Victoria Phoenix 3403 Report post Posted May 13, 2019 I just had the same issue, almost to the tee! You are in the right, the client knows if its an hour or two, thats what your there for, if he wants to chill and talk, he darn well knows he is taking up that time by chilling! Do not let him make you feel guilty in the least! He is looking for a free ride,, literally girl ! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Mikeyboy 27134 Report post Posted May 13, 2019 I think it's likely been said enough but he paid you for your time. What he chose to do with it was his choice. He paid for an hour and you generously gave him an extra 15 minutes at no charge. For that he should be thankful. If you had chosen to spend more time with him at your own expense, then that would be your decision. It should never be expected. If he expected you to hang out for 2 hours, then he should have paid you for 2 hours. I think if his boss expected him to work twice as many hours at his job at no extra pay because he should enjoy it, he may have an issue with it. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Jasmine Rain 23126 Report post Posted May 21, 2019 On 5/13/2019 at 9:07 AM, Mikeyboy said: I think it's likely been said enough but he paid you for your time. What he chose to do with it was his choice. He paid for an hour and you generously gave him an extra 15 minutes at no charge. For that he should be thankful. If you had chosen to spend more time with him at your own expense, then that would be your decision. It should never be expected. If he expected you to hang out for 2 hours, then he should have paid you for 2 hours. I think if his boss expected him to work twice as many hours at his job at no extra pay because he should enjoy it, he may have an issue with it. He brought up the comparison between our incomes. LOL. Like I spend 8hrs a day making 250/hr. LOL. I see see a few clients a MONTH. I don't even escort everyday. Sometimes I don't work at all in a week. I'm just too busy. He has changed his online username on the red board. And he has had another negative experience with another escort recently. I'm glad that I got out of this when I did. I think he is having some life issues that are making him go downhill fast. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Report post Posted May 24, 2019 (edited) Full disclosure i am recently taking (trying to) a break from hobbying. I have spent 10s of thousands, sometimes a year, on a full spectrum of providers with inexplicably low considerations to 4digit hours. Every client wants to feel that they are special in your eyes. Congratulations for making him feel special i am saddened you were made to feel less worthy. You are not. I am going to try and experiment this year. Every previous sp that I think, thinks of me specially. I will offer to see them for no money, but I will be happy to spend time with them. I have had many sps ask me to stay and keep them company (usually because I saw them 4 times in a weeks visit, but a few when thing we’re slow and it was their first visit to town), but I’m betting no one would take me up on my offer. If if I do find someone who does, forgive me if I don’t tell!! but likely this will make it easier to exit from hobbying as I get blocked from all of the sps I ask. Edited May 24, 2019 by Guest Final statement added Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TorontoMelanieJolliet 4458 Report post Posted May 27, 2019 that's an interesting strategy 😉🤭. Good luck! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Report post Posted May 27, 2019 On 5/24/2019 at 3:18 PM, fac3fun said: I am going to try and experiment this year. Every previous sp that I think, thinks of me specially. I will offer to see them for no money, but I will be happy to spend time with them. I have had many sps ask me to stay and keep them company (usually because I saw them 4 times in a weeks visit, but a few when thing we’re slow and it was their first visit to town), but I’m betting no one would take me up on my offer. If if I do find someone who does, forgive me if I don’t tell!! but likely this will make it easier to exit from hobbying as I get blocked from all of the sps I ask. Instead of getting yourself blacklisted for nothing, why not simply quit? May work in the short term. But a few years from now this may bite you if you want a happy massage or other services. Always better to stay in good terms. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
