What are the most important criterias of being an escort from Client’ perspective?

[vegeta85 1675]

2 hours ago, Allie Zeon said:

And how old are dear? 20s or 30s I would say?

 

30s Why do ask?

[Allie Zeon 2925]

23 minutes ago, vegeta85 said:

30s Why do ask?

I believe the criteria may differ among age group of men. 20s to 30s may have a different expectation than those who are over 50 for instance 

[Sharpe 771]

What someone has to say in these Lyla discussion can also be important. 
I would also take a look at a lady’s Twitter page.  Often get an unfiltered look at where they’re coming from and what they’re about. 

[Livelife 15]

For me it’s important to understand that the time we spend is an escape for me from outside worries. I love to be loved & caressed, give & receive respect. Conversation plays such an important role. Thanks 

[Allie Zeon 2925]

9 hours ago, Livelife said:

For me it’s important to understand that the time we spend is an escape for me from outside worries. I love to be loved & caressed, give & receive respect. Conversation plays such an important role. Thanks 

Yes! Thank you. “To escape from outside worries”. In other words, you expect a great stimulating session,  relaxing and warmth with a nice conversation and sensual, mutual touch where you feel refreshed and rejuvenated, till the next visit:)

[Sharpe 771]

@roamingguy’s interview with @lydiahardwood had some good insights on this topic as well.

[StephanieMystique 1890]

If I may add;

I think longevity goes towards a high sense of integrity and consistency. 

Companions I admire, are consistent in their business and they have integrity. They are where they say they are, they show up on time every time, and they provide a great time. 

 

[Allie Zeon 2925]

11 hours ago, StephanieMystique said:

If I may add;

I think longevity goes towards a high sense of integrity and consistency. 

Companions I admire, are consistent in their business and they have integrity. They are where they say they are, they show up on time every time, and they provide a great time. 

 

Thanks dear. Indeed, we have to remain good, consistent and always deliver great service to our clients. Integrity is crucial, making the clients respect and they can count and trust us.  How about chemistry?

I always try to deliver my best service but the clients won’t always be coming back 🤕

[StephanieMystique 1890]

10 hours ago, Allie Zeon said:

Thanks dear. Indeed, we have to remain good, consistent and always deliver great service to our clients. Integrity is crucial, making the clients respect and they can count and trust us.  How about chemistry?

I always try to deliver my best service but the clients won’t always be coming back 🤕

We can't always guarantee chemistry. We can do our very best, but there will people we never jive with and that's okay.

I think that's goes along the lines of respect and being able as two adults have that conversation to say 'I am not your person.' I have done this a couple of times and if I think someone might be a better fit for them, I would offer that information to them to go inquire.  

If there is chemistry! We know how much more both of us look forward to the date and the time we have together. 

We also have to consider, we don't know the clients story and why they are seeing us. It could be a one time thing, their regular provider wasn't available, it is a moment of convenience, or whatever it is. 

I always try my best to make it a moment they wont forget. Even if I never see them again, they have the fond memories to look back on. 

[Guest JamesB700]

Hi Allie,

What a great topic.  Very interesting.  It's a question that can be both simple and complex.  From the responses so far it's easy to see that for most there is a lot that goes into choosing who to visit with.

I think you are on to something when comparing younger and older clients.  And, let me state from the begining, there are always exceptions.  Some people, clients or companions, who are younger, let's say 20's, will behave more mature and some older, let's say 40+, might behave immature or more youthful for their age.  So I would think that you could generally say that men in their 20's are looking for the physical attraction combined with a porn star skill set and older men are looking for.... so much more.  This is where we depart from the simple and begin our journey into the complex.

We are all individuals and unique in our own endearing ways.  Combine that with ones personal life experiences and you end up with an immeasurable array of personalities.  Wouldn't life be boring if we were all the same?

I, as you may have guessed, am of the mature group.  There is so much to say and not enough time to say it all.  I feel a rambling coming.  Lol.  

