An Interview With... 500 Gorilla Pound Gorilla - From Male Escort to Client

[Guest lydiahardwood]

Happy Sunday sexy people! Today I'm sharing an interview with Lyla's own @500 Pound Gorilla. I didn't know this about him, but he originally started as an MP which then led him to explore this industry as a Client. His story is a fascinating one and I hope you enjoy learning about it as much as I did. ❤️ 

 

Q: Hey @500 Pound Gorilla! I’m excited to hear from you on this subject, what an interesting transition! So, first tell me about yourself.
A: Well, I'm 52 years old, working a "professional" job, and sometimes still hobbying. I was always very sexually connected and have been lucky enough to have been in situations in my life to explore that side of my life very fully. 
 
Q: When did your escort career start and what prompted you to start?
A: Weird story. A friend of mine had a car accident and her benefits had run out, but massage therapy was helping with some pain issues. She knew I used to be an RMT, so asked if I could massage her. I had been on CERB for awhile, and it was a great community so I though I'd ask for some help. I posted asking if I could borrow or rent a massage table for anyone and explained the situation. Three ladies reached out and I borrowed each of their tables for a period of time, and each of them only wanted a massage in exchange. 

They all not only loved the massage, but liked that I did not make any sexual advances towards any of them (unless they specifically told me too!! lol). Each of them said it was refreshing and fun and asked if they could refer friends to me. Suddenly I had a bustling clientele made up almost exclusively of SWers. Someone reached out to the Mods at the time to ask if I could advertise on CERB and they agreed. I started advertising there and elsewhere and developed a very substantial client base very quickly. The ladies on CERB really liked that there was someone they could trust. I made a lot of friends here. Massage porn was a HUGE thing back then (still is) so I think the timing was right too.
 
Q: You told me you used to advertise on Lyla way back when it was called CERB! Can you tell me about how the board has evolved in that time?
A: The board has certainly changed. Back in the CERB days, there was a chat room that was quite busy and many of us would join in. It's remarkable how many times a CERB lady would see me in there and want to book asap. I think the ladies that used the chat room got lots of bookings that way as well. 

I feel like back then, this was more of a community. More people knew each other and communicated often, and even socialized together. 
Obviously some legislative changes caused some of the evolution here, but in general, I don't find it as "friendly" as the past...for lack of a better term.
 
Q: What was your clientele like? Women only? Men too?
A: My clientele was 95% women, but I did have some wonderful transgender clients and 1 cross dresser (I'm flexible!! lol). Many women came to me for a simple massage. Some wanted a massage with an erotic edge, but  no more. Other's wanted something more intimate. As I said above, massage porn was very. very popular, so even if a client didn't specifically want anything sexual during the massage, the experience with me was different than what you'd get at a spa. They all had one thing in common; they came to me because they knew I was trustworthy and safe. 

I also had a fairly substantial number of couples that would come to see me. Sometimes a man would want to watch me massage, sometimes they wanted a "lesson", sometimes they'd join in, and other times they would just send their wife to me. 
There were also a number of female massage providers that would do duo massages with me for couples. That was always fun!!
 
Q: What valuable lessons have you learnt from being a Companion that you can apply whilst hiring SWers?
A: Firstly, I would say the importance of communication. When I was massaging, I often had no clue what a woman was expecting from our time until it was happening. I had to communicate and listen to make sure I was providing exactly what was wanted and not a bit more. Now, as a client, I'm seeing it from the other side. I need to communicate my wishes so they know what I'm looking for. 

Second, I'd say adaptability and empathy. Many of the women would come in with one idea of what they'd like to occur but it would change during the massage. Many SWers really, honestly just wanted a massage when they booked me, but then during the massage changed their mind. I also had some who had all out anxiety attacks while on the table because they had such trouble letting go, being spoiled and being vulnerable. I had to switch gears completely, listen to them to understand what was happening and what they were feeling, and try to help them through it.

Now, as a client, I find it's very important to listen and pay attention to the SW I'm visiting. They lives and obligations that weight on them, and although they try not to have their worlds collide, you can see when something isn't right. 
 
Q: We had a fantastic interview with @Liza about her experience of seeing male escort @SamGaines. She spoke a bit about the stigma surrounding escorts. Have you seen much stigma in your journey so far and can you give some examples if you have?
A: Absolutely. Some of my clients from CERB spoke openly about being with me. They wrote reviews on me, and one even made a blog post about our time together. I think they found it cathartic and refreshing to share. Most non SWer women that saw me would never have shared the info with any of their friends or family for fear of being judged. 

 

I always think of one bachelorette party. There were 5 women and they booked me to massage each of them. Every single one of them wanted more then just massage, but made me promise not to tell and I'm sure they didn't share. 

