Is This a Turnoff When Booking an SP?

[Nicolette Vaughn 294340]

Gentlemen,

 

How do you feel when you are booking an appt and the SP says she's not available because she has another appt but is free to see you before or afterwards? Does this ruin the fantasy for you?

 

The reason I ask is because even though I am not a high volume provider ( 2 appts max in a day) I am often faced with the challenge of trying to book with clients within a small window of opportunity and it is always around the same time. You guys must be reading each other's minds! lol.

 

Anyhow, most of the time I say I'm not available but other times I have said I have another appt. Sometimes I don't know what to say. I've always been curious if this is a turn off or not. We all know that the ladies are running a business ( and a fun one most of the time!) but I can't help but wondering.

 

Your thoughts would be greatly appreciated! :)

[GHT 798]

I am a realist, I know the ladies I see, see other clients. So you saying how it is doesn't rune anything.

 

You could always say you are busy and not specify exactly why you're not available. Some might prefer that.

[Megan'sTouch 23875]

I just say when I'm available. It's not really his concern what's going on in between. I could be seeing another guy, meeting a friend for lunch, etc.

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[drlove 37204]

It doesn't bother me at all. It's the same as when I used to book with one of my favorite agencies. I'd ask to see someone, and be told that she would be available in an hour e.g. (she's in a session at the moment) etc. It's part and parcel of the industry. Of course, if you felt more comfortable, you could just say when your next availability is, as opposed to saying "I have another appointment."

[VedaSloan 119179]

I would hope that most guys realize that we're running a business and are seeing more than one gentlemen. If me telling you that I've got another appointment scheduled ruins things for you, I'd say you're a bit too high maintenence for my liking anyway.

[72Nova 116]

Not an issue at all. It's part of the game.

[Nicolette Vaughn 294340]

Thanks everyone for your comments. The reason I asked is because I had someone say to me one time that the thought of me being with someone else turned them off. They didn't want to have "sloppy seconds". Needless to say, I ended all contact with him the moment after he said that.

 

He made it sound like I was seeing 5-10 people a day when in reality, I can only pace myself to do 2 half hour appts or an encounter with one client whether it's one hour or 2 hours. I found the comments to be very insulting and it caught me off guard.

[drlove 37204]

Thanks everyone for your comments. The reason I asked is because I had someone say to me one time that the thought of me being with someone else turned them off. They didn't want to have "sloppy seconds". Needless to say, I ended all contact with him the moment after he said that.

 

He made it sound like I was seeing 5-10 people a day when in reality, I can only pace myself to do 2 half hour appts or an encounter with one client whether it's one hour or 2 hours. I found the comments to be very insulting and it caught me off guard.

 

He knows your an escort, right? I think you were wise to break contact with him. Not only were his comments demeaning and offensive, but I detect an air of possessiveness about them. Someone like that could (potentially) spell trouble down the road. You can never be too careful.

[Guest K****r De**xe]

Nicki

Most guys understand its a business, and you ladies do a wonderful job of making us feel like we ARE the only one.Thats part of the chemistry bewteen SP and hobbiest.Its unfortunate that sometimes are busier than others and availability is not always guranteed.The beauty is in both ways as there are many SPs to chose from if that is the only time a guy can make it.He can always book a different day if you are busy.BTW saying you are busy with out being specific in no way implies you are seeing many appt a day.You ladies have personal lives that uusally dictate availability. Just my 2 cents

 

I agree with dr love above and stay away from with him.

 

See ya soon XXXXXX Kissser

[jdstar 1065]

I'd rather be lied to. Just tell me you are bringing your gradmother's cat to the vet or something...

[April Dawn 12207]

I just tell when I am next available and never say its for another appointment. I have a ton of dogs and most of my clients know that so I make up something involving dogs needing walks, baths or vet if I am questioned. I don't really think its anyone's buinsess how many appointments I have or when I am doing them.

