First-timer

[principled.pareto 0]

Hi all,

 

I'm a young guy, college-aged, and completely new to this (not just the escort part, but all of it). I've decided that I want my first time to be with an escort so that it's a controlled environment and there isn't the embarrassment factor.

 

I'd also like my first time to be a learning experience, in terms of how to actually please a lady.

 

I am, however, concerned about the fact that I don't have any references.

 

Can anyone recommend a service provider, and suggest how best to approach the reference issue? (Or, for that matter, can any service providers offer suggestions?)

 

Any input would be very much appreciated.

 

Thanks very much!

[Zachmont 3826]

Hello there, Prince!

Everybody starts out somewhere, so no worries at all about your situation. Some small suggestions, if you will.

First, you’ve taken the right first step. Starting out, I’d highly suggest calling upon a well established regular lady on Lyla than a random ad on Leolist or another site. You’re so much more likely to have a great time. Remember that when you communicate, be polite and don’t be graphic. I’d let them know about your situation; most ladies will be exceptionally understanding and go the extra effort for you. 

You’re going to be nervous as the time approaches, that’s expected. Here’s the thing... IF you get cold feet and back out, DO NOT ghost the woman waiting for you. Text (or call) and let them know about your anxiety. These ladies have cancelled their plans for the evening just to meet with you, and it’s wrong on so many levels to just not show up. Again, these ladies are awesome and can help you through your nerves.

Show up on time; If you arrive early, hang out nearby (though not on the doorstep!) til it’s your time, don’t show up 10 minutes early. Shower before you head out, brush your teeth.

I don’t know your financial situation, but get at least an hour of time with the lady. I’d even consider an hour and a half or two hours, if you can swing it financially. Respect their limitations completely; if you’re unsure, simply ask once you’re there. 

As for who... there’s several options. Check their profile, look at their pictures. There literally is no wrong decision if you pick any of these (this isn’t by any means an exclusive list!).... if it were me in your position, I think Kylie Jame would be a no-brainer decision and my go to choice. Ms Manda has a stellar reputation and would give you a night to remember. If you prefer the girl next door type, MelanieMystery is breathtaking and such an amazingly nice person. Katherine is known for being great and would certainly go the extra mile to make your evening memorable. Charlotte Quinn is a sensual woman who would be great. Savannah Sol is a supermodel with stellar reviews. 

Each lady has different levels of screening to their comfort level. Once you make you decision to whom, contact them and see what theirs is. Some may request a deposit; sometimes, that’s a warning sign of a scam, but all of these ladies are 100% legit and you have absolutely nothing to worry about. Take the screening in stride; these ladies are placing themselves in a state of vulnerability with an unknown stranger, so understand their caution. They’re not out to cause you grief, they’re looking out for themselves.

Any questions, shoot me a message!

[RayRenpelle 429]

I will say the advice is good. Although I don't personally know all the listed ladies their reputation and recommendations are worthy. Two I know, Kylie Jane and Charlotte Quinn are great choices. I am no longer a college student I certainly was just as new and these ladies were great "teachers". I would also add DirtyblondeStephanie(StephanieMystique) who is also excellent!

[Guest]

Read the NS recommendations forum:

https://www.lyla.ch/forum/100-nova-scotia-recommendations/

Would also recommend half-hours when in doubt and private incall locations. Meeting MA's is also a good way to get your foot in the door. Just make sure to communicate well your needs and avoid misunderstandings. 

 

[monkey999_v2 1]

I echo Ms. Manda as well for first-timers. Saw her a long time ago but she was the first SP for me at the time.

[StephanieMystique 1892]

On 12/9/2019 at 10:36 PM, Zachmont said:

Hello there, Prince!

Everybody starts out somewhere, so no worries at all about your situation. Some small suggestions, if you will.

First, you’ve taken the right first step. Starting out, I’d highly suggest calling upon a well established regular lady on Lyla than a random ad on Leolist or another site. You’re so much more likely to have a great time. Remember that when you communicate, be polite and don’t be graphic. I’d let them know about your situation; most ladies will be exceptionally understanding and go the extra effort for you. 

You’re going to be nervous as the time approaches, that’s expected. Here’s the thing... IF you get cold feet and back out, DO NOT ghost the woman waiting for you. Text (or call) and let them know about your anxiety. These ladies have cancelled their plans for the evening just to meet with you, and it’s wrong on so many levels to just not show up. Again, these ladies are awesome and can help you through your nerves.

Show up on time; If you arrive early, hang out nearby (though not on the doorstep!) til it’s your time, don’t show up 10 minutes early. Shower before you head out, brush your teeth.

I don’t know your financial situation, but get at least an hour of time with the lady. I’d even consider an hour and a half or two hours, if you can swing it financially. Respect their limitations completely; if you’re unsure, simply ask once you’re there. 

As for who... there’s several options. Check their profile, look at their pictures. There literally is no wrong decision if you pick any of these (this isn’t by any means an exclusive list!).... if it were me in your position, I think Kylie Jame would be a no-brainer decision and my go to choice. Ms Manda has a stellar reputation and would give you a night to remember. If you prefer the girl next door type, MelanieMystery is breathtaking and such an amazingly nice person. Katherine is known for being great and would certainly go the extra mile to make your evening memorable. Charlotte Quinn is a sensual woman who would be great. Savannah Sol is a supermodel with stellar reviews. 

Each lady has different levels of screening to their comfort level. Once you make you decision to whom, contact them and see what theirs is. Some may request a deposit; sometimes, that’s a warning sign of a scam, but all of these ladies are 100% legit and you have absolutely nothing to worry about. Take the screening in stride; these ladies are placing themselves in a state of vulnerability with an unknown stranger, so understand their caution. They’re not out to cause you grief, they’re looking out for themselves.

Any questions, shoot me a message!

First off, who are you?!? 😍🥰😍🥰 I couldn't have written that better myself.  You are the type of person, I would love first timers and others seeking questions reach out to. 

 

For the first timer. I would say you are in the best area to be a first timer, Nova Scotia! All of the ladies mentioned above are absolutely fantastic. All are willing to help as best as we can, especially when you are polite and respectful. As for references, a lot of us will take screening information instead too. A piece of government issued ID works great too. As zachmont mentioned, I'd do an hour to 90 mins to start, as there is nerves to settle and some exploring before the big moment.

I hope you find the right one for you and have a great first time. 💖 

 

 

[Sharpe 771]

I think this thread is a bit older.  There is a similar thread (nervous first timer) that is more recent.

I’d be curious to see who Prince actually saw in the end.  Yes I know that’s kinda nosey of me isn’t it?

[RayRenpelle 429]

True, but the recommendations and advice are still very valid and worth the read for anyone. That never gets old!

[Sharpe 771]

Yes Ray I can’t argue with that.   the advice is definitely still valid!