PSA on booking

[Guest]

Hello all I just wanted to reach out and make a quick post. If this is in the wrong section admins feel free to move it ! 
 

if you’re looking to book with a lady PLEASE to your best ability do it in advance if possible. Obviously this can’t be done Everytime but will make the process easier on both parties. I recently had a member from the site reach out to me to make a booking keep in mind it is Friday and things get busy. As well as the fact that I stream live in between calls and escorting is not my only job pre bookings go a LONG way for me these days. I talked to said gentlemen back and forth ( if you booked me you know I respond RAPIDLY and so was he). We had no issue making arrangements until I asked him to send his deposit(20$) and confirmation.  He also asked me to provide services for him that I do not offer. And once I mentioned to him that I have other inquiries and would need to know or else it will be listed as a red flag/time waster he accused me of black mailing him amongst other things. Now keep in mind I do not rush clients but it is Late afternoon and my bookings for the evening are not really accommodating to last minute appointments especially those less than two hours notice. This gentleman got extremely defensive and attempted to insult me. CLIENTS THIS WILL NOT GET YOU ANYTHING BUT BLOCKED AND REPORTED. Any Lyla member who has read my listing would know better than to do this. I just want to remind clients of proper booking etiquette the same way some of you might be busy working and don’t owe us a response the same thing goes for us! Please remember mutual respect, READING, pre booking are your best bet. No lady should be insulted because she’s trying to book you in. I am not the type to put any client on blast but some of the clients these days are having a big attitude and are just purely wasting time due to lack of knowledge on how to PROPERLY book a appointment. Remember even at walk in clinics,restaurants,literally any other appointment based service  ITS FIRST COME FIRST SERVE and those with a reservation/deposit are going to be catered to first!!! 

[davidfield 216]

What you have said is common sense but people who respect SP and are serious, don't need to be reminded of above. Time wasters and people with attitude won't suddenly become gentlemen after reading this. I don't see any benefit of this post. 

Sorry if you find this offensive but it's the reality. And it's just not an issue in this business, I deal with attitude and time wasters in my job too. I say 50% of the time! Some times I spend hours working on proposals  and at the end don't get business or a single dollar for hours I spent. Not much I can do. It's cost of doing business. 

 

1 hour ago, Daysha Love said:

Hello all I just wanted to reach out and make a quick post. If this is in the wrong section admins feel free to move it ! 
 

if you’re looking to book with a lady PLEASE to your best ability do it in advance if possible. Obviously this can’t be done Everytime but will make the process easier on both parties. I recently had a member from the site reach out to me to make a booking keep in mind it is Friday and things get busy. As well as the fact that I stream live in between calls and escorting is not my only job pre bookings go a LONG way for me these days. I talked to said gentlemen back and forth ( if you booked me you know I respond RAPIDLY and so was he). We had no issue making arrangements until I asked him to send his deposit(20$) and confirmation.  He also asked me to provide services for him that I do not offer. And once I mentioned to him that I have other inquiries and would need to know or else it will be listed as a red flag/time waster he accused me of black mailing him amongst other things. Now keep in mind I do not rush clients but it is Late afternoon and my bookings for the evening are not really accommodating to last minute appointments especially those less than two hours notice. This gentleman got extremely defensive and attempted to insult me. CLIENTS THIS WILL NOT GET YOU ANYTHING BUT BLOCKED AND REPORTED. Any Lyla member who has read my listing would know better than to do this. I just want to remind clients of proper booking etiquette the same way some of you might be busy working and don’t owe us a response the same thing goes for us! Please remember mutual respect, READING, pre booking are your best bet. No lady should be insulted because she’s trying to book you in. I am not the type to put any client on blast but some of the clients these days are having a big attitude and are just purely wasting time due to lack of knowledge on how to PROPERLY book a appointment. Remember even at walk in clinics,restaurants,literally any other appointment based service  ITS FIRST COME FIRST SERVE and those with a reservation/deposit are going to be catered to first!!! 