For me, certainly there is a first attraction from pictures.  I, like Notch, enjoy variety.  I like big and small, short or tall, plump or petit and young (20's+) and mature (40's+) as well as all ethnicities.  Clarification, I have not tried them all but am open to all.  Haha.  Once a picture catches my attention I look closer and read the ad.  If that reads well i look for the companion here on lyla.  Preference is given to those that actually belong and have an ongoing presence here.  But at the very least I hope to find glowing reviews that reflect what I hope to experience with a companion.  

The idea of sex appeal was mentioned earlier and cannot be underestimated.  That in itself is a topic to be discussed separately.  It's very powerful.  I believe a successful companion will be able to convey that from the start.  Beginning with the photos and the composition of the ad and following through in person during the visit.  Wrapped up into the bundle is also the ability to be personable.  To be able to greet and welcome someone into your company like a friend.  Make them comfortable.  Read them almost instantly, because we are all individuals, and tailor the visit just for them.  I think the few really successful companions are more easily able to do this.  Like a cameleon adapt themselves to some degree.  Simply able to quickly discover what the clients truly wants most of all.  Then deliver that as well or better than anyone else in such a short time frame.

My few cents

[Allie Zeon 2925]

10 hours ago, StephanieMystique said:

We can't always guarantee chemistry. We can do our very best, but there will people we never jive with and that's okay.

I think that's goes along the lines of respect and being able as two adults have that conversation to say 'I am not your person.' I have done this a couple of times and if I think someone might be a better fit for them, I would offer that information to them to go inquire.  

If there is chemistry! We know how much more both of us look forward to the date and the time we have together. 

We also have to consider, we don't know the clients story and why they are seeing us. It could be a one time thing, their regular provider wasn't available, it is a moment of convenience, or whatever it is. 

I always try my best to make it a moment they wont forget. Even if I never see them again, they have the fond memories to look back on. 

agree.  I literally sit and talk with new clients at least for a good 15-20 minutes, asking them some questions as well as their expectation  to get the sense of who they are and what they like, need and want before proceeding to the session:)

[HenryOcean 196]

Thank you @Allie Zeon for this interesting post. I am in my mid 30s and while I can definitely agree various ages expect very different outcomes in their sessions.

Sex appeal was very important in my early 20s with the expectation of pornstar looks but with more maturity, perspectives change. Now I find it more appealing when a lady, whatever the age, expresses herself with confidence and elegance, yet humble and kind with a good sense of humor.  

I have always admired the light touch of fingertips, soft spoken words and especially the chemistry when locking eyes. 
Chemistry is not always instant nor as @StephanieMystique mentioned "garunteed" but it is powerful turn-on when it happens. 

As there is many wonderful ladies I have yet to meet, respect and appreciation to you all!

 

[Allie Zeon 2925]

Once upon a time, I would only consider dating a man only if he meet certain height and body type standard, over 6 foot and very athletic. Silly and shallow me, I have missed all those opportunities of dating a true gentleman, who cannot be judge simply by their height and body type but rather from the “size” of their heart...their warmth....attention...sense of responsibility...and so on.

I’ve travelled in 51 countries and I realize that communication is very crucial to a successful relationship, simply put, to make it rather simple: chemistry.  I never  feel connected strongly with someone rather than just a great sex if the man does not speak fluent the language that I speak.  This is probably the reason I never have a successful tour in Quebec province. It’s definitely because of language barrier. My French is not good enough to create the bond with a French, Québécois client, especially those who don’t master English either, Too bad eh? Language is definitely not my forte.  I wish I could master Spanish,Chinese, German, French, Arabic and Turkish. I probably have to wait till my next life lol 😂 Anyway, Thank you for for your input dear @HenryOcean

[happy fisherman 76]

8 hours ago, Allie Zeon said:

agree.  I literally sit and talk with new clients at least for a good 15-20 minutes, asking them some questions as well as their expectation  to get the sense of who they are and what they like, need and want before proceeding to the session:)

Allie you are fantastic!

