What are the most important criterias of being an escort from Client’ perspective?

[Guest]

2 minutes ago, Allie Zeon said:

How about ethnicity guys? 
Although I’m mostly Asian, but I feel different compared  to the cute, innocent, feminine, slim and tiny Asian girls stereotype.  Do prefer certain preference? I know some have mentioned variation is a spice of life but I personally have my own preference if I have to see a male companion  😜

 

     Different ethnicities and skin tones can sometimes add some spice. But only if accompanied with a playful attitude and chemistry. Sometimes better to look at the entire picture instead of focusing on details that may not really enhance the overall experience.

[Allie Zeon 2925]

1 minute ago, Greenteal said:

     Different ethnicities and skin tones can sometimes add some spice. But only if accompanied with a playful attitude and chemistry. Sometimes better to look at the entire picture instead of focusing on details that may not really enhance the overall experience.

Be more specific please.  So you like brown skinned/tanned Latina or Asian?

[Allie Zeon 2925]

If yes, I don’t blame you.  I actually have paid twice the service of male escort. They are Brazilian.  I was a horny, young girl back then. I was on vacation in Brazil and I thought the safest way to have sex is just calling a male escort 

Time has changed me😇

Im getting older and physical attributes are no longer that important.  I will choose wisely and differently by now, if I have to pick a male escort😙

[Guest]

1 minute ago, Allie Zeon said:

Be more specific please.  So you like brown skinned/tanned Latina or Asian?

   I met Asians and very dark skinned Haitians. The black women tend to be more muscular and athletic and Asians more gentle. A bit stereotypical, but enjoyed both for different reasons. But the repeated visits had more to do with their services than skin tones.

 

 

[Allie Zeon 2925]

Just now, Greenteal said:

   I met Asians and very dark skinned Haitians. The black women tend to be more muscular and athletic and Asians more gentle. A bit stereotypical, but enjoyed both for different reasons. But the repeated visits had more to do with their services than skin tones.

 

 

Thanks!  I actually try to dig out more specific and honest opinion rather than a general consensus.

Based on a research, White and Asian escorts are preferable btw.

Im pretty technical, I did a thorough research few years back before becoming one lol

[Guest]

8 minutes ago, Allie Zeon said:

Thanks!  I actually try to dig out more specific and honest opinion rather than a general consensus.

Based on a research, White and Asian escorts are preferable btw.

Im pretty technical, I did a thorough research few years back before becoming one lol

   Desirable yes. But too many Asians in the industry have a bad name because of the overuse of stock pictures. And too many don't share your independence and are exploited in human trafficking schemes. Reasons to be cautious when seeing massage parlours with Asian staff who can barely communicate.

   This makes us a bit more cautious when we see online ads without references or valid pictures. You certainly have plenty of recommendations, but not all Asian ladies have the same.

[Allie Zeon 2925]

True. I feel sorry for the ladies who are exploited. Sex trafficking exists. I have witnessed seeing plenty of young Chinese girls in their teens being picked up by their pimp at certain hours at night in Fort St John while touring there😔

[happy fisherman 76]

14 hours ago, Allie Zeon said:

Omg...😎 lol

oh what an amazing afternoon at her "home suite" everything needed to relax into another world of pleasure!

[NotchJohnson 214132]

@Allie Zeon, if you want my honest truth my favorite date would have to be between 5'10" and 6'1" tall, I don't really care for the ethnicity and between 35 and 55 years of age, but she has to be average weight because I don't like skinny girls(sorry to the ones that are).  I'm not much of a breasts man but I do love them so B-C or D cup is perfect for me.  The one thing that I love are legs and bum so if she has a beautiful curvy bum I will melt.  As for tats they do nothing for me and often will not notice them because I'm so used to seeing them.  I prefer long dark hair or a redhead, blondes are alright as well but my preference goes to the previous two.

I really like a good conversation before or after or throughout the date if we are sharing are likes and dislikes in the bedroom.  I like having her take control if she is a strong woman and knows what she wants and I will let her abuse of me(don't leave marks please) and if she knows how to play around a man's neck( I love having nibbles around my ears and her sucking on my Adams apple(this will bring me very close to orgasm) and have her hand there when she is using her mouth elsewhere).

