terminator252 102 Report post Posted August 6, 2019 Still consider myself new to the hobby and I was wondering if an SP uses the words "party friendly" in her ad, should I avoid? I am assuming that party friendly means they are comfortable doing or selling hard drugs. Should I avoid SPs just because of that? I have seen many ads with those words so I really thought I would get some opinions from more experienced hobbyists. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
50 Shades Raven 31381 Report post Posted August 7, 2019 Although the phrase could be innocent, 99 times out of 100 it means exactly what you stated. A reputable sp will be friendly, courteous and not “over eager”. Party friendly was code word for drugs, always best to err on the side of caution. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
funinbed 116 Report post Posted August 7, 2019 Since I don’t do drugs I never respond to an ad that advertises Party Friendly It could IMO mean anything from marijuana to hard drugs but it’s something I avoid in my life Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
drakas 67 Report post Posted August 7, 2019 IMHO "friendly" implies it's OK for you to arrive drunk/high, since that might be off putting for some, it doesn't mean they will be doing any of the above. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Report post Posted August 7, 2019 15 minutes ago, drakas said: IMHO "friendly" implies it's OK for you to arrive drunk/high, since that might be off putting for some, it doesn't mean they will be doing any of the above. I never interpreted that way. As far as I know, it allows or tolerates the use of recreational drugs depending on the agreement between both. Meeting someone when already intoxicated is a recipe for disaster. I seen too many getting robbed because too high or drunk to be aware of their situation. And on the ladies side, I'm not sure many will welcome a complete stranger who could turn violent on a dime due to his altered state of mind. Like with everything else, better start with a good first impression and work your way from there, instead of the opposite. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Raquel Brooks 151 Report post Posted August 7, 2019 Ugh, yeah, what they said. And from this side, I've had folks contacting me LOOKING for drugs. And not believe me at ALL when I tell them no way, no how, never done and never will. I'm in the BIZ, I MUST do drugs, right?? WRONG! Heh, just sharing that frustration 😉 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
incognitoxxx 100 Report post Posted August 8, 2019 so.. if SP advertises "party-friendly". avoid? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
