An Interview With Loopie - Exploring new experiences with Companions

[Guest lydiahardwood]

Good morning Canadian lovers! ❤️ Delighted to share an interview with you today, this time with a Client on Lyla. @loopie has been a member for some time and has many years experience in this industry. In this interview, we talk about the very beginning of his journey, what new experiences he has had and some sound advice relevant to anyone, regardless of how long you've been seeking Companionship. 

 

Q: Hey there, Loopie! It is great to get the chance to interview you. Let’s start by finding out a bit about you?

A: I'm a middle-aged man who got into this lifestyle after reading a comic book (or "graphic novel" as some people like to call them).  The comic book was 'Paying For It' by a cartoonist named Chester Brown, whose other works I really liked.  Brown's works are often autobiographical and this one chronicled his experiences as a client seeing escorts in Toronto in the 90's.  The way he depicted the experience made it seem like something I would enjoy.  I had not really thought about it before.

When I was younger, I had wanted to have a traditional nuclear family with a monogamous marriage, but my relationships had not panned out.  I had not dated for a bit and was at a point in my life where I was starting to have a fare bit of disposable income, so I decided to give this lifestyle a shot.  I shopped around and found a provider that seemed ideal and she turned out to be wonderful.  So it was a great first experience and I just kept going.

 

Q: How long have you been seeing Companions? Is it a regular thing?

A: I've been seeing companions for close to 15 years now.  Normally, it was a regular thing.  That changed during the pandemic, during which I saw nobody.  But normally I would see a woman monthly.  Some of it was driven by women's touring schedules.  A woman I really fancied might come to town for a few days every couple months, so if I wanted to see her, it had to be then.  And sometimes a few of my favourites would come to town very close to each other.

 

Q: Do you have a “type” that you go for?

A: Typically it's big boobs.  I think that's the most attractive physical trait a woman can have.  The bigger the better.  When I'm doing my initial scan of the ads, that's what always gets my attention first. 

As far as personality goes, if I can get a sense that they're more relaxed and down-to-earth that makes for a much more agreeable encounter.

 

Q: Have you found that you discovered new types of attraction, kinks or things you like through exploring with Companions?

A:  Yes, although I typically just want a vanilla rendezvous, this lifestyle has allowed me to broaden my horizons and experience new things.

I tried some sensual dom stuff and enjoyed it.  I think there are some people who do just enjoy pain and degradation, but that's not me.  If all I wanted was my ass kicked, I could just honk the nose of any bouncer at any bar.  I wanted to try dom because I hoped it could bring a sense of suspense and constant psychological engagement to the encounter.  And it accomplished exactly that.

When I was in Japan, I saw an escort and got to see what the experience was like there.  I got to go to one of those love hotels I'd heard about.  And the woman did the whole ceremonial washing thing where she scrubbed me down before our encounter.  I had always seen that in Japanese films and it was really exciting to experience.  The whole scrubdown is really nice foreplay for me. 

I've also had some other unique companions, like a woman who had committed to an extreme body transformation.  Not the type of woman I even see in real life often, let alone get to be intimate with.

 

Q: Do you find that, for you at least, variety is important?

A: That's one of the great advantages of this lifestyle.  There's very little commitment, so I can see a variety of different types of women and try different things.  I still tend to settle into seeing a small rotation of providers who I know I like, but it's good to mix things up.

 

Q: What are your main reasons for hiring Companions? Is it purely sexual?

A: Yes, my interest in escorts is purely sexual.  There are many women I have seen regularly for many years and I would say we have a friendly rapport and a familiarity, but our relationship is still a professional one.

Q: Has spending time with Companions had any effect on your personal life; how you see yourself, sexual confidence, relationships?

A:  I have not dated in a long time.  I don't know what I would want from a relationship at this point in my life.  I'm very used to living alone and feel too old to have children and start being a father.   A romantic relationship at this point in my life would basically be a friend that I have sex with.  But I already have lots of friends for friendship, and I have escorts for sex.  So, seeing escorts has simplified my life.

Seeing companions has definitely helped me articulate my sexuality.  The keys to getting what you want from any professional are knowing what you want and being able to describe it clearly.

 

Q: Are there any other fantasies or experiences that you’re excited to try?

A: After more than a year of being alone in my apartment, just hugging somebody is pretty exciting.  Now that I'm all vaccinated and easing back into my regular life, I'm mostly just getting used to having vanilla rendezvous back in my life.  Maybe I'll start thinking out of the box again in a few months.

 

Q: What advice would you give to someone looking to explore new experiences with Companions?

A:  Be clear in your mind about what you want and communicate with your provider.  Not just the what, but also the how.  You may be trying something that's new to you, but it's probably not new to her, and letting her know your lack of experience and expectations can definitely help her in guiding you through it.

 

Q: Thank you for your time, Loopie. Anything else to add?

A: Thank you for your interest.

[Allie Zeon 2925]

Thank you @loopie daughter ❤️ @lydiahardwood love the questions and answers.  We are a big family indeed.  There is definitely a connection and for me personally, there is a similarity between your life loopie and mine.  I feel also a little too old to build up a new relationship and being a companion help me satisfy my sexual needs and for me personally, I actually have made few friends along