I've had clients really go both ways on this

though. Some have a almost creepy desire to hear about my other appointments which I won't tell them about and some like to pretend it doesn't happen :p

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[Malika Fantasy 144625]

Well I never tell someone that I am having another appointement at the time they ask, I just say I am busy...and I swear guys do you always want 11:00 am and 4:00 pm? 0_o

 

Or Also I can say I am available until 7:00 pm, but if someone ask for 5:30 and I already saw 2 persons earlier during the day, I declined and say I am no longer available. I kinda care for my vagina to not be sore :P

[mrrnice2 157005]

The short answer is yes, for me it is a turnoff.

 

There is a valid rationale for it however that does not mean that I am living in a dream world nor does it mean that I do not appreciate or understand or support what an SP does for a living. I know that they see lots of clients and I enjoy writing reccos so that they can perhaps be more successful and more men will be in contact with them.

 

I know that men and women are different in their ability to "recover." I for one REALLY wish it were not that way, but an orgasm for me means that it is time to relax, cuddle, talk. I am not going to be immediately ready to go again.

 

Women may have that biological advantage, but, and this may be ignorance on my part, I really would wonder how a woman would be able to have appointments back to back and still show the interest and enthusiasm and sincerity that I have been so fortunate to have been on the receiving end of in all of my encounters. It is the interest, enthusiasm and sincerity that I love.

 

If we go one step farther, and I see ads that say they have appointments available for 2, 4, 6, 8, and 10 then my head says that surely if I am one of those later appointments, then I am not going to get the experience that I so enjoy.

 

I may be totally wrong on this.

 

Finally, I have not met an SP that I did not like. I know that from my personal perspective, I would like them to be financially successful while at the same time give themselves an opportunity to have a working routine that leaves them room for R&R, room to maintain their physical and mental health, and room to make every encounter that they are a part of an awesome experience not only for the client but for themselves as well.

 

I may have got off of the thread a bit but a large part of my answer is based on my concern for them.

[mrgreen760 37785]

Always attempt to have the first appointment of the day. Sort of sets the marker for the rest :)

 

Peace

MG

[PistolPete 61421]

I only have SEX first thing in the morning, around 10 or 11 am. Based on the following-

 

a) A lady is ready and sometimes really raring to go in the am rather then 12 hours later at 10 or 11pm at night :)

 

b) My scheduling permits me to do so...so I do it then... and do it often ;)

 

c) Women are known to have great orgasms in the morning.

 

d) I really do enjoy being the ladies first encounter of the day, if possible.I have had many other appointments in the day time and they have worked out just fine too.

 

e) Nothing really like 'morning sex'

 

If a lady tells me she is busy at that time, I move on or try to book later on. I'm the paying customer, and I seek out a lady's availability, if it is all good we get on track for a date.

 

It does not bother me if she seen another gent at 8 or 9 am as long as she is fresh and raring to go.

 

Now, I know a couple of times, I was told I can slide you in at this time, and I said what about earlier, and she said she was booked, therefore meaning she was booking 3 gents in a row and only giving herself a total of 1 hour total in between 3 dates. I took a pass of course.

 

 

Oh and Nicki it doesn't ruin the fantasy for me at all, I always look at as a date :)

[Surf_Nazis_Must_Die 8958]

Heck, unless I was out drinking my face off or doing other idiotic things before an appointment, an SP doesn't need to know what I was doing and probably doesn't care. So why should it be any different on my end?

 

Last I checked, the only 2 people in the room when we spend time together are her and me. Why should anything else matter?

[Guest tr*****e]

Yeah, I agree with Surf, it really does go both ways. The only thing that really turns me off is being treated like I'm not important. Busy though? Meh, it's your job, why should I care that I'm not your first partner in a day? It's all about the one-on-one intimacy.

[Kubrickfan 12836]

I tend to agree with mrnice and Pete and it's one of the reasons that I prefer morning appointments on occasion. At the same time, it's not fair to the ladies, and many ladies only see clients in the evening.