 

[Guest]

12 minutes ago, davidfield said:

What you have said is common sense but people who respect SP and are serious, don't need to be reminded of above. Time wasters and people with attitude won't suddenly become gentlemen after reading this. I don't see any benefit of this post. 

Sorry if you find this offensive but it's the reality. And it's just not an issue in this business, I deal with attitude and time wasters in my job too. I say 50% of the time! Some times I spend hours working on proposals  and at the end don't get business or a single dollar for hours I spent. Not much I can do. It's cost of doing business. 

 

 

I mostly made this post for new users / clients. A reminder never hurts. It’s also common sense that I’m aware people also deal with time wasters at other jobs. However that’s not the point t of this post. Thanks for your input 🙂

[Guest]

14 minutes ago, davidfield said:

What you have said is common sense but people who respect SP and are serious, don't need to be reminded of above. Time wasters and people with attitude won't suddenly become gentlemen after reading this. I don't see any benefit of this post. 

Sorry if you find this offensive but it's the reality. And it's just not an issue in this business, I deal with attitude and time wasters in my job too. I say 50% of the time! Some times I spend hours working on proposals  and at the end don't get business or a single dollar for hours I spent. Not much I can do. It's cost of doing business. 

 

 

If you had 100+ people messaging you non Sense every single day you wouldn’t say that so lightly ! Sorry to break it to you but SP’s get the worse end of this stick 

[Guest]

Funny thing is most people at normal jobs deal with time wasters /insults and still GET PAID SP’s Dont and that’s why I made this post 

[SarahAlexxx 2025]

1 hour ago, Daysha Love said:

Funny thing is most people at normal jobs deal with time wasters /insults and still GET PAID SP’s Dont and that’s why I made this post 

Louder for the people in the back! 💥💥💥

[KylieJane 5052]

3 hours ago, Daysha Love said:

Funny thing is most people at normal jobs deal with time wasters /insults and still GET PAID SP’s Dont and that’s why I made this post 

Agreed, timewasters, no shows... We don't get paid.  And the post IS OF BENEFIT, sometimes a reminder is needed for everyone.  Maybe that timewster WILL change his attitude if teminded what it costs an SW in money and time, then again maybe not. But the effort of Daysha to express her concerns and reminders are well warranted, and i applaud it as we all as SW's suffer through this daily.  The problem is, as proven by a comment here, is not enough understand this, xo. 

 

[Jurgen287 1030]

I understand the SP's position and they do deal with countless bs that's for sure. But as a client I'm not too concerned about that unfortunately I don't really worry about what problems the provider has to deal with as part of doing business not too sound harsh but not my concern or issue. If I was to say I was robbed for a pre deposit previously and uncomfortable the sp would feel the same and still ask for the deposit lol. Personally pre bookings aren't for me, I don't really like to put a time on my desires. If im ready and we are able to connect so be it if not I'll wait or find someone else. To each their own. All in all yes hes an a hole loser who is a cyber warrior but this is more of an sp venting type thing. Maybe you guys need a board to vent lol.

 

[Guest]

1 hour ago, Jurgen287 said:

I understand the SP's position and they do deal with countless bs that's for sure. But as a client I'm not too concerned about that unfortunately I don't really worry about what problems the provider has to deal with as part of doing business not too sound harsh but not my concern or issue. If I was to say I was robbed for a pre deposit previously and uncomfortable the sp would feel the same and still ask for the deposit lol. Personally pre bookings aren't for me, I don't really like to put a time on my desires. If im ready and we are able to connect so be it if not I'll wait or find someone else. To each their own. All in all yes hes an a hole loser who is a cyber warrior but this is more of an sp venting type thing. Maybe you guys need a board to vent lol.

