An Interview With... Alexis Lux - Defining Companionship

[Guest lydiahardwood]

Happy Valentines Day everyone! Today's topic is about what it really means to be a Companion with Alexis Lux from @BrassClub. ❤️❤️❤️ 

 

Q: Hey Alexis! Thanks for sparing time out of your busy schedule to answer some questions for me. First up, how are you?! How have the past few months been for you?
A: No Problem love, thanks for giving me something to do lol. To be very honest the past few months have been very tough considering pandemic and all. Mentally & Financially Eveything has been very slow, unfortunately. Business is still going forward as always, just because of COVID-19 I’ve been limiting my sessions per day to maximum 2-3 Clients with no GFE. Because of the “lockdowns” and such.

 

Q: Can you tell me a bit about your career so far? Is escorting the only form of sex work you’ve done?
A:I started around 10 years ago, just dancing in strip clubs back when money was regular and people still appreciated the strip club scene. I’ve worked in New York, Texas, Atlanta, Miami, Fort Lauderdale, Vancouver, Toronto, Ottawa, Niagara Falls, London, Belleville, Pickering, Mississauga, Ottawa and so forth. Dancing is my passion and I miss it dearly, the reason I turned to escorting and massage is because unfortunately the strip club scene has plummeted dramatically in the past 10 years, I feel that gentlemen think because, escorts are much cheaper for a much more satisfying experience that’s where they should spend there hard earned money instead of the clubs. Currently I’m a Upscale Escort & Massage Attendant at The Brass Club Ottawa. Formerly went by the name Heidi or Heidi Quinn.

 

Q: It’s coming up to the most romantic day of the year (apparently). Do you ever work on Valentine’s Day? Do bookings generally seem higher?
A: Over the years I’ve always liked to work holidays during the “night shift” because, then I can enjoy my day and also help those lonely gents, on a day made for love. Everyone needs to feel loved sometimes. 

 

Q: What’s the average length of time that Clients come to see you for?
A: Usually when clientele realize that my photos are authentic, my appointment times extend. My Regulars see me anywhere from 2hrs-12hrs, newer clients usually an hour plus. Last night I enjoyed an amazing 5 hour dominatrix session with a first time client.

 

Q: So in that length of time, I’m assuming it’s not all the obvious. Can you give us a bit of insight into what kind of companionship many people are after?
A: Oh of course, during my longer “dates” there’s many different options. Sometimes I will accompany my date to a beautiful dinner, shopping, movies or activity’s such as events or work meetings. Other sessions I have been flown out to different city’s and country’s to meet for weekend adventures. And then the “at home” dates I cook dinner we watch movies or listen to music enjoy a good glass of champagne or red wine some snacks and what not. The companionship is what most clients are looking for an connection, once that’s there then it makes for an amazing evening.

 

Q: Do you ever have Clients who just want to chat?
A: Yes I have done 5+ hours with clients whom I really enjoy deeply that just want to talk and hangout, my Snapchat and Skype calls are popular for that as well.

 

Q: I think this Pandemic has made us appreciate how important human connection is. Everyone deserves companionship. Do you think that wider society appreciates that Companions provide emotional support?
A: To be Blunt and very honest NO! I think the “vanilla world” has so many misconceptions of sex workers it’s unreal. Myself I do know and believe that Providers do give an amazing amount of  emotional, mental and sexual support!

 

Q: Being a sex worker is so much more than being physically attractive - would you say your emotional intelligence and awareness has increased due to your job?
A: Yes of course, clients want to see smart, loving, funny, happy women! They are the prettiest of course inner beauty to me trumps physical beauty. But, all that we go through as providers has defiantly heightened my awareness! 

 

Q: I’m assuming that IRL bookings have decreased somewhat in the past year, thanks to the obvious. I see you’re on Only Fans - how is that going?
A: IRL meetings are pretty difficult and not as fruitful as before all this craziness but, only fans is an A M A Z I N G, platform to advertise and please while also being safe. I have hundreds of videos and pictures, I’m also working on a lot more b/g, g/g content for my fans. I post almost on the daily and currently am in the top 10% of creators, and hoping to get to the top soon enough! My only difficulty with OF is how to promote myself is a little bit lacking because, I had taken 2 years off from the industry. So I’m currently building back my platform, also my old twitter AlexisBrassClub was deleted at 1,500 an account I’ve had since 2016! So sad. While this pandemic is still in full affect, everyone don’t be shy go subscribe - https://onlyfans.com/alexiisuncensored

 

Q: Do you think that Clients who want online services want the same kind of companionship as Clients who book you IRL? Or is it different?
A: I Believe there’s many different reasons why clients want to seek online services and the biggest are DISCRETION, SAFETY because of the pandemic , & or they live far from where you are located! I think all clients are looking for fun and connection no matter how the service is provided weather it be online or IRL.

 

Q: Are there any Clients whose companionship you really appreciate?
A: OMG, most fav question!! Yes of course there are many clients, some I’ve been seeing for 10+ years whom are more of a now friends with mutual benefits, I can’t count how many of my regulars who I absolutely love to be honest there are way too many. For privacy reasons I cannot @ them or mention names, but they know who they are!