[Allie Zeon 2925]

1 hour ago, happy fisherman said:

Allie you are fantastic!

Awww 🥰  stay safe handsome 💋

[infamousboss 2]

The money and financial freedom

[Allie Zeon 2925]

11 hours ago, infamousboss said:

The money and financial freedom

Yes and yes! And the ability to be our own boss, flexible working hours...and NO ONE forces us to work if we don’t feel like it. Empowering 💪 😎

[Sumac 1105]

Reviews are critical in choosing...as is a nice ad with honest pictures. To cultivate repeat clients though seems to require a little novelty or changes in the encounters. People say they want the same thing but marketers have know for decades that a little novelty increases interest.

[Zachmont 3826]

From a slightly different perspective, articulation is often a key factor for me. While I’m not dismissing or putting anyone down, if you have 14 different emojis in your ad, or repeatedly use urban slang, I’m probably not your target customer and the odds of chemistry between us aren’t as high. A well written ad will catch my attention as quick as photos.

To reiterate what Allie said, being able to talk intelligently with someone and connect with them makes a huge difference.

 

 

[Allie Zeon 2925]

On 12/1/2020 at 3:47 PM, JamesB700 said:

Hi Allie,

What a great topic.  Very interesting.  It's a question that can be both simple and complex.  From the responses so far it's easy to see that for most there is a lot that goes into choosing who to visit with.

I think you are on to something when comparing younger and older clients.  And, let me state from the begining, there are always exceptions.  Some people, clients or companions, who are younger, let's say 20's, will behave more mature and some older, let's say 40+, might behave immature or more youthful for their age.  So I would think that you could generally say that men in their 20's are looking for the physical attraction combined with a porn star skill set and older men are looking for.... so much more.  This is where we depart from the simple and begin our journey into the complex.

We are all individuals and unique in our own endearing ways.  Combine that with ones personal life experiences and you end up with an immeasurable array of personalities.  Wouldn't life be boring if we were all the same?

I, as you may have guessed, am of the mature group.  There is so much to say and not enough time to say it all.  I feel a rambling coming.  Lol.  

For me, certainly there is a first attraction from pictures.  I, like Notch, enjoy variety.  I like big and small, short or tall, plump or petit and young (20's+) and mature (40's+) as well as all ethnicities.  Clarification, I have not tried them all but am open to all.  Haha.  Once a picture catches my attention I look closer and read the ad.  If that reads well i look for the companion here on lyla.  Preference is given to those that actually belong and have an ongoing presence here.  But at the very least I hope to find glowing reviews that reflect what I hope to experience with a companion.  

The idea of sex appeal was mentioned earlier and cannot be underestimated.  That in itself is a topic to be discussed separately.  It's very powerful.  I believe a successful companion will be able to convey that from the start.  Beginning with the photos and the composition of the ad and following through in person during the visit.  Wrapped up into the bundle is also the ability to be personable.  To be able to greet and welcome someone into your company like a friend.  Make them comfortable.  Read them almost instantly, because we are all individuals, and tailor the visit just for them.  I think the few really successful companions are more easily able to do this.  Like a cameleon adapt themselves to some degree.  Simply able to quickly discover what the clients truly wants most of all.  Then deliver that as well or better than anyone else in such a short time frame.

My few cents

James, I love your input.  I have a concentration deficit and can’t read long sentences but this time, I’m able to read it all:)

I love that you mentioned sex appeal and the ability to be a cameleon. I still have to learn a lot to become a good cameleon for sure lol.  Yes, life’s experience and the ability to carry a conversation are definitely crucial especially for older clients 

[Allie Zeon 2925]

7 hours ago, Sumac said:

Reviews are critical in choosing...as is a nice ad with honest pictures. To cultivate repeat clients though seems to require a little novelty or changes in the encounters. People say they want the same thing but marketers have know for decades that a little novelty increases interest.