 

I hope that these are good details for you dear Allie?

[Mark53981194 19]

 Allie,

Reading all the comments (and have already commented myself) I want to further add.  When first meeting with a lady, I suspect both are a little nervous - to be suspected.  If the client has done their homework and does what the provider expects without being "reminded", the encounter should move along smoothly.   Getting comfortable with each other with some general conversation goes a long way to setting the mode for the encounter.  To me a good client respects the boundaries of the lady and should (must) ask what is "out of bounds" during the encounter.  That will make things move along at a comfortable level.   I will add, that the first encounter in my opinion should be a minimum of 2 hours - I know some will disagree with me, but I personally feel strongly about this. 

During follow on encounters, the level of comfort and trust will build and make each encounter and enjoyable experience.  

Most of all take time to talk and enjoy each others company.  It is not a race to the finish.

 

[NotchJohnson 214132]

2 hours ago, Mark53981194 said:

 Allie,

Reading all the comments (and have already commented myself) I want to further add.  When first meeting with a lady, I suspect both are a little nervous - to be suspected.  If the client has done their homework and does what the provider expects without being "reminded", the encounter should move along smoothly.   Getting comfortable with each other with some general conversation goes a long way to setting the mode for the encounter.  To me a good client respects the boundaries of the lady and should (must) ask what is "out of bounds" during the encounter.  That will make things move along at a comfortable level.   I will add, that the first encounter in my opinion should be a minimum of 2 hours - I know some will disagree with me, but I personally feel strongly about this. 

During follow on encounters, the level of comfort and trust will build and make each encounter and enjoyable experience.  

Most of all take time to talk and enjoy each others company.  It is not a race to the finish.

 

Although I do agree with most of what you are saying here Mark, I will have to disagree with the 2 hour minimum.  I have met some ladies that  the first thing that they want to do is get you right back out the door or there is absolutely no chemistry so there goes your $$$$ out the window.  As for repeat yes do go out and book as long as you wish because you already have the idea of what it will look like for that time frame.

[Guest]

2 hours ago, Mark53981194 said:

I will add, that the first encounter in my opinion should be a minimum of 2 hours - I know some will disagree with me, but I personally feel strongly about this. 

  To echo @NotchJohnson , I normally consider first sessions as auditions and will choose the 30 min option when available to minimize losses if things don't quite work out. Much easier to negotiate an extension or second longer session than trying to get your money back when things go south.

[Allie Zeon 2925]

9 hours ago, happy fisherman said:

oh what an amazing afternoon at her "home suite" everything needed to relax into another world of pleasure!

Aww thanks dear. See you soon again. Merry Christmas 😍

[Allie Zeon 2925]

9 hours ago, NotchJohnson said:

@Allie Zeon, if you want my honest truth my favorite date would have to be between 5'10" and 6'1" tall, I don't really care for the ethnicity and between 35 and 55 years of age, but she has to be average weight because I don't like skinny girls(sorry to the ones that are).  I'm not much of a breasts man but I do love them so B-C or D cup is perfect for me.  The one thing that I love are legs and bum so if she has a beautiful curvy bum I will melt.  As for tats they do nothing for me and often will not notice them because I'm so used to seeing them.  I prefer long dark hair or a redhead, blondes are alright as well but my preference goes to the previous two.

I really like a good conversation before or after or throughout the date if we are sharing are likes and dislikes in the bedroom.  I like having her take control if she is a strong woman and knows what she wants and I will let her abuse of me(don't leave marks please) and if she knows how to play around a man's neck( I love having nibbles around my ears and her sucking on my Adams apple(this will bring me very close to orgasm) and have her hand there when she is using her mouth elsewhere).

 

I hope that these are good details for you dear Allie?

Omg...what an eye opener! I thought every guy loves petite woman.  I’m 171 cm, pretty tall although not 5’10 😎.

Escorts are not mind reader, glad you mentioned kissing and sucking your Adam’s apple. How do we know if you don’t tell us this lol.

