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[librarianviking 100]

hi all, I've been reading these boards for a few months and I've been thinking of trying my first experience with an SP. I do have one concern that I'm hoping you all might be able to help me with. I've seen a few adds that request that those booking be above a certain age. I'm 25 myself, and so I'm wondering is it a generally accepted rule that SPs would prefer to avoid people of my age group? Is my age a problem for booking with SPs that don't make this stipulation? Maybe any SPs reading this might like to weigh in as well.

 

thanks in advance!

[kih 458]

hi all, I've been reading these boards for a few months and I've been thinking of trying my first experience with an SP. I do have one concern that I'm hoping you all might be able to help me with. I've seen a few adds that request that those booking be above a certain age. I'm 25 myself, and so I'm wondering is it a generally accepted rule that SPs would prefer to avoid people of my age group? Is my age a problem for booking with SPs that don't make this stipulation? Maybe any SPs reading this might like to weigh in as well.

 

thanks in advance!

 

It is the individual Sp right to pick and choose their client. Remember its their time. Some Sp's have particular demographics that they cater to and it may be what they feel comforatble with.

[d*mm*y 887]

There are a few SP's that don't like guys in your age group. However I think for the most part you will find that 90% are fine with it.

[loneskater 25635]

There are a few SP's that don't like guys in your age group. However I think for the most part you will find that 90% are fine with it.

 

Absolutely there aren't too many with age restrictions but you have to respect those that do have age or other restrictions.

 

Welcome to the board librarianviking. Since you say this will be your first experience, I would suggest you check the new Ottawa recommendation section. You will see posts there on top ladies around here. You certainly want your first experience to be memorable.

 

Be patient if you decide to book with any of these ladies. They are recommended because they are Elite providers and therefore can get busy at times and get a tremondous amount of e-mails. So you need to book in advance. They are worth it. Some are out of town for the next 2 weeks. You can PM if you want details.

[T**-D*** 100]

..... I've seen a few adds that request that those booking be above a certain age. I'm 25 myself, and so I'm wondering is it a generally accepted rule that SPs would prefer to avoid people of my age group? Is my age a problem for booking with SPs that don't make this stipulation?.....

 

This is an interesting thread. However, I was wondering about the other end of the age spectrum, i.e., 60-65 years old or even older. Generally speaking, are SP's comfortable or uncomfortable with men within this age range? I realize that there are several factors to consider here. Thanks.

[librarianviking 100]

thanks for the responses guys

[JoyfulC 132299]

This is an interesting thread. However, I was wondering about the other end of the age spectrum, i.e., 60-65 years old or even older. Generally speaking, are SP's comfortable or uncomfortable with men within this age range? I realize that there are several factors to consider here. Thanks.

 

 

As others have said, it's a highly individual preference. Some are okay with it, some aren't -- some, like myself, actually prefer senior gentleman and specialize in working with them.

 

I'm not thrilled about seeing younger (20s-ish) clients, but I will occasionally if there seems to be some connection there by email, phone or chat. (This video calling stuff is too cool, eh??) I can usually tell whether we're going to be compatible after a brief exchange.

 

Age and other preferences are one thing, but in the end, it's really all about click -- from both sides. I prefer senior gentlemen, but I'd rather see a younger guy I really click with (can laugh with, am on the same wavelength with) than a senior gent I don't.

 

..c..

[kih 458]

As others have said, it's a highly individual preference. Some are okay with it, some aren't -- some, like myself, actually prefer senior gentleman and specialize in working with them.

 

I'm not thrilled about seeing younger (20s-ish) clients, but I will occasionally if there seems to be some connection there by email, phone or chat. (This video calling stuff is too cool, eh??) I can usually tell whether we're going to be compatible after a brief exchange.

 

Age and other preferences are one thing, but in the end, it's really all about click -- from both sides. I prefer senior gentlemen, but I'd rather see a younger guy I really click with (can laugh with, am on the same wavelength with) than a senior gent I don't.

 

..c..

 

I have to agree. Chemistry is so important in any encounter.

