Why I’ll pass from now on, when two providers share a hotel room

[Zachmont 3826]

From a financial and a safety point of view, I totally get why two ladies might split a hotel room for in call. Based on my tale, unless I know one of them, I’ll likely pass in the future.

I rarely set same day appointments, but early this week was an exception for a few reasons. I called the lady in question, who was sharing a hotel room with another provider. I hadn’t seen either previously, but knew of them. I had wanted to see one for the past few weeks, and didn’t want to miss my window of opportunity as it was closing. So I showered, called up, made an appointment for 25 minutes later (for a 15 minutes drive) then hopped in the car. Unfortunately, heavy rain was a bugger, so traffic was slow and delayed me a bit. Not wanting to be That Guy, I texted just before our scheduled start time to say I was at (well known location) which was about 5 blocks from (your hotel) and would be there in 5-10 min tops. Got a NP reply. I pulled up to park four minutes later, and one minute after that as I was getting out of the car, got a text, “sorry, my room mate just started with her client because you weren’t here, have to wait”.  I was five minutes late total (which admittedly, my fault).

Ok, I underst... wait, what? Did your roommate book a client the same time as me? No, no, she booked 30 minutes later, her client just showed up early.

Ok, I underst... wait, what? Are you telling me buddy showed up *30 minutes* before his time, and you were ok with that? Yeah, sorry, my room mates fault.

Well, I’ve had the occasional shitty room mate in my youth, so I guess see you in 30 min. Side note: If it weren’t someone from Cerb that I knew was legit, and if I hadn’t spent 30 minutes of hell in traffic getting there, I would have had no problem walking away. Plus it sounded like not her fault.

So fast forward 27 minutes later, get a text that it’s ok to come up. I didn’t want to rush anyone, so said only if you’re ready, was told come up. When I arrived at the hotel room, the room mate and her client were still there, in the room, and walked out as I walked in. Well. That wasn’t awkward at all.

Again, fast forward 30 minutes, and we’re done (literally, first time in my life i’ve booked 30 minutes, but I was annoyed when I saw them still there). I go to the washroom, throw the condom in the toilet and wash my hands, come out, the lady is already texting on the phone. Not exactly customer service 101, but I say nothing. In a typical Canadian fashion, I halve her tip because i’m annoyed at this entire fiasco so far (Yes, I still tipped, because despite everything so far, she seems like a nice person, I can afford it, and I appreciated her seeing me).

Here’s the kicker... as I get to the elevator, who’s hanging out waiting to head back to the room? The other provider, with the same “client”. Obviously,  my provider had texted to say all done. Again, not awkward at all, honest.

Now, I don’t know many providers who see someone, leave with them for half an hour to socialize , then back with them to the room. Combine that with “showed up 30 minutes before his appointment”, and something’s not right here. Also, as a client, I’m not going to interrupt my session half way through so someone else can have a turn in the room.  Either (a) he’s her boyfriend, in which case I got stood up for half an hour while they had a quickie and I was lied to?  Or (b) he’s her (their?) “manager”. I’m open to an option C, but I don’t see it.

To the provider, if you read this... a legitimate suggestion, to help. Don’t give your hotel room on first contact. Tell me what hotel, then, have me call from the hotel parking lot for the room number. That way, I only arrive at your door when you’re ready. Maybe buddy legitimately did show up 30 minutes early, if he was given the room the same way I was. 

I wasn’t ripped off, I’m not particularly mad at the providers. The lady I visited seemed like a really, really great person. She had accurate and recent pictures, and seemed to feel bad about what was happening. It’s just an extremely poor way to do business and left me with zero desire to repeat, no matter how good the service. If you want a glass half full ending, I had ironically been very interested in the other provider as well, and got to see her face. Very pretty! 🙂 

 

 

 

[Ice4fun 78407]

I hear you and it can be frustrating but I often remind myself that this is a business and for ladies who tour it can be a real gamble.  I have know very reputable ladies who have gone to a city and gotten no booking or repeated no shows or just broke even.... I imagine being on the road and not making any money can be very difficult so I have some understanding why ladies share a room to reduce risk.

If I am reading your post correctly you booked 25 mins in advance and we're late getting there and there was some waiting and interaction with other clients.  It sounds like it could be managed a little better but if the service was good and the lady as expected. 

Let's assume for a minute that the second lady gets has a booking that wants to come earlier but is put off till later because her partner already had a booking and then you text that your running late... the 2nd booking is early and you are late so the two ladies try to make the very best of the situation.   You waited 27 mins (which I assume was a total of about 1hr from when you made the booking and the second client got in a few minutes early.

I can live with that if it means ladies take the risk to travel.

Just my opinion.