Even when SWers would see me. They would often say "This is hot and I'd love more, but I just can't bring myself to pay for it." I assume for some of them, crossing the line from provider to client was just not something they wanted to do, but I'm sure, for some, it was the stigma. 
 I think the best example is this; sometimes a client would come see me 5 or 6 times before finally asking me for something sexual. They would literally be dripping on my table, but not ready to take the next step yet. When a man goes to an MP, they have "happy ending" on their minds before they even get on the table. These women had to gather up the nerve for weeks to get them there. It's a different thing for a woman, I guess. 
 
Q: What was the transition from Companion to Client like? Did you do both for a while? 
A: I hobbied before I started providing, and during as well (but less...a guy needs some rest!! lol), so transitioning to it afterwards was not an issue. I stopped massaging because I started a relationship with a woman who wasn't into me doing it anymore. But i do have a substantial "appetite" so I do like to dabble now and then!! 
 
Q: On the topic of safety - what was it like being a male escort? Did you ever have times where you were made to feel unsafe?
A: I never once felt unsafe, per se. I'm a fairly big, fit guy and can protect myself, so I always felt ok. There were times, however, when dealing with a couple, that I felt a bit uncomfortable. Sometimes you just don't know how a man will react to seeing his spouse with another man. I definitely sensed some intense emotions a few times, but nothing ever transpired. 
 
Q: What key differences or challenges are there when it comes to being a male escort versus female?
A: I think the biggest difference in my situation was the nuts and bolts of how things would evolve. As I stated earlier, I often had no clue of what the client would want; just a massage, or more? I had to follow their lead 100%. I never touched intimately without being asked, or asking first. It was always a bit of a dance until the ice was broken. 

I think the other big difference would be ability to perform. If a female is not in the mood, or not feeling it, they can use lube and some good acting and the client may never know their was an issue. The best actor in the world can't fake a hard on. I luckily have no issues in this department, but it wasn't always easy to get or stay hard in every instance. 
 
Q: What would you say to someone who is considering hiring a male escort?
A: I would say, if it's an experience you'd like to try...if it's something you've fantasized about...go for it!! Do research. Be smart about who you choose. Speak with them over the phone or on video to get an idea of them, and trust your gut. Also, ignore the "stigma." Most people, if they aren't actually doing it, have at least thought about it. It's not weird!! You deserve to have fun, be spoiled and cum like an animal. Also, if you have a toy or toys you like, bring them!! More play is good play!! Lastly, don't be shy to ask for EXACTLY what you want. The escort you've hired is there for YOU. For once...it's all about you!!
 
Q: What advice would you give to anyone looking to hire an escort, male or female, for the first time?
A: 2 things:
1. Know what you want and communicate it (respectfully). An experience will always be better if the escort knows what you're looking for. 
2. Do your homework and find an escort that is well reviewed that fits your needs. Nothing worse that bad surprises. 
 
Q: Thanks so much for your time. Is there anything else you’d like to say?
A: I just want to thank you for asking me for this interview. My time as a provider here (on CERB) was a very special time of my life. I made some great friends, met very interesting people, and had some amazing (like...really, really amazing!!) experiences. It was nice to reminisce a bit and some of these questions made me analyze some of my thoughts more fully. I really miss massaging to this day. It made me very happy, just having my hands on skin and making people feel good. If I could still be doing it, I would be. 

I hope you all found this interesting.
 

[Allie Zeon 2925]

I love the last answer! Thanks @lydiahardwood and @500 Pound Gorilla 🥰. As I said previously, this is the thread that I won’t miss! Always very intrigued to read other opinions. Have a great Sunday:)

[Kitten 1281]

"in general, I don't find it as "friendly" as the past...for lack of a better term"

 I feel this and wish I could have seen the board back in its Glory Days.

 

What I can attest to is how amazing the set of hands on this gentleman is! 

 If you're ever up for training someone to become better with massage I did get myself a table not too long ago.

My hands although green to massage are quite talented in other ways. I considered RMT myself but it was wait-listed and feel what I did end up choosing was a much better fit for me.

Would certainly be up for trading skills if you're up for another visit

 

 In respect to the expectations, have you considered maybe setting two prices for your services?

Could help ensure you are prepared in case things do get heavy and worst case if they don't you still make a little extra. No negotiation of prices should not be gendered.
 

 I I think my favourite part about reading this interview was I could still feel your hands caressing me as I read 💋

[Guest]

5 hours ago, Allie Zeon said:

I love the last answer! Thanks @lydiahardwood and @500 Pound Gorilla 🥰. As I said previously, this is the thread that I won’t miss! Always very intrigued to read other opinions. Have a great Sunday:)

Thanks very much. I'm glad you like this interview!!

[Guest]

5 hours ago, Kitten said:

"in general, I don't find it as "friendly" as the past...for lack of a better term"

 I feel this and wish I could have seen the board back in its Glory Days.

 

What I can attest to is how amazing the set of hands on this gentleman is! 

 If you're ever up for training someone to become better with massage I did get myself a table not too long ago.