Remind me if you meet me next time dear. Thanks for sharing 

[Allie Zeon 2925]

6 hours ago, Mark53981194 said:

 Allie,

Reading all the comments (and have already commented myself) I want to further add.  When first meeting with a lady, I suspect both are a little nervous - to be suspected.  If the client has done their homework and does what the provider expects without being "reminded", the encounter should move along smoothly.   Getting comfortable with each other with some general conversation goes a long way to setting the mode for the encounter.  To me a good client respects the boundaries of the lady and should (must) ask what is "out of bounds" during the encounter.  That will make things move along at a comfortable level.   I will add, that the first encounter in my opinion should be a minimum of 2 hours - I know some will disagree with me, but I personally feel strongly about this. 

During follow on encounters, the level of comfort and trust will build and make each encounter and enjoyable experience.  

Most of all take time to talk and enjoy each others company.  It is not a race to the finish.

 

It’s a perfect date for us, but only if we get along well.  If you come to my place or any other girls’ private home who don’t mind to share and show their home, 2 hours will fly so quick. Starting from having a tea, beer or wine together to get to know each other...followed by massage or jacuzzi or...and etc. Lots of fun stuff.  For new clients, 90 minutes or longer are the one I also prefer, especially if you come to my house.

Greanteal and Notch have different opinions and I get that.  But for me, I need at least 15-20 minutes to be fully comfortable.  I can’t do 30 minutes 😌

So happy to hear more opinions with some details this time!

Lyla allows us to share both opinions equally. Our opinion is equally important here. Thanks for that. By having this discussion we both can minimize misunderstanding and hopefully we will get along for 2 hours session or even longer 🥰

 

[NotchJohnson 214132]

6 minutes ago, Allie Zeon said:

Omg...what an eye opener! I thought every guy loves petite woman.  I’m 171 cm, pretty tall although not 5’10 😎.

Escorts are not mind reader, glad you mentioned kissing and sucking your Adam’s apple. How do we know if you don’t tell us this lol.

Remind me if you meet me next time dear. Thanks for sharing 

I do enjoy a petite women and I was engaged with one (she was 5 foot nothing) too many years ago, she drove me wild and gave me so many great head(aches) lol.  It is nice to be with one once in a while.

Your height and physique is also perfect Allie, don't  get me wrong, all I'll say is that the tall drink of water are few and far in between.

If you were to try this kissing and sucking on the Adam's apple with the next few guys you might see them go into ecstasy like I do and that is because I experiment a lot with all the fine ladies of Lyla that I meet(if they let me experiment with them).  You need to spend almost as much time as you would on the other part of the body.

Do me a favor and do share with us all how it went.

 

[NotchJohnson 214132]

16 minutes ago, Allie Zeon said:

It’s a perfect date for us, but only if we get along well.  If you come to my place or any other girls’ private home who don’t mind to share and show their home, 2 hours will fly so quick. Starting from having a tea, beer or wine together to get to know each other...followed by massage or jacuzzi or...and etc. Lots of fun stuff.  For new clients, 90 minutes or longer are the one I also prefer, especially if you come to my house.

Greanteal and Notch have different opinions and I get that.  But for me, I need at least 15-20 minutes to be fully comfortable.  I can’t do 30 minutes 😌

So happy to hear more opinions with some details this time!

Lyla allows us to share both opinions equally. Our opinion is equally important here. Thanks for that. By having this discussion we both can minimize misunderstanding and hopefully we will get along for 2 hours session or even longer 🥰

 

Just to make it clear to Mark, Allie is a joy to be with and I will agree that even 2 hours might be cutting it short, you should book a 4 hour with her if you want the full GFE, I know I should have with her when I met her last year but like I said I only book the full hour on my first date.  You were a blast Allie and I'll book you for longer the next time I see you.  XOXO

[Allie Zeon 2925]

I have learned a lot from our discussion, thanks for those who have shared their input.

Effective communication is so important!  And for you boys...as a client, please please tell us what you like in the session and also tell us what you don’t like.  By being open, we can achieve that stimulating, intimate and relaxing session and we might even become friends over time.

I have made few friends in this industry and I would like to have more. Being open and mutual respect are one of the key, right?

[Allie Zeon 2925]

5 minutes ago, NotchJohnson said:

I do enjoy a petite women and I was engaged with one (she was 5 foot nothing) too many years ago, she drove me wild and gave me so many great head(aches) lol.  It is nice to be with one once in a while.

