NSAndy 15 Report post Posted September 24, 2019 Hey all, just wanted to start yet another discussion about providers wasting time. I hear all the time how clients don't show up - and that providers have lists of bad dates (for one reason or another). I know lyla doesn't allow us to completely trash on providers here, and I get the reasoning, but really - we need to know about the hobbyists who are time wasters. I live about an hour from Halifax and drive in to see providers most of the time. I just got back from another girl (two girls in two days) who just go radio silent once i'm there. I sat in my truck for 30 minutes before I bailed. How long do you guys typically wait until realizing she's messing with you? 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
phenom13 552 Report post Posted September 24, 2019 Like you, I drive an hour from the valley to see a SP. So getting stood up is a real burn for me too. I try to limit this from happening by seeing the same girl that I know is legit, or by doing the “Lyla-check” first. This has helped a lot, but sometimes if you take a chance then there is that risk. Lyla has definitely made choosing a SP a better process! Thanks to all who contribute. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Report post Posted September 24, 2019 I don't quite see what good could come from this thread. If justified, a warning should be posted in the appropriate forum: https://www.lyla.ch/forum/155-nova-scotia-warnings-to-report-bait-and-switch-scams-amp-dangerous-encounters-not-for-negative/ I understand the frustration, but this is not a productive way of expressing it. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Janebondage 2264 Report post Posted October 5, 2019 This is absolutely horrifying to read. I am sorry your having shit luck. Are you using reputable girls with established cliental? A little back ground work may make a difference. As someone who is also a hobbyist I used the other hobbyists around the boards here to vets providers. usually dropping a nite in their box if they had seen them or asking on a thread and other hobbyists would PM Me I hope you have better results in your next endeavours. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Andee 220524 Report post Posted October 9, 2019 Anybody with a cell number and internet connection can post as a provider. Doesn’t mean they are actually in the business of providing a professional service. Do your research - Just like clients, we are not all on the same page. 2 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Katherine of Halifax 113932 Report post Posted April 23, 2020 Wow , just wow. In all my years in service I had an extreme emergency that I was afraid to call . I left a note on my door explaining and of course the next date was free of donation. 3 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
waterat 20911 Report post Posted April 27, 2020 Katherine: shit happens. I'm writing from Ottawa and we haven't met - though I think we've swapped posts here on Lyla (ok, more likely cerb). This has Happened to me and I've simply paid the provider and also paid for our next visit. Many circumstances are beyond our control, certainly for SW's - I believe that we need to hold the time-wasters and no-shows to account. I hope your clent who had to have a delayed visit reads this. You're too generous, but I already knew that. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites