katie 1337 Report post Posted June 29, 2019 (edited) This is really bothering me, and Truly hope isn't not a Lyla Member. Is there a Hobbyist on Lyla, going around making "Threats" of putting "False Negative Input About Sevice Providers"? Yes, I know not Everyone is Honest, Weather a Member on Lyla or Not. Nothing is Ever Fool Proof, I do know and realize that.. Weather it's Hobbyest or Service Providers. Ill try and make this fairly short.. Yes, for the 1st time, I just ran into this situation. Book a Very late Night Session, Arrange the Location, Meeting at the Precise Door Entrance, (Maybe someone was confused), Arranged a Different Attempt, Nobody Showed! Mmmm.. Threats of Warning Section.. For What! Told, I'm not real, I'm not really here at Arranged Location, Having a P... mp, Feeding my Habit (Sorry, I don't have Habits to Feed) .. Can't Paint us with all the same brush, as I must have a reason for Providing Companionship.. (Not his Words)! I hope a Member on here, wouldn't be this Dishonest 🤔.... Am I bothered by this.. Sure.. Although, I am glad... We didn't end up meeting. 😘.... I certainly would hope there isn't the dishonesty .. Immatureness on Lyla.. xoxo's 💋 Edited June 29, 2019 by katie Correction Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Phaedrus 209521 Report post Posted June 29, 2019 Probably nothing much you can do here. All you can really do it make sure other providers are aware that this client is problematic... 2 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Report post Posted June 29, 2019 I agree there always gonna be aholes trying to intimidate and blackmail for random reasons. I wouldn't lose sleep over this. Block that person and move on with your life. If that person tries to stir sh!t here, we'll take care of it. The more vocal they are, easier they are to expose and ban. Have a nice weekend. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
roamingguy 300292 Report post Posted June 29, 2019 Actually if true (and I hope not) it flies right in the face of Lyla rules https://www.lyla.ch/faq/category/1-rules-welcome-letter/ (here is part of it copied/pasted) "Welcome to the site! PLEASE READ THESE RULES: - No Slander - Post only positive recommendations! This is not a review board! - No advertising prostitution related services or advertising sites offering such things - No posting nude photos or photos depicting sexual acts. Yes this site is adult but we do not allow porn - If you do not have anything nice to say don't say it!" If true and this character posts something slanderous, a negative review and/or something not nice to say report it to Moderator for action. It seems to me it flies in the face of Lyla (Cerb) policies and character and is more suited (unfortunately) to erb like boards Good Luck RG 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
katie 1337 Report post Posted July 1, 2019 Thanks! 😘.. It bothered me, maybe a bit too much.. 1st time anyone talked like too me. I wasn't sure if I was Hurt or Angry, likely both. There's Aholes everywhere. Makes a Person Wonder if an Sevice Provider would Fall for Behaviour and Threats like this ... As this is a "Text From Him The Next Morning" Imagine that! "I Don't Think So, I Did Absolutely Nothing Wrong.... He Can Kiss My Rosey Red Asssss"! Sorry, that's how I feel and had to say it ☺️., Thank-You Guys xoxo's 💋 3 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shyness13 1148 Report post Posted July 1, 2019 So sorry this happened to you aholes like this ruin things for us good guys. His loss I say I’m still hoping to meet you someday as are chats back and forth are alway great you seem very sweet and I can’t wait to meet you!!! ❤️😘 1 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest JamesB700 Report post Posted July 1, 2019 Agree with above. I want to believe there are many more of us good guys around than bad. I can see how the @ssholes can be very stressful at times though. Sorry you had this happen. Like shyness said, you seem very genuine and I also look forward to meeting you. ;) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