Your height and physique is also perfect Allie, don't  get me wrong, all I'll say is that the tall drink of water are few and far in between.

If you were to try this kissing and sucking on the Adam's apple with the next few guys you might see them go into ecstasy like I do and that is because I experiment a lot with all the fine ladies of Lyla that I meet(if they let me experiment with them).  You need to spend almost as much time as you would on the other part of the body.

Do me a favor and do share with us all how it went.

 

I will try this lol. I will let you know the outcome 😚

[Allie Zeon 2925]

1 minute ago, NotchJohnson said:

Just to make it clear to Mark, Allie is a joy to be with and I will agree that even 2 hours might be cutting it short, you should book a 4 hour with her if you want the full GFE, I know I should have with her when I met her last year but like I said I only book the full hour on my first date.  You were a blast Allie and I'll book you for longer the next time I see you.  XOXO

🥰 thanks dear 

[Guest]

  Not sure if this was covered, but for repeated visits creativity helps a lot. More than once met someone and the first session/date was amazing. But in the second, felt trapped in a time loop as it was nearly identical. And when visited a third time and suggested more variety, was met with heavy resistance.

   I understand sticking with a strict routine can have it's advantage in term of hygiene, turnaround between clients and a way to stay emotionally distant, but this tend to get old quickly. Thankfully I also met many opened to different experiences.

[Allie Zeon 2925]

7 hours ago, Greenteal said:

  Not sure if this was covered, but for repeated visits creativity helps a lot. More than once met someone and the first session/date was amazing. But in the second, felt trapped in a time loop as it was nearly identical. And when visited a third time and suggested more variety, was met with heavy resistance.

   I understand sticking with a strict routine can have it's advantage in term of hygiene, turnaround between clients and a way to stay emotionally distant, but this tend to get old quickly. Thankfully I also met many opened to different experiences.

This is our biggest challenge as a provider, definitely for me.  How to keep repeated clients keep coming back years after years.

 

[Guest]

23 hours ago, Allie Zeon said:

This is our biggest challenge as a provider, definitely for me.  How to keep repeated clients keep coming back years after years.

 

     No matter the type of relationship, monotony tends to set in after some time. Solutions can go from diversifying activities to distancing dates in order to grow the craving. Again a question of communication and chemistry to find a path to longevity.

[Allie Zeon 2925]

12 hours ago, Greenteal said:

     No matter the type of relationship, monotony tends to set in after some time. Solutions can go from diversifying activities to distancing dates in order to grow the craving. Again a question of communication and chemistry to find a path to longevity.

Agree!  I’m not a good actor, so I tend to let the session flows naturally and see whether or not we can build a good chemistry during a session.  
 

As you mentioned before, the first session can be a great session but it will be more challenging for  the second and even more challenging for the third one and so on.

But....hey...that’s why I don’t like to be labeled SW or even worse prostitute, because I’m truly not.

I, we as an escort deliver companionship not only sex. A mutual, intimate communication at the SAME LEVEL is the only way to maintain a strong relationship between a provider and a client.
 Sex is definitely part of it but it’s for sure not the most important aspect of it, at least for the long run 😊

[Mark53981194 19]

46 minutes ago, Allie Zeon said:

Agree!  I’m not a good actor, so I tend to let the session flows naturally and see whether or not we can build a good chemistry during a session.  
 

As you mentioned before, the first session can be a great session but it will be more challenging for  the second and even more challenging for the third one and so on.

But....hey...that’s why I don’t like to be labeled SW or even worse prostitute, because I’m truly not.

I, we as an escort deliver companionship not only sex. A mutual, intimate communication at the SAME LEVEL is the only way to maintain a strong relationship between a provider and a client.
 Sex is definitely part of it but it’s for sure not the most important aspect of it, at least for the long run 😊

Most definitely let the session flow naturally.  Yes, clients are seeking an intimate encounter but also a connection, friendship etc.  Perhaps some are missing out by having a short session where sex is the only objective (not that this is wrong), but could gain much more from a longer date, taking the time to chat, share a drink/meal or what ever.  

Of course each person has their own needs/reasons to visit a provider.  As such, from my view point like anything you get out what you put in.  Regardless, sessions are generally enjoyable for all.