Agree. Next time, let me know if you wanna try something different and new:)

[Allie Zeon 2925]

4 hours ago, Zachmont said:

From a slightly different perspective, articulation is often a key factor for me. While I’m not dismissing or putting anyone down, if you have 14 different emojis in your ad, or repeatedly use urban slang, I’m probably not your target customer and the odds of chemistry between us aren’t as high. A well written ad will catch my attention as quick as photos.

To reiterate what Allie said, being able to talk intelligently with someone and connect with them makes a huge difference.

 

 

Yes! It has been mentioned above. Great communication is crucial. And those who are intelligent and articulate will be suited best for upscale clients like you dear 👍

Btw, what do you think about dress code? One of my dear clients suggesting me to dress up feminine instead of sporty and casual when I see a client 😊

[Allie Zeon 2925]

3 hours ago, clearbluesky15 said:

True, I suppose you work with what you have. Even so, like was said, an articulate ad, and an image that speaks of health and confidence and a positive review go a long way. I’d feel safer, and I would give better odds that the encounter would be more fulfilling. If all I wanted to see was a <insert part name> to look at, there are free porn sites with a wide selection. If I am going to meet someone, I’d want to know who I’m meeting.

I know once I saw someone in part as they had a recreation of 15th century Scottish claymore (sword) as a prop to build out their image as a red haired highlander.

-cbs

Agree totally. Reviews are very crucial.

O boy...I remember almost 3 years ago when I started this profession with no review and I only had 1 client in a week😅

[Zachmont 3826]

3 hours ago, Allie Zeon said:

Btw, what do you think about dress code? One of my dear clients suggesting me to dress up feminine instead of sporty and casual when I see a client 😊

I'm likely the exception to the rule... I'm perfectly happy with literally whatever. Some ladies are more comfortable in lingerie as it sets the mood, but I'd just as happy with jeans/sweats and a teeshirt if that's what they prefer. In some ways, more so. Really, whatever makes my companion happy and most comfortable. If I'm getting a playstation 5 for christmas, I'm not going to be the one complaining about the wrapping paper!

I do get that others are more sexually turned on by clothing, it's just not particularly me.

For pictures in an ad, however, I'd probably expect a bit more "sexy" for lack of a better term. I don't expect a full carnal display, but something tasteful and with effort/thought put in. A semi-professional or tasteful photoshoot shows more effort (and dare I say professionalism?) than a mirror selfie, which in turn suggests something about the lady in question to me.

I do admit to being a sucker for a woman with a pony tail, though 🙂

[NotchJohnson 214123]

7 hours ago, Zachmont said:

I'm likely the exception to the rule... I'm perfectly happy with literally whatever. Some ladies are more comfortable in lingerie as it sets the mood, but I'd just as happy with jeans/sweats and a teeshirt if that's what they prefer. In some ways, more so. Really, whatever makes my companion happy and most comfortable. If I'm getting a playstation 5 for christmas, I'm not going to be the one complaining about the wrapping paper!

I do get that others are more sexually turned on by clothing, it's just not particularly me.

For pictures in an ad, however, I'd probably expect a bit more "sexy" for lack of a better term. I don't expect a full carnal display, but something tasteful and with effort/thought put in. A semi-professional or tasteful photoshoot shows more effort (and dare I say professionalism?) than a mirror selfie, which in turn suggests something about the lady in question to me.

I do admit to being a sucker for a woman with a pony tail, though 🙂

I do agree with what Zachmont is saying....If you are selling a car, you don't need to show the car dealership or the salesperson.  You show the item that you are selling so if you are selling your beauty you should make sure that you show it at its best !  Show exactly what you are selling or the most attractive part of your body, including the face(if you are not afraid of showing it of course).