Crake 29 Report post Posted August 26, 2020 I'm sure at least some of us have heard of the negative effects of pornography on one's own sex life. Specifically, studies suggest that men who watch porn on a regular basis are more prone to erectile dysfunction and simply not enjoying sex. I haven't had either of these problems myself, but I do think that pornography has set the bar too high for women. Men like me struggle to find SPs that they are sexually attracted because we have been "spoiled". It's so easy to find whatever body type you want on porn sites, so it is easy to fall into the trap of getting desensitized to women who don't fit that specific body type. Look at me, for example. I have never had a sexual partner, so most of my sexual activity has been masturbating to pornography. Because services are so expensive, I can't see SPs often. So, I watch porn between sessions, so next session I am even more disappointed with reality. Apparently, Erectile Dysfunction and not enjoying sex can be solved by simply watching porn less and masturbating less. Does anyone think this same logic applies to selectivity in SPs? I have tried cutting back, but it never helped. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites