

It's all about hygiene and good chemistry with the right lady.

Hard to find but quite rewarding.

[Jasmine Rain 23126]

As a lady, I can say that unless it is clearly offered, it is most likely a hard no for most ladies and asking in a first contact email will most likely get you a hard no right off the bat, if you get a reply at all. 

 

Those that are open to receiving, open to greek, anal digits and other anal play may be open to being asked without being offended in a first contact email. 

 

I think the OP is right in looking here from fellow hobbyists. I think he may fare better in PM as well since many ladies will not openly advertise they do this and most of their clients respect keeping it private. Because even if they do offer it and enjoy it, it is still and always will be a YMMV thing. So to be known as a rimming provider opens her up to way too many inquiries, or guys only looking for rimming. 

 

I don't openly advertise Greek for the same reason. I like it, but I like it my way, with a certain type of cock, when the stars are aligned with Venus and Mars is in retrograde. I will never do GREEK on a first time meeting, and I don't want to be seen solely for Greek. 

 

This is a tough one. Hope you find what you are looking for OP. 

[Alisonxox 9219]

I do with dental dam 😉 

[Nicolette Vaughn 294340]

I think this is one of those things that may happen with a provider you get to know and trust. I personally don’t offer this and I will always be a hard no as from a  from a health perspective, you can contract parasites this way. 

 

If you do happen to find a provider who offers this, you may want to keep it to yourself as this sort of thing is very much on a case by case basis and an SP wouldn’t want to be bombarded with inquiries about this ESP if there is questionable hygiene. And God knows many of us have seen some not so good things related to hygiene while other clients have been very meticulous in their hygiene.

 

I remember I used to have to have reviews written on me or comments that I had this special talent. People would contact me expecting me to do this on command. I’m not a circus act and there really does have to be chemistry for me to do this. I would get requests and they would be expecting me to put on some kind of show. I’m not a porn stair and  It doesn’t work that way. I have to feel comfortable. So this topic about rimming would apply as well. 

[MGSP 1593]

I don't think it's appropriate to discuss in an open forum as rimming is one of those last taboos.  It does occasionally happen on the spur of the moment.  When it does, keep it to yourself in respect to your partner.  Until then, enjoy your journey of discovery.

[Guest]

3 minutes ago, MGSP said:

I don't think it's appropriate to discuss in an open forum as rimming is one of those last taboos.  It does occasionally happen on the spur of the moment.  When it does, keep it to yourself in respect to your partner.  Until then, enjoy your journey of discovery.

 

Normally, "taboo" implies something illegal, immoral or forbidden. I don't see why rimming would fit into that category. It's something you do with the right person, at the right moment and the right conditions. It's not really different from other forms of oral sex. It's obviously not something to discuss at the diner table. But the same could be said about most sexual practices.

Some things are simply better kept in the bedroom.