big AL 350 Report post Posted April 19, 2011 When Soleil and I get together, she spends the night with me. Before the 1st time she came to see me, we had talked a lot, and got to know each other via email and phone. the 1st time she came to see me, it was the 1st time we had met in person, but we knew each other very well, because we had been talking for several months. With me living 4 hours away, this is one of the reasons why she spends the night with me. plus with my disability everything takes a little bit longer to do, but knowing that we have all night and the morning, to have our fun, allows us just to relax :) With Soleil having to help me with all my basic needs this takes time, plus when we are having our 'naughty fun' I need help with things, and not have to worry about the clock,this puts us both at ease with no preassures or time constraints. for me there's no better feeling then seeing Soleil smiling over at me in the morning when I awake, she's so wonderful :) She's coming to see me again, at the end of May and I am super pumped :) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites