What are the most important criterias of being an escort from Client’ perspective?

[Katherine of Halifax 113932]

2 hours ago, Allie Zeon said:

Katherine! Thanks for chiming in girl. Do you mind telling me, how long have you been doing this?  Some girls have some regulars and they even don’t need to advertise anymore .  How about you?  Any recipe of your success ?  
thanks 🙏 

Well I started maybe 15 years ago as a massage lady with happy returns. Then one day very long ago in the forest of Cathy I was pointed to then CERB. I opened an account and was Charmaine of Halifax. I was hit with so many inquires I had not idea what to do.  So I closed my account . I didn't feel as pretty as some of the ladies  and after reading many threads thought ,"No for sure this isn't for me "  who would want me any with all these pretty younger . I can't compete . 

Soo, I came out again as a light domme. This was lots of fun but I soon realized it wasn't  for me .  So take 2, now I'm simply Katherine of Halifax. I knew I had much  to learn .I chose a few ladies that seemed to have it going on and just learned my listening. Then I made an ad one day and Katherine of Halifax was born. 

There were lots of suitors , more than I imagined . in the beginning I knew one thing . Do your best and give the best service you can . Keep your word and try to be inventive . I offered various options , I never rush folks out the door and showed my appreciation for the visit . 

I learned most by working ladies doing duos. They all had different way and outlooks . Thank you Mariana, Lady Sophia , Emma A., 

The beautiful but short time  with us  Kylie Rose of PEI. Melanie Myes .I'm sorry if imisseds anyone . 

Special treats,  a 2 hour date or more I  serve some sort of small tray  of  food  according to time of day .  Late or evening guests are offered a glass of wine for the social part of the visit . AHEM . My selection of fine reds are fit for the Queen or Pope. Bet now you want to visit. 😉 

Now to the fun . I take each date one person at a time . No cookie cutter here . I usually get requests before hand  and hope   its fun for both of us . I'm for sure a switch with a vivid imagination  . These days Katherine is  vintage chick but still open minded and like new adventures . I'm mostly your girlfriends who loves you . ( as much as permitted )  ha ha . If I am entertaining at home I am generous with my time you will never be rushed in my home.  If you are really nice I will let you see my fabulous Siamese family  . I'm not telling how many until you visit.  ;0 

 

That is  long .Do your absolute best for your guest.  have a spic and span home . he needs to be comfortable .  Have an open mind to meet fantasies . As long as its a no pain game I  am in . I also  love role playing . Over the years I have several well developed characters . They can come out by request .   I easily slide into character and am good at adapting to one of your favorite  people in your fantasy . 

To finish , your guests are important . Remember they picked you from the sea of beauties . Be straight , this is who I am,  my restrictions are not ever going to change . ( most respect you for this ) Weed the rule pushers , they serve you no good and may  get worse . Be on time , treat your guest every time the best .  I feel its better to cancel at least a day ahead if you are ill . If I can't do my best I   don't offer myself.

Your in call. Must be spotless ,  I mean hotel clean.   You don't need fancy but clean is of paramount.  Clean your cat litter every day .  Guests hate the smell of a dirty box. No clutter , our guests don't want to see  our stuff laying about . Its their time , make sure everything is perfect or as perfect as possible. No cats or dogs in site unless they are welcome . Clean and clean .  always fresh clean towels soap, I have razers in case and mens deodorant,    Clean  your furniture . if a guy doesn't not have a cat he can't go home with a hairy butt. Have a lint roller just in case . This is important . I had trouble in my location but I cleared this up fast . Less is unacceptable  .  i guaranteed i was clean but it did take time  . 

This is not for everyone I'm sure . I treat my guests the same way as I treat anyone else. I speak my mind , and can be considered too direct  . You know exactly where you stand with me .   This attracts the type who are seeking, playful conversation ,  longer dates and  people with certain needs they may be shy in conveying . I'm non judgmental and tend to flow easily  . But oh,  if you make me cross I may give you a wife experience . 🙂   

Seriously , be yourself , treat your gents with respect . it will come back to you many times over . 