 

Actually we do have a place to vent on this very Site. The clients who “don’t care” how we feel show their feelings through experiences like my own and responses like this and this is why y’all always have issues getting booked. Pre booking even a hour in advance can save a lot of non sense from happening... but you’re right to each their own 😉 

[hardydardy 1029]

Clients may have an abundance of reasons for not sending a deposit, However being insulting because SP's require deposits is just plain rude and stupid. Imagine you have picked up a "sure thing" and you are asked to grab some wine and you start to whine about the cost of the wine, my guess is you will probably not even get a good night kiss. Respecting SP's time is upmost in establishing a relationship, Daysha and Kylie are right! its simply a way for them to see if a client is serious. Time wasters are another issue that the deposit can fix and another way is to get recommendations from other SPs or sites like this. In defense some clients may message a lot because they are excited and this is part of the experience for them.

 

[RayRenpelle 429]

OK, here I go again! I know I am about to write something that many will disagree with, it is usually the  case. But I am "old school"!! I totally agree  with pre-booking. I know who I am, I know my body so I can judge pretty  well when I will want time. Certain dates or occasions that have a fixed date I often book months in advance and will send a deposit sometimes the completete donation with the full understanding  that if something should happen it is hers to keep unless  we both agree on different  arrangement. 

However, I also do the spur of the moment  visit where I contact her 2-3 hours before and, after confirming with her, I just go without a deposit. Now I am talking about visits with my regular companion who has ,known me since the beginning  of my hobbyist life. I cannot  say that it should work that way for all. But I truly feel that until trust is established  between  providers  and clients the pre-book and deposit option is likely the best. I know it requires  trust a lot as there many scammers out there, but clients need to do their homework and a bit of research..

[Guest]

3 minutes ago, hardydardy said:

Clients may have an abundance of reasons for not sending a deposit, However being insulting because SP's require deposits is just plain rude and stupid. Imagine you have picked up a "sure thing" and you are asked to grab some wine and you start to whine about the cost of the wine, my guess is you will probably not even get a good night kiss. Respecting SP's time is upmost in establishing a relationship, Daysha and Kylie are right! its simply a way for them to see if a client is serious. Time wasters are another issue that the deposit can fix and another way is to get recommendations from other SPs or sites like this. In defense some clients may message a lot because they are excited and this is part of the experience for them.

 

I love an excited client!! I just find it weird how some clients are selective. This same client who insulted me has been wasting a few others time as well! I’m hoping he saw this post and rethinks his actions. He seems selective on who he is a A-hole too LOL which is fine because not all personalities match! Thank u for seeing me point! And not toward you @hardydardy but when clients don’t care we know and can feel it which makes me personally less inclined to want to book a session! Respectful well thought out dates gets this 😻 wet! 

[Guest]

3 minutes ago, RayRenpelle said:

OK, here I go again! I know I am about to write something that many will disagree with, it is usually the  case. But I am "old school"!! I totally agree  with pre-booking. I know who I am, I know my body so I can judge pretty  well when I will want time. Certain dates or occasions that have a fixed date I often book months in advance and will send a deposit sometimes the completete donation with the full understanding  that if something should happen it is hers to keep unless  we both agree on different  arrangement. 

However, I also do the spur of the moment  visit where I contact her 2-3 hours before and, after confirming with her, I just go without a deposit. Now I am talking about visits with my regular companion who has ,known me since the beginning  of my hobbyist life. I cannot  say that it should work that way for all. But I truly feel that until trust is established  between  providers  and clients the pre-book and deposit option is likely the best. I know it requires  trust a lot as there many scammers out there, but clients need to do their homework and a bit of research..

💯💯💯💯 this is awesome! I wish there was more of you. 

[davidfield 216]

My apologies for not being clear in my previous comments. I see that it has been taken in a totally different way from what intended. Purpose of my comment was to tell you to not be angry or vent things when people cancel or argue or waste time as that's not just a problem in SP world but others deal with those too. I was trying to be helpful but apparently not.

And No, i don't get paid if I spend time for a client and they don't give us business. I have driven to Sydney on average 5 times a month and not get a single dollar out of 4 of those times, not even for gas or food. Any how, it's not a debate between my work or your work. We all have it hard. 

May be your client was having a bad moment and he wasn't thinking straight when trying to book or could be mental health issue that made them agitated or he could be total time waster. Who knows. 

