pbb1066 100 Report post Posted May 15, 2011 Hi! I am a complete newbie, a middle-aged guy, and also a man who genuinely likes women. I am interested in exploring Ss and massage -- and I *don't* want to be a jerk.P Are there rules of etiquette/behaviour that I can be briefed on? How should I act? How should I tip? Any advice would be appreciated! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ricco 411 Report post Posted May 16, 2011 Be polite. Don't be a jerk. If you try something and she says no, or motions no, stop. Be honest, especially when answering their questions ;) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wellie 652 Report post Posted May 16, 2011 I suggest you read the forum "New to this....." which you can click on the main page of CERB. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest s**nflute Report post Posted May 16, 2011 Be polite for sure.....ask before touching. Always take a shower before the massage, if avalible, if the lady says NO......don't go there!! happy trails... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
roamingguy 300292 Report post Posted May 16, 2011 Be a gentleman Treat the lady with respect...respect her boundries and ask the lady what is and isn't allowed Hygiene (freshly showered, shaved, fresh breath) RG Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Megan'sTouch 23875 Report post Posted May 17, 2011 I can in no way offer a comprehensive list, but here are a few pointers: -Treat her with the respect you would offer to any woman you are dating. -Let her take the lead. -Be clear on her boundaries before touching her. In regards to tipping, if you see someone like me who offers an all-inclusive rate, no tipping is expected. I'm sure a tip would be appreciated if you are given superior service, but again it's not expected. If you attend a massage parlour that has a door fee (usually around $60/hour) you will need to tip for the "extras" that you want such as topless, nude, release, body slides, etc. I'm sure the gents at CERB can give you good advice on how to discuss and tip for extras. Good luck and thanks for caring enough to ask this question! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
mm99 285 Report post Posted May 17, 2011 Hey, I like how you did that; are you an IT guru or something? No I'm not. I've outsourced all my postings and encounters to an IT firm in India. I then read my encounters via the recommendations and get to see how much fun I had. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
caveman 147 Report post Posted May 17, 2011 No I'm not. I've outsourced all my postings and encounters to an IT firm in India. I then read my encounters via the recommendations and get to see how much fun I had. Now, those are the kind of web services I like! :D Sorry, nerd humour... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
