Gentleman11 10508 Report post Posted April 21, 2011 This is my first CERB thread and mainly aimed towards the hobbyists, but please SP's please feel free to join in. What gives you the most satisfaction (no stupid pun here) from engaging and sharing on CERB? Let's skip the obvious: contacts, business, etc. Is it the forbidden, naughty, intellectual engagement, humurous or pure fun/other reasons. For me, it is a bit of most of the above, I love sexuality, honesty and intellect that rises from most of the threads. I really appreciate the sincerity and CERB willingness to share some of life's most challenging/sensitive and humourous moments. I've only been a memeber for a few months but value you collective wisdom immensely. What works for you on this site and doesn't work? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
r100rs 859 Report post Posted April 21, 2011 I am a sensual, sexual being, content on this site makes me feel like I'm not alone in my love of sensuality. Of course the members make the site, and this site has awesome members. We are a collective of all types of people,personalities and everyone on here has something I can grow from. I also feel that nothing is taboo here when it comes to discussion threads , of course as long as it done tastefully. I have received some awesome advice from the site about everything. I don't feel alone here, I don't suffer from "terminal uniqueness" here either. Everyone needs to feel they belong somewhere and for me, I feel a sense of belonging. r100rs Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
antlerman 17064 Report post Posted April 21, 2011 it allows me to explore my sexuality and not be judged.....to be open and honest with this side of my personality.... and it help when I masturbate....hehehehe Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
VedaSloan 119179 Report post Posted April 22, 2011 What I love about CERB are the various different perspectives. I have always enjoyed being an SP because I get to meet with people I would normally NEVER come across in my day-to-day experiences. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Surf_Nazis_Must_Die 8958 Report post Posted April 22, 2011 This is one of the few places on the internet where a free exchange of ideas can happen with a distinct lack of trolls and idiots. There just seems to be a level of respect and open mindedness (not sure if that's actually a word, but screw it, i'm pretending it is) that is hard to find either online or in day to day life. I'm not sure what exactly makes this site work, Aside from the all the hard work MOD puts in of course, but damn it's nice to log onto a place where I don't have to sift through an ocean of childish remarks and homophobic/racist insults! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest tr*****e Report post Posted April 22, 2011 This is one of the few places on the internet where a free exchange of ideas can happen with a distinct lack of trolls and idiots. There just seems to be a level of respect and open mindedness (not sure if that's actually a word, but screw it, i'm pretending it is) that is hard to find either online or in day to day life. I'm not sure what exactly makes this site work, Aside from the all the hard work MOD puts in of course, but damn it's nice to log onto a place where I don't have to sift through an ocean of childish remarks and homophobic/racist insults! Very true, Surf. This is a place to rub shoulders(and other things:D) with decent people who have at least 1 common interest;). The community of this site is what I like. We post jokes, political info, and some serious stuff, too. I love the depth of the forum! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest AdamK Report post Posted April 22, 2011 I think one of the things that makes this type of forum work is it provides the SP's/MP's an environment to have a clear exchange with potential clients, and maintain contact with existing clients. Obviously, this type of exchange wasn't possible on Craigslist which was part of the reason for it's termination of the Escort section. I think because of this more open friendly forum, I didn't consider the business to be as ruthless as it truly is, which has come to light recently. It definitely allows for many varying subjects to be discussed, and some of them are quite eye opening to say the least. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
NotchJohnson 214122 Report post Posted April 22, 2011 This is by far the most interesting site that I visit(almost everyday and more then once a day) I enjoy looking at the beautiful ladies here on CERB and getting to know them better. I read pretty much all the thread on here and when possible I share my thoughts on any subject and appreciate any feed back. I don't keep grudges if someone does not agree with me because I might change my mind after reading his thoughts. Cerb is a fantastic community. One of the things that I also enjoy a lot is writing/reading the recommendation of all the ladies here. I must admit many guys here are fantastic story/experience writers. I like to share jokes, videos, thoughts and experiences. Very good choice for your first thread starting Gentleman11 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
roamingguy 300292 Report post Posted April 22, 2011 I like the sense of community and mutual respect on CERB. I was on (since left) three other sites. On one site the guys (judging from some pm's sent to me after a reco) seemed to consider ladies nothing but hookers and I would assume the flip side, guys nothing but johns...reinforced the negative stereotyping of escort (btw I view seeing SP's/MA's as seeing ladies, and hopefully, the ladies are seeing gentlemen) These three other sites I left, it left a bad taste in my mouth, if my pm's were any example, I wouldn't wish any ladies see any of the guys that pm'd me. CERB has raised the bar, and is a community. The discussions and posts sometimes get heated, but for the most part even with disagreements, there is still respect RG Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