katie 1337 Report post Posted July 1, 2019 6 hours ago, shyness13 said: So sorry this happened to you aholes like this ruin things for us good guys. His loss I say I’m still hoping to meet you someday as are chats back and forth are alway great you seem very sweet and I can’t wait to meet you!!! ❤️😘 Aww, Thank You Shyness13! 😘.... You are 100% right, the Aholes Can/Will make it harder on the Nice Gents. With that being said, We know that there are "Nice Guys", "Gentlemen out there".. Which does Make it up with the not so great ones. If it wasn't for You Gents, I'm thinking a lot of us wouldn't be doing this. I know, I wouldn't be. I have "Zero" Tolerance for Aholes! Always have and Always Will. Although, I do wish "All Ladies/Girls",did feel the same. Nobody "Female or Male" Needs/Should Torerlate Aholes.. for any reason. On the same Note, It's not only The "Male Aholes" that can make the Good Guys look Bad... The "Female Aholes-Service Provides" can make the rest of us look not so great also. With all the "Negative Meetings,Switch & Bait,Robberies.. Ect.." Going on everywhere. Remember Gents, Can't Paint All With The Same Brush" 😘.. I Realize That Also With The Gentlemen/Guys/Boys" there are lots of Respectful Gents out there.. Thank Godness. 😉... PS: I Enjoy our Chats Back and Forth also Shyness13.. and We Will Meet.. Very soon :).. Eat your Wheaties.. Lol ;).. xoxo's 💋 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
katie 1337 Report post Posted July 1, 2019 43 minutes ago, JamesB700 said: Agree with above. I want to believe there are many more of us good guys around than bad. I can see how the @ssholes can be very stressful at times though. Sorry you had this happen. Like shyness said, you seem very genuine and I also look forward to meeting you. ;) Thank you JamesB700 😘! There are a lot more "Good Guys", than Bad ones. :).. I am Genuine 😉... There's No other way.. ;).. Looking Forward meeting you also ☺️.. xoxo's 💋 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Andee 220524 Report post Posted July 2, 2019 Just ignore people like him. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
katie 1337 Report post Posted July 5, 2019 On July 2, 2019 at 3:14 AM, Mature Angela said: Just ignore people like him. Your so right ... Another Added to the List.. (Sorry, thought the pho went well,with it) lol 😉 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TorontoMelanieJolliet 4458 Report post Posted July 10, 2019 Today I am joining you. I feel completely picked on. Like a pile on more like it. I use words that I have used on many occasions and they convey clearly what I mean. And no one has taken offense. But it seems hobbyist-like ppl are enjoying picking apart my words today. And even looking for a way to set the stage for a fight. I'm done with this. It seems this beautiful day is a boring one for some and are looking for a way to cause conflict, for their amusement? Why can't they just mind their own business. If they don't want to see me they are not being forced. Why not just leave me to make my income so I can pay my bills instead of trying to drive me out on the street, penniless? Where is the joy in that for a hobbyist? I don't get it. I used to see this stuff in the strip club but at least there I could see people face to face and deal with it. Here it's open seasons by a whole bunch of randos. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TorontoMelanieJolliet 4458 Report post Posted July 10, 2019 What is it called when people want to stir you up by saying/imposing a feeling or emotion (that you are NOT feeling) onto you, in order to get a response? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
waterat 20911 Report post Posted July 10, 2019 I'm no psychologist but perhaps it's 'projection'. It's how they feel and they're attempting to get rid of their bad feelings by pushing them onto someone else - and likely not even to 'get a response'. As RG would say: "a rambling". 1 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
katie 1337 Report post Posted July 11, 2019 Beleive Me Melanie, Your Not Alone! ❣....I'm Thinking we all get those days. Sometimes, it may be more often than others. There are "Soooo Many Aholes out there... Men yes... But Some are Women Too" My Gosh, When Local Sp's Feel the Need to Bother Visiting Sp's" that just Adds to the Ballgame! Along with the Reg Aholes.. That has nothing better to do.. For Some Reason, this is becoming More and More! Venting Helps ... And So does Just Plainly Telling them "Nicely to "Fuccckkkk Oufffff"... Think of the Nice Gents that are still out there and have already Met 😘.. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