 

I definitely agree that if a lady lists a bunch of "slots" or if a lady announces that she just had an opening become available between "6:15 and 7:00," or something like that, that it makes me wince a bit.

[roamingguy 300292]

Fortunately never happened to me, but that's because I schedule way ahead of time, not short notice

But if we're talking about preference, I'd rather not know why, just saying you are free at a certain time is good enough for me...and no, I'm not naive, I know this is the ladies' livelihood, and I'm not the one and only

RG

[Nicolette Vaughn 294340]

I definitely agree that if a lady lists a bunch of "slots" or if a lady announces that she just had an opening become available between "6:15 and 7:00," or something like that, that it makes me wince a bit.

 

Yes, i can see how one could almost see the SP as a revolving door if she were to say that. My issues is I will book an appt with someone and minutes later someone else will call looking for around the same time. If it's someone I have never met, usually I say I'm busy but if it's 2 good regulars and they know I'm at my location and available, they obviously know what is going on. So a few times I've said I'm not available and other times I said I was going to be tied up until a certain time.

 

I've used the line of saying I had an appt booked and couldn't see the person at that time and while it didn't seem to phase them, I felt weird. I also tend to shy from answering the good old question when a client is making small talk asking if "I have been busy today". I have been put on the spot like that a couple of times.

 

 

I just wanted to know everyone's opinion since it is part of an SP's job to create an illusion. Thanks for sharing!

[Megan'sTouch 23875]

I definitely agree that if a lady lists a bunch of "slots" or if a lady announces that she just had an opening become available between "6:15 and 7:00," or something like that, that it makes me wince a bit.

Really? I'm often like that I only see 6-7 clients per week. My schedule is tight due to having 2 other jobs, political activism, friends, a family, my own hobbies, etc.

[etasman2000 15994]

Well I never tell someone that I am having another appointement at the time they ask, I just say I am busy...and I swear guys do you always want 11:00 am and 4:00 pm? 0_o

 

11am - early lunch

 

4pm - skip out of work early, telling the boss "only time Dr Malika can see me, you know doctors....."

 

To answer OP, it doesn't bother me although I would agree with Megan, its none of my business why you are busy.

[chavez 641]

Yeah , a little bit it bothers me. On the other hand I don't naturally assume that if a lady isn't available it is because she is craming in appointments. The exception is seeing a lady on tour. I understand she is on tour and there is a certain amount of expence associated with that tour. Probably she is heavily booked. I mean, if you are away from home how many regular hobbies and family obligations can you do.

Although I am often tempted by some of the ladies on tour I rarely participate.

It is maybe a fault in my personality. When I choose a to see a lady it is because she has something special that appeals to me. I need her experience with me to be, even a littlebit, something special. You can only do that a few times a day and then it is a blurr.

The end result is my hobbying can be a little expensive as I often choose ladies that I believe are not working on volume.

( I guess that was a little pun, not intended, but kinda cute.lol)

[Kubrickfan 12836]

Really? I'm often like that I only see 6-7 clients per week. My schedule is tight due to having 2 other jobs' date=' political activism, friends, a family, my own hobbies, etc.[/quote']

 

Come to think of it, I do recall when Michelle MA was on the board that her website listed a 7 day calendar with morning, afternoon and evening, and that didn't bug me, but that was a massage, of course.

[Megan'sTouch 23875]

Come to think of it, I do recall when Michelle MA was on the board that her website listed a 7 day calendar with morning, afternoon and evening, and that didn't bug me, but that was a massage, of course.

Advertising 7-day availability doesn't mean we work 7 days a week. I myself advertise pretty much every day, but I always take days off.

 

For example, I will advertise Thur/Fri/Sat/Sun and then when I have appointments booked for 3 days, I take the 4th day off, whichever day it may be.

 

I have also often advertised availability in the morning/afternoon/evening, but I will never work all three. For example, if someone books me in the morning, then I will not see anyone in the evening. If someone books me in the evening, I will not see anyone in the morning.