You will get the odd one that is not right . He won't be back and hope  that he finds someone more suitable . 

I don't advertise much unless I am going somewhere . People who really want you and  are top shelf clients will hunt you down .I had someone recently that went away for 7 years and he came to visit .  Hopefully this makes sense . Anyone who likes  a part see if it works  

End of a long story, 

 

 

Katherine 

[Katherine of Halifax 113932]

On 11/29/2020 at 10:17 PM, Livelife said:

For me it’s important to understand that the time we spend is an escape for me from outside worries. I love to be loved & caressed, give & receive respect. Conversation plays such an important role. Thanks 

Exactly , leave all your trouble in the car .  TIme for you to be a King .

[Allie Zeon 2925]

Yes...yes...and yes!!! Thanks Katherine.  I can’t wait to see your Siamese family girl. Merry Christmas 🥰

[anon30s 105]

Age 52 and in a smaller isolated city in Canada.

Not that much experience in seeing providers but some of the same principles could carry over from those I get massage from (legit massage - unfortunately no massage parlors in my city) or exotic dancers that give lap dances.  While my historical "go to" for being attracted to women is "short and stacked" leaning toward or is a BBW type, when I visit my only local strip bar the dancer than I most want to see when she comes into town is slim and tall and bit older than the average.  When she gives a lap dance it is a sensual experience with her running her fingers down your back and slowing doing a light grinding and sometime just giving a nice long hug along with the dances.  Unlike some dancers she is always touching you with her body in some way during pretty well the entirety of the dances.  The average dancer that does lap dances and comes to my city isn't that impressive - you either get someone who treats most of the dance like a table dance and is a distance away from you for much of the dance, or once in a while someone that seems to want to grind your meat into hamburger.

 

If I were to find a semi regular service provider that was in my price range (I'm certainly no high roller) and availability I'd be looking for someone that gave more of the GFE I've heard about - but seems rare and elusive in my area.  Conversation, looks, piv sex, are all secondary or tertiary to me.  I'd like someone that would kiss and make out for a while, along with ending things with a blowjob or piv sex.  Someone who teases to please and isn't trying to get me off very quickly.  She could be young or on her way to collecting old age pension, bbw or a "spinner", dressed up or not (prefer her to be clean and her place not a disaster area).  While it is not important, I'd rather she said little or just some casual conversation than trying to hard to give me unconvincing lines on how attractive I am, big my penis is, how fascinating some aspect of life is or anything else along those lines.

[Allie Zeon 2925]

Thank you for your input dear @anon30s!

I have leant one thing that i did not pay attention before that clients are actually can be divided into 2 main groups:

The first group is the one who prioritize communication....interpersonal human touch...an ultimate GFE experience .

 the look and age are not  their first priority, although everyone says, it's definitely the bonus.

The second group is the one who pay a particular attention to a certain act or certain type and even certain age group.a girl

For example, someone who searches for those who can give him an oral stimulation for an hour long, golden shower, domination, etc.

Or someone who is looking for petite, slimmer type in her 20s only.  GFE has become secondary since the service is geared towards, either certain look, body type and age group or a lady with a specialty service.

 

As a provider, it is simply impossible to meet everyone's needs, wants, fetishes and fantasy. Based on the comments in here, what we can do as a provider is simply be ourselves and do the best we can do and do what we like to make sure that everybody is happy, including us, as a provider.  Personally, all comments have given me the assurance that it is ok being me and that is ok that i will not be everybody's type. 

Therefore, Just be excellent of what we have been given for and keep maintaining our excellent service to our clients ...be punctual and have integrity (input from @StephanieMystique, cleanliness and hygiene @Katherine of Halifax, and I would add to be always fit, healthy, happy and attentive, all are the key to a longevity in this profession.

Price is also important and i agree with that.  I personally give some discounts and special offer5 from time to time, if you pay enough attention lol (wink!).