[Guest]

21 minutes ago, davidfield said:

My apologies for not being clear in my previous comments. I see that it has been taken in a totally different way from what intended. Purpose of my comment was to tell you to not be angry or vent things when people cancel or argue or waste time as that's not just a problem in SP world but others deal with those too. I was trying to be helpful but apparently not.

And No, i don't get paid if I spend time for a client and they don't give us business. I have driven to Sydney on average 5 times a month and not get a single dollar out of 4 of those times, not even for gas or food. Any how, it's not a debate between my work or your work. We all have it hard. 

May be your client was having a bad moment and he wasn't thinking straight when trying to book or could be mental health issue that made them agitated or he could be total time waster. Who knows. 

Nope several other ladies have complained to me about his behaviour unfortunately not every member on this awesome site is amazing. And as I said MOST ppl still get paid 🙂

[Jamesnicol 44]

First of all, this is a section about an escort discussion and not a discussion about a client. Can the rules be followed or the site is being lowered than it’s believed standard?

The SP has posted her venting here which is similar to posting negative review about an escort in this section. There are multiple SPs in Halifax that cheat clients, waste time and rob them. Rules must be followed and are there for a reason. 

I sat in parking lot yesterday for 40 minutes after booking a scheduled appointment with a known Halifax SP and wasted my personal time and money for no show, no response, driving time and also paid for the parking. 
 

[Guest]

40 minutes ago, Jamesnicol said:

First of all, this is a section about an escort discussion and not a discussion about a client. Can the rules be followed or the site is being lowered than it’s believed standard?

The SP has posted her venting here which is similar to posting negative review about an escort in this section. There are multiple SPs in Halifax that cheat clients, waste time and rob them. Rules must be followed and are there for a reason. 

I sat in parking lot yesterday for 40 minutes after booking a scheduled appointment with a known Halifax SP and wasted my personal time and money for no show, no response, driving time and also paid for the parking. 
 

Seems like you didn’t book/screen correctly then. As mentioned in my post if the admins want to move the post they can! It’s not venting it’s a PSA on how to book/screen properly directed to both SPs and clients. Next time to avoid a bad encounter screen correctly 

[Guest]

Clients and SPs need to have open discussions so grow and elevate our community and most importantly keep all of us safe and satisfied if you have a issue with the post I feel like you’re part of the issue itself ❤️ My

points have been clear

and concise I hope everyone has a great weekend. Remember to screen! 

[RayRenpelle 429]

I will admit that I had a very similar experience as that of Jamesnicol. But  I will also admit that they were my first and second attempt at booking a SW and I totally failed to do my homework and research these two ladies. I did not make the same mistake a third time. I did all the research I knew to do at the time and it paid off. I met the SP who would become my regular companion. 

Back then the deposit idea was not yet an issue. Trust and honesty prevailed. But times have changed. Now we seem to have a pandemic of time wasters, scammers, ghosts and no shows. 

So, even though I am the first to be hesitant at sending money to someone I don't know, it has become a necessity to request screening info and deposit from new clients. I have been converted. Even though because we have build a level of trust, my companion doesn't request it but I do for longer or booked well in advance. 

Simple! You screen/research the SW you wish to see. Respond to her screening, book and pay a deposit and....enjoy!!  So easy but apparently so hard!

Of there will always be deceitful people and time wasters. But it can be so much better. Maybe I dream of a perfect world!!!

[Guest lydiahardwood]

20 hours ago, Jamesnicol said:

First of all, this is a section about an escort discussion and not a discussion about a client. Can the rules be followed or the site is being lowered than it’s believed standard?

The SP has posted her venting here which is similar to posting negative review about an escort in this section. There are multiple SPs in Halifax that cheat clients, waste time and rob them. Rules must be followed and are there for a reason. 
 

They are not at all similar.

Negative reviews are often overly personal, misogynistic and detrimental to an SP's business and privacy. Daysha's "venting" is merely a reminder and potential eye opener to Clients. It would be nice to see this feedback being received with empathy and understanding.