Swingers

[Ice4fun 78407]

I was just wondering if many people in here are involved in the Swinging community..  I find it hard to believe that people who are sexually active in this industry would not also be interested in connecting with singles and couples for sex too...

 

Or an I alone in that interest )

[Guest]

    Not saying there aint any crossovers, but both cater to different type of people and activities.

Swingers are more into social gathering and sharing, while lobbyists and providers tend to prefer something more private, low key and controlled.

   After seeing and talking to some swingers, it's doesn't  seem to be as appealing, clean and safe as one would think.

I'm likely simply not getting it, but I don't see the appeal in a human buffet.

 

[Ice4fun 78407]

10 minutes ago, Greenteal said:

    Not saying there aint any crossovers, but both cater to different type of people and activities.

Swingers are more into social gathering and sharing, while lobbyists and providers tend to prefer something more private, low key and controlled.

   After seeing and talking to some swingers, it's doesn't  seem to be as appealing, clean and safe as one would think.

I'm likely simply not getting it, but I don't see the appeal in a human buffet.

 

In my experience the majority of swinging is not large group but couples looking for a second couple or a threesome ie mfmf mmf ffm 

[Guest]

Just now, Ice4fun said:

In my experience the majority of swinging is not large group but couples looking for a second couple or a threesome ie mfmf mmf ffm 

  No matter if four, six, eight or more, it remains quite different from the average lobbyist who want a very discreet thing without the involvement of their loved one.

[Katherine of Halifax 113932]

We have well run organized parties/ dances here in Nova Scotia.  We  used to have several a month but one of the main hotels closed and well, most hotels don't think we are a good fit for general population.  Now we have a dance about once a month but they are mostly couples and single ladies. Single men are permitted if a well known couple will vouch for them . Single men have to behave and wait to be asked to dance, talk and socialize.

Generally they don't have a lot of luck , I say generally because most couples are into swapping or having a single lady. You will find the odd couple that is seeking a single male , its rare and you should usually be bi.

I have attended parties for at least 15 years on and off and if I were to advise a gentleman I would say go and have fun, dance and socialize but don't expect to be lucky.

 

This is in Nova Scotia and only my personal experience.

[Guest]

4 hours ago, Katherine said:

Single men are permitted if a well known couple will vouch for them . Single men have to behave and wait to be asked to dance, talk and socialize.

Generally they don't have a lot of luck , I say generally because most couples are into swapping or having a single lady. You will find the odd couple that is seeking a single male , its rare and you should usually be bi.

I have attended parties for at least 15 years on and off and if I were to advise a gentleman I would say go and have fun, dance and socialize but don't expect to be lucky.

      I agree as this pretty much solidify my argument about Swingers and Lobbyists. Most men going to those events in the hope of getting lucky will likely not get any. And fit attractive young men who will, are normally the kind who never deal with providers and easily find someone in bars or public places.

     There definitely some who navigate between those two worlds, but I highly doubt it would be a majority.

[Brody Boivin 8445]

Not sure if it's under the category of swinging. However, I am in a serious relationship with a couple and want to open my eyes to swinging a bit more. This thread caught my eye 😄

[katie 1337]

On November 8, 2018 at 9:02 PM, Greenteal said:

After seeing and talking to some swingers, it's doesn't  seem to be as appealing, clean and safe as one would think.

I'm likely simply not getting it, but I don't see the appeal in a human buffet.

 

Yes, I'm with you Greenteal. I just can't help wonder about the Cleanliness, Safe Play, "Double Dipping"..... Nah, not into it... 

Thats just me though.... 😉

[Guest]

2 minutes ago, katie said:

Yes, I'm with you Greenteal. I just can't help wonder about the Cleanliness, Safe Play, "Double Dipping"..... Nah, not into it... 

Thats just me though.... 😉

    It's like everything else, some groups are more organised and clean while others are more impulsive and careless.

Also, those type of clubs tend more to welcome single females and couples. Single males only there for easy sex may not always get their moneys worth.

[katie 1337]

On November 9, 2018 at 8:59 AM, Greenteal said:

 And fit attractive young men who will, are normally the kind who never deal with providers and easily find someone in bars or public places.

 One may think this.....But.... There are lots of "Young,Fit,Attractive Gents that use Providers  Services. 

From what I'm Told it's more "Discrete, No-Strings Attached, and  Companionship" is why Some Choose too. 

With that being said .... I think most Gents are Yummy and Wonderful in their own way... 😀

[Ice4fun 78407]

I am not sure I would generalize about swingers any more than about people who participate in visiting SP's ... I think there are many different people who participate because it meets a particular need they have in their life.

In some cases it is a way for couples to explore sexually without going outside their marriage and if that works for them great. Many times people swing within a very small group of friends.

As for cleanliness and safety I know there are many swingers who are as diligent about this as anyone else. Unfortunately people often think of swinging as larger groups in an orgy when in fact it is often two couples or a couple with a single joining them. Good clean fun sex...

Cleanliness and safety are each of our own responsibilities so swinging would be as safe and clean as you take responsibility for.

Just my Opinion 

[Hukupp 1651]

I agree with all that you stated. You are  obviously a realist of sorts, but a small generalization can be made. It’s much easier to approach somebody in the industry than it is to approach a friend and ask for his gf or wife, if you are even in to that kind of thing, especially at the start.

[Ice4fun 78407]

1 minute ago, Hukupp said:

I agree with all that you stated. You are  obviously a realist of sorts, but a small generalization can be made. It’s much easier to approach somebody in the industry than it is to approach a friend and ask for his gf or wife, if you are even in to that kind of thing, especially at the start.

There are sites for swinging just like this site for example www.fabswingers.com.  When I referred to a small group of friends I meant friends you met through swinging not asking for your friend to share his wife.... But if his wife is hot... imagine the possibilities. Lol

[Hukupp 1651]

lol 

Ah that kind of small group of friends. Gotcha

[Andee 220524]

In my experience if an SP admits she’s into swinging in her personal life, she’ll have a surge of men wanting to meet off the clock for such activiites. 

[Ice4fun 78407]

10 hours ago, Mature Angela said:

In my experience if an SP admits she’s into swinging in her personal life, she’ll have a surge of men wanting to meet off the clock for such activiites. 

Hmmmm will that work for men as well... if a client says he is into swinging will he see a surge of women wanting to meet off the clock???? If so I want to let everyone know I am into swinging lol

 

On a serious note I can see what you are saying .... Guy's need to realize that women in this business also have private lives and that for many obvious reason they try to keep the two as separate as possible

Just my Opinion 

[MelissaCarter 1075]

I’ve been hired by single men to be their girlfriend for the night so they could go to swingers clubs and parties. Usually most swingers clubs will only allow couples and single women. Single men aren’t allowed. No problem! Hire an escort to be your girlfriend! If anyone ever goes to Toronto I recommend Club X or Oasis lounge. Those are my favourite places!

[Ice4fun 78407]

1 hour ago, MelissaCarter said:

I’ve been hired by single men to be their girlfriend for the night so they could go to swingers clubs and parties. Usually most swingers clubs will only allow couples and single women. Single men aren’t allowed. No problem! Hire an escort to be your girlfriend! If anyone ever goes to Toronto I recommend Club X or Oasis lounge. Those are my favourite places!

Hmmmm taking you to one of the local meet and greet swingers parties that are held regularly here in NL with about 50 couples would be very interesting.... i am thinking you would make us a very popular couple LOL