 

Q: Thanks so much for your time, Alexis. I hope the Brass club is back open soon! Is there anything else you’d like to add?
A: I hope they open again soon this lockdown is making everyone crazy!! Everyone is tense and most defiantly needs a relaxing massage with a spicy ending lol. I just want to take a minute to say thank you for having me, and appreciating sex workers! Giving us a voice and a chance to let everyone know just how we feel about our work! I’m just going to add my other social media platforms for people to subscribe or follow! Your a Doll Lydia. I can’t thank you enough! ❤️ 

For Bookings & Inquiries please contact 
343•312•5715
[email protected]
Twitter - @TheRealAlexiis

Instagram - @alexiis
Website - https://brassclub.ca
Only Fans - https://onlyfans.com/alexiisuncensored

Warm Regards From Your Favourite Italian Bombshell !!
Alexis Luxx

[Sharpe 771]

Thank you for the interview Alexis and @lydiahardwood.

I’m curious to know everyone’s opinion on whether the general ideas expressed by Alexis were similar to Sam Gaines.  Just worded differently.  

 

[beesh 1286]

7 hours ago, lydiahardwood said:

Yes of course, clients want to see smart, loving, funny, happy women!

This somehow made me quite sad 😔 I hope she does not get burnt out being funny & happy all the time 😒

[waterat 20911]

Thanks to both Alexis Lux and @lydiahardwood for this interview.

To address the question from @Sharpe I do see similarities in the responses from @SamGaines and Alexis but they're commenting on two unique and very different markets so it's quite difficult to compare. Alexis has worked in diverse roles as a SWer for a longer period than Sam and because of his smaller market he has to define and create his niche on more specific criteria.

@beesh I'm not sure what it was that made you quite sad but will admit to enjoying the company of 'smart, loving, funny, happy women' - none of these being a deal breaker for me though the most important attribute is 'funny', or to be more accurate  'having a sense of humour'. To quote the always observant John Prine "you know that she still laughs with me, but she waits just a second too long". I'll choose to assume that funny and happy come naturally to Alexis. I could be wrong, I was once. :).

Aside #1: Auto correct reared its unwelcome head twice in the interview: 'definitely' became 'defiantly' - they have very different meanings. Like my all time favourite when it changed 'Purolator' to 'Purple Toes' for me.

Aside #2: here's the source of the Prine lyric - Robert Plant identified this as his favourite Prine song:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_ujOTP8oPpY 

 

[NotchJohnson 214129]

First I just want to say that Alexis is super hot so thank you for sharing your thoughts and experience with so many fine gentlemen, hopefully I will be one of them someday.  So thank you @lydiahardwood for inviting her for this Sunday interview.

[Allie Zeon 2925]

Thanks Lydia, I love this interview with Alexis.  She is so sweet!  Love also her answers:)

Happy Valentine's Day 🥰.  It should be Valentine's Day every day 😅

[Allie Zeon 2925]

18 hours ago, Sharpe said:

Thank you for the interview Alexis and @lydiahardwood.

I’m curious to know everyone’s opinion on whether the general ideas expressed by Alexis were similar to Sam Gaines.  Just worded differently.  

 

I think they are both smart and aim.for the same goal: to make their clients happy 🥰.  Although the sentences are worded differently, these 2 know how to make their clients happy.

  The ultimate goal of being an escort is to make our clients happy and to make them keep coming back again and again. It's service orientated profession after all

[Allie Zeon 2925]

11 hours ago, beesh said:

This somehow made me quite sad 😔 I hope she does not get burnt out being funny & happy all the time 😒

Oh please.... it's a joke right?

I'm sure she is happy to see her clients.  She's been doing it for more than 10 years my dear

[beesh 1286]

5 hours ago, waterat said:

I'll choose to assume that funny and happy come naturally to Alexis.

I hope so too.

If she is funny & happy for herself, as a lover, I would be more than glad.

She need not be, just for me. I love the spring & fall, but I also embrace the winters.

PS: no auto correct is worse than fishing turning to fisting

[waterat 20911]

1 hour ago, beesh said:

PS: no auto correct is worse than fishing tuning to fisting

lol @beesh - I could see this having been a problem for @roamingguy. He used to identify himself on here as the "Boatless Fisherman" - I believe he stopped that as he had no net imcome.....

[Phaedrus 209521]

Only just read this, as I've been offline for a bit. Great interview, Alexis - thanks for doing it!

To chip in on @Sharpe's question: I think Alexis and Sam Gaines are talking about similar things when it comes to the connection with regular clients, but I got the impression from Sam that it's very much his approach and what he's aiming at all the time, whereas with Alexis it's more of a "it's good when it happens" sort of thing. This may also be related to the fact that she's working in a spa, which is  more of a 'drop in for a bit' kind of environment; not sure how everyone else works, but I tend to plan ahead more when seeing indy providers than when visiting a spa.

[waterat 20911]

@Phaedrus I Agree