 

merry Christmas and happy new year!!! 

 

[happy fisherman 76]

Each and everyone is special, clients or providers! All have talents and needs!

For this guy, snuggle time and a quite time sharing ones warmth warms the heart!

MERRY CHRISTMAS Allie!

[Ice4fun 78407]

In my experience the most important thing is trust and security... both parties in this lifestyle need to rely on the trust and security of the other.  After that I think the biggest asset a lady can have is to be a people person...being able to create an environment where the client is relaxed and comfortable.  Just my Opinion

[lance36 114]

Me at first, its their eyes, if I can get aroused by looking into her eyes, I am sold! after its all secondary, I love busty gal! and also sexy voice. The rest is feeling comfortable, and making the provider comfortable too, its been awile I have not seen one, damm lockdown. thanks 🙂

[Ice4fun 78407]

I gave a quick short reply 2 days ago but after reading many of the posts here I decided to expand on my answer.

As I previously said my number 1 criteria is trust and security but in reality that is what I really look for in a first visit but I think the OP was talking about building a client base that stay with you over years.

Well to establish that returning client there obviously is a need to make that 1st impression. Many of the very successful ladies seem to work very hard at their advertising... sometimes less said the right way is better then too much detail. 

Professional pictures help (mind you some ladies selfies make you think they are professional pics) as well as a good website. But the actual words used make all the difference to me.... if it makes me feel that the lady is talking to me...I am hooked.  

 

Certainly it does not hurt to be out of this world beautiful and sexy but the reality of this is that beauty and sexy are very individual things.  When I first started seeing ladies about 40yrs ago I thought that beautiful and sexy was young, tall, thin with an hourglass figure and big boobs.... I have learned that Beautiful and sexy comes in all shapes, sizes and ages.  Over the years I have enjoyed learning that diversity really is a good thing.  

 

Like others have said in this thread I think this is more about connection then looks or services.  Like most businesses there is always another option for the customer so your competing on service experience or price.  In my experience price competition in this industry is a lose/lose.

My recommendation focus on the experience and how you can improve the experience... how you can make each customer feel he/she is your only concern.   Make it easy and friendly to book, use upscale locations that are safe and discrete. Keep notes on each customer so you can enhance the connection.   Some will reply that this is a business so don't make it personal but I am talking about good customer service.... if your coffee shop remembers your name and order your more likely to create a loyalty.

Anyway Just My Opinion.

[Allie Zeon 2925]

That’s very true 👍

[Akira 31]

I am in my mid-40s. My taste in women in civilian life and as a client has changed. I find as I get older I want to be with a woman who is genuine, comfortable in their skin, smart and has a sense of humour. It also helps if they are interesting and can hold a conversation. 
 

Also, if I see a woman a few times, it’s a nice touch if she remembers some of the topics of conversation we’ve had or shared experiences. Even if months have passed since we’ve seen each other. It makes the session seem more of a “date” than a service.

[West End Tara 12]

On 11/26/2020 at 2:40 PM, Allie Zeon said:

And for ladies who have been in the bizz full time for more than 10 years, please share us your recipe of success.  I’m more and more inclined to be a “forever”  escort till I’m in my 60s and hopefully even in my 70s since I know I miss the life style a lot during this  Covid.  I just realized how much I miss to be an escort...traveling the world, seeing new clients...enjoy different cities...different countries...different cultures with money in my pocket:)

I miss those moments!

 

I have been doing incall only massage work for 22 years and was doing very well until the Pandemic slowed us all down, but I do cam shows now and that has become more and more accepted as an alternative for men who want to protect themselves from Covid 19.   As long as you are honest about your rates and services prior to the arrival of your clients, keep a clean well organized work area, you should be acquiring many regular clients so your bread and butter income continues long term.   Most men enjoy it when you make some effort to look nice for them and treat them with a warm and friendly attitude and if you keep your rates reasonable you will do well as you age.  I have done escort when I was younger so I know the great majority of men are on the level men, but you still have to take precautions to ensure you are attracting the kind of client you want to have in your home so set your rules and talk to the man before booking with him long enough to get a feel for his attitude.  If he is rude when you speak to him, he won't be any nicer when you meet him, so don't let the need for money over-rule your need to select your clients with care.   Cultivate repeat clients while you are young and you will work as long as you want to.  True you cannot expect the high income you once made, but you will be comfortable.   Be a little flexible about small changes he might want to make to the booking as long as your health and comfort is not at risk in order to comply.