My hands although green to massage are quite talented in other ways. I considered RMT myself but it was wait-listed and feel what I did end up choosing was a much better fit for me.

Would certainly be up for trading skills if you're up for another visit

 

 In respect to the expectations, have you considered maybe setting two prices for your services?

Could help ensure you are prepared in case things do get heavy and worst case if they don't you still make a little extra. No negotiation of prices should not be gendered.
 

 I I think my favourite part about reading this interview was I could still feel your hands caressing me as I read 💋

Hi Kitten,

I'm glad you remember me!!

I had thought of listing 2 prices, but I felt even that may be too much pressure for some. I chose to keep things simple. 

I'd be super happy to teach you massage techniques anytime. In the old days, several spas around town would book me to come in and teach there masseuses how to do a good massage and incorporate erotic techniques as well. I often taught couples too. 

 

I'll pm you. 

[Allie Zeon 2925]

Pleasure! Can I have an extra question?  Which city were you based as an escort dear 😎

[Allie Zeon 2925]

Don’t tell me it’s Ottawa.  It seems to be a very hot market in here lol

[Guest]

9 minutes ago, Allie Zeon said:

Don’t tell me it’s Ottawa.  It seems to be a very hot market in here lol

Ok...I won't tell you it's Ottawa. 

 

 

 

But it's Ottawa. Lol

Shhh

[NotchJohnson 214134]

Amazing interview @500 Pound Gorilla, thank you @lydiahardwood for inviting him to the interview.

[Guest]

Thanks, Notch. 

I believe we met once...wayyyyyy back. Lol

Hope you're doing well.

2 hours ago, NotchJohnson said:

Amazing interview @500 Pound Gorilla, thank you @lydiahardwood for inviting him to the interview.

 

[charlottequinn123 7298]

Absolutely love these interviews and this one did not disappoint! ❤️

[Guest lydiahardwood]

4 minutes ago, charlottequinn123 said:

Absolutely love these interviews and this one did not disappoint! ❤️

Have I messaged you about doing one yet, gorgeous?! If I haven't and you wanna do one slide in my DMs. 😉

[Guest]

1 hour ago, charlottequinn123 said:

Absolutely love these interviews and this one did not disappoint! ❤️

Glad you liked it!!

[Allie Zeon 2925]

6 hours ago, lydiahardwood said:

Have I messaged you about doing one yet, gorgeous?! If I haven't and you wanna do one slide in my DMs. 😉

Yes!

[Guest]

21 hours ago, Allie Zeon said:

Don’t tell me it’s Ottawa.  It seems to be a very hot market in here lol

You should do a road trip!!

[Allie Zeon 2925]

10 minutes ago, 500 Pound Gorilla said:

You should do a road trip!!

I’m dying to do so. God damn vaccine is not here yet in rural NB 🤪.  Hope to see you sexy?  Now, I’m curious to check the hottest city in the world...Ottawa!!!!

[waterat 20911]

12 minutes ago, Allie Zeon said:

I’m dying to do so. God damn vaccine is not here yet in rural NB 🤪.  Hope to see you sexy?  Now, I’m curious to check the hottest city in the world...Ottawa!!!!

Glad to know that Ottawa, 'hottest city in the world", is a high priority destination! 

Yes, a vaccine administered, and then the waiting period to ensure the antibodies have developed in our bodies.

 

[Allie Zeon 2925]

1 hour ago, waterat said:

Glad to know that Ottawa, 'hottest city in the world", is a high priority destination! 

Yes, a vaccine administered, and then the waiting period to ensure the antibodies have developed in our bodies.

 

Hi stranger..long time no see 😎

[Guest]

2 hours ago, Allie Zeon said:

I’m dying to do so. God damn vaccine is not here yet in rural NB 🤪.  Hope to see you sexy?  Now, I’m curious to check the hottest city in the world...Ottawa!!!!

See you when you get here!!!

[Phaedrus 209521]

Great interview, @500 Pound Gorilla! Thanks for doing it! I remember reading the recommendations a couple of folks wrote for you...

[HenryOcean 196]

Thanks for the very genuine interview! 
 

I don't find many male SP are spoken about let alone a MP, in my mind I think of Deuce Bigalow 😄 

 

 

[Guest]

15 hours ago, Phaedrus said:

Great interview, @500 Pound Gorilla! Thanks for doing it! I remember reading the recommendations a couple of folks wrote for you...

Is it possible we met at a "social" once or twice?

[Guest]

6 hours ago, HenryOcean said:

Thanks for the very genuine interview! 
 

I don't find many male SP are spoken about let alone a MP, in my mind I think of Deuce Bigalow 😄 

 

 

I'm taller.

[Phaedrus 209521]

7 hours ago, 500 Pound Gorilla said:

Is it possible we met at a "social" once or twice?

I'm pretty sure we did :)

[Guest]

4 hours ago, Phaedrus said:

I'm pretty sure we did 🙂

That's what I thought!!

Hope you're doing well.