[loneskater 25635]

I am glad to see an imput from an SP on this one. This was the first thread I could remember where someone asked about older clients. I thought I may have to skip a few birthdays over the next decade. I guess there is still some hope as long as the little head doesn't quit on me. Which brings another question again directed more at SPs and probably MPs too: How do you feel about clients who use Viagra?

[cat 262460]

This is an excellent thread, as the inquiries here certainly can be a concern. I side with Christine when it comes to seeing younger men. There has be some indication we are on the same page before I will have a visit with someone under 30. The main reason is the expectations are often very different, they haven't yet learned the true nature of a great encounter. I find the more cerebral young men far more advanced in this arena. If I recieve a picture of a buff rugby player with genitals exposed, I pass. Actually, pictures attached to a first email do not help in my case, because if you are handsome, it seems cocky. I find techies to be wonderful at any age, and acedemics are a delight when they cross my path.

 

As for the little blue demon, my guests know that unless there is a medical reason, I prefer it not be used. Nothing is more frustrating than spending 3 hours having big fun and having my guest walk out with things unfinished on his end. It's like having a dinner guest go home hungry.

 

Catherine

[JoyfulC 132299]

I like Viagra! Depending on the circumstances, it can solve certain problems, and in other cases, it can enhance the experience. I haven't really experienced any situation where someone walked off unsatisfied after using Viagra who wouldn't have if he hadn't used it. Not being able to achieve an orgasm is a whole different problem from not being able to maintain an erection -- the latter of which Viagra is designed (under certain circumstances) to address.

 

But it's never the complete solution, nor is it a solution for everyone. Specifically, gentlemen who've had radiation therapy following radical prostatectomy and who have sustained a certain type of nerve damage may not find Viagra particularly useful. One problem I've noticed is that the top 2/3s of the penis will become erect, but it's not erect near the base. This can render thrusting penetration very difficult. And for many men, thrusting is essential to satisfaction. There are remedies, but it takes a willing and experienced partner.

 

And too, I'd like to note that one of things that seems to make for a most successful golden sex life is the willingness to learn new things about oneself and about pleasing one's partner. Most of us are further from 16 than we are from 60, and so it's silly to keep expecting sex to be like it was when we were 16. Especially since it appears that it might actually be better at 60! Different -- but definitely better. To get there, though, takes an open mind and an adventurous spirit -- a willingness to explore, exeriment, take chances. Fortunately, as we get older, this gets easier -- after all, what do we got to lose??? ;)

 

..c..

[ulixestrojan 3757]

Great thread - I am wondering what opinion both ladies and gentlemen gathered have about age, not of clients but of the service provider. I think that chemistry plays an equally important role here. I have been with a young, stunning, airhead and could not maintain an erection to save my life because she would not stop saying the most stupid annoying things and I have been with 50 year old courtesans who made me so hard I could drive in a 9 inch spike with two stokes of my penis.

 

Experiences?

[d*mm*y 887]

I am a firm believer that the lady needs some experience, I do know 23-25 year olds with a lot of experience however once an SP hit's 30 things really start to boil!

[loneskater 25635]

Great thread - I am wondering what opinion both ladies and gentlemen gathered have about age, not of clients but of the service provider. I think that chemistry plays an equally important role here. I have been with a young, stunning, airhead and could not maintain an erection to save my life because she would not stop saying the most stupid annoying things and I have been with 50 year old courtesans who made me so hard I could drive in a 9 inch spike with two stokes of my penis.

 

Experiences?

 

Personnally I am not picky about the SPs age. I do look for the chemistry. If it's there, I like to repeat because I think it is better because you don't have the kind of akward feeling you get on a first encounter due to the unknown. I would think Sps probably have a similar feeling as they have to wonder who will be knocking on the door on a first encounter.

 

I would say that a more experience service provider might have more aptitude at helping the chemistry along but I know young ones who I find outstanding.

[antlerman 17064]

I agree and tend to side with the last couple of posts from my fellow members........But I do not really like the term "mature"......I prefer "experianced"......or "knowledgeable".....in the ways of pleasure......

 

like they say..the brain is the largest sex organ there is.......