 

Be careful how you manage your money and pay attention to your own needs for good heath.   There is a good market for the older ladies so don't let anyone tell you are too old to work in the business.   If you are nice to the men, they will be nice to you.  You can be firm without being rude.   

[Allie Zeon 2925]

So true! Thanks for sharing dear 🥰🤗

[happy fisherman 76]

As I wake up to a new day, I like to enjoy the pleasures of warmth and comfort!

Gone are my days of wild and crazy ride off into the sunset! 

Todays wild and crazy are enjoyed in anothers company, soaking in a hot tub, massages and yes some time exploring each others body! Might be getting old but I am not dead! As Allie mentioned, as long as we are on this earth we can enjoy ones company!

Enjoy the gifts and days we have to share, each of us has that gift!

Be safe and have fun!  

[Allie Zeon 2925]

Words of wisdom:) I'm getting older too btw like everyone else. 

Enjoy the moment of relaxation. As a pro, we are not expecting you to be dark and handsome lover, we are here to pamper and to get to know you  and share stories.  I genuinely prefer average looking guy who can talk and communicate well and share stories together rather than a good looking guy who is selfish and arrogant. No thanks

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

[Andee of Burlington 28]

Be honest and don’t mislead about services or rates, don’t upsell and have a clean and safe location and just be real and unless client misbehaves, give them the full time they paid for.

[Allie Zeon 2925]

On 8/23/2024 at 2:10 AM, Andee of Burlington said:

Be honest and don’t mislead about services or rates, don’t upsell and have a clean and safe location and just be real and unless client misbehaves, give them the full time they paid for.

100%

Don't mislead the pics too, i would say.

Now, with all the beauty apps, it's easy to transform ourselves, as a provider into Hollywood star lol

[Allie Zeon 2925]

Video is harder to manipulate, although with AI technology, it's pretty easy to do as well nowadays, but we have to pay for it.

Tiktok has it but it's protected so the free app for video isn't convincing yet.

Therefore, check the videos or onlyfans of the provider if you want to see the more realistic way of how she look in flesh 

[promovers 2]

From a client's perspective, the most important criteria for choosing an escort typically include:

1. Discretion and Professionalism: Maintaining privacy and professionalism is crucial.
2. Physical Appearance: Clients often prioritize attraction and alignment with their preferences.
3. Personality and Compatibility: A positive, engaging personality and the ability to connect are key.
4. Cleanliness and Hygiene: Personal care is a top priority for safety and comfort.
5. Communication and Boundaries: Clear communication about expectations, limits, and services is essential for trust and satisfaction.

[mandmlogicosolutions 2]

 

From a client’s perspective, the most important criteria for selecting an escort typically include:

1. Discretion and Professionalism: Maintaining confidentiality and respecting boundaries is paramount.
2. Appearance and Presentation: Physical attraction, grooming, and style play a significant role in first impressions.
3. Personality and Compatibility: Clients often value someone who is engaging, adaptable, and able to hold meaningful conversations.
4. Safety and Cleanliness: Ensuring a clean, safe, and respectful environment is crucial for both parties.
5. Experience and Service Quality: Professionalism in delivering the agreed-upon services, with a focus on client satisfaction, is a key factor.

[Allie Zeon 2925]

Agreed, plus..8. Enthusiasm.

I assume you want to see us wet and excited too 😎

[maddielikesu24 0]

Love reading the insights from replies.

[cindylaxx 0]

Love reading insights from the clients. 😍