[PistolPete 61421]

I am a firm believer that the lady needs some experience, I do know 23-25 year olds with a lot of experience however once an SP hit's 30 things really start to boil!

 

Could not agree with you more Dummpy, and the ladies that are in their 40's are also very fine, mature, know exactly how to enhance the moment as well.I've been with ladies from the age of early 20's through mid 40's.

 

The use of little helpers are great for those in need, and you remember in my prior thread about Vigor Maximum, I used the pill for the purpose of some use of gloves can put a damper on the woody, but the final release has been there 3 for 3 times in the past, so it works.

 

The little pill helper will also last for a day, which is great:D they are from my understanding certainly cheaper than any of the blue tab's or viagara, plus you don't need to see your doctor;)

[Guest waltb]

This discussion is of great itnerest to me, since I am 49 and debating my first time with an Sp and how it will happen.

 

On the one hand, a youthful body appeals to me. However, I wonder about the attraction gap; I wasn't too bad looking in my 20s and I am working out now, but if anyone has a flat, I can offer a spare tire! ;)

 

On the other, I am really seeking a mature mind to interact with, and frankly I find real appeal in someone like JoyfulC who appear to offer much more than just sex (from what I can tell).

 

What to do?

[loneskater 25635]

This discussion is of great itnerest to me, since I am 49 and debating my first time with an Sp and how it will happen.

 

On the one hand, a youthful body appeals to me. However, I wonder about the attraction gap; I wasn't too bad looking in my 20s and I am working out now, but if anyone has a flat, I can offer a spare tire! ;)

 

On the other, I am really seeking a mature mind to interact with, and frankly I find real appeal in someone like JoyfulC who appear to offer much more than just sex (from what I can tell).

 

What to do?

 

Go with your guts. Balance out in your mind which between younger or more experience you think you prefer and go for it. You want your first experience to be great and going with your gut feeling will be a positive start to your encounter. You can go with your other choice for your next encounter to see the difference. Keep in mind that some younger sps can certainly have great conversations and on the opposite some experienced SPs can be quite something in bed. Also we all have preferences( Body type, hair color etc.) in people and so do the SPs. That is why chemistry varies and will have lots to do with how great things will be. Read the reviews and pay attention to what has been written about some SPs with regards to their personnality.

[Guest f***2f***]

I'm liking the mature ladies.....erica, paige and ava are young but they have mature attitudes (and killer bods too of course)...A skilled mature courtesan is hard to beat though in my humble opinion.

[Guest waltb]

senior gentlemen? Does that make me too young at 48? ;)

[PistolPete 61421]

When you experience some of these delightful women here, you are always young at whatever age!

[d*mm*y 887]

If you notice beside our avatars both Pete and I have senior members! Not be confused with experienced dicks.

[antlerman 17064]

Senior Member........

 

And I always thought tha you were just brothers from Mexico......Senior....Brother....

 

ok...it was not that funny.....it is early still....

[BootyLoving 2441]

As others have said, it's a highly individual preference. Some are okay with it, some aren't -- some, like myself, actually prefer senior gentleman and specialize in working with them.

 

I'm not thrilled about seeing younger (20s-ish) clients, but I will occasionally if there seems to be some connection there by email, phone or chat. (This video calling stuff is too cool, eh??) I can usually tell whether we're going to be compatible after a brief exchange.

 

Age and other preferences are one thing, but in the end, it's really all about click -- from both sides. I prefer senior gentlemen, but I'd rather see a younger guy I really click with (can laugh with, am on the same wavelength with) than a senior gent I don't.

 

..c..

 

I would have to agree with you on this one. Clicking to me matters more than age, or looks. Although, to be honest, sometimes for a guy like myself, the look can make all my clickers click.

 

However, as experience has proven, even when the hottest of hotties with the killer bodies is there in front of me, if the attitude is repulsive..... its a waste of time.

[BootyLoving 2441]

As for the little blue demon, my guests know that unless there is a medical reason, I prefer it not be used. Nothing is more frustrating than spending 3 hours having big fun and having my guest walk out with things unfinished on his end. It's like having a dinner guest go home hungry.

 

Catherine

 

Not that its a good thing, but

Does it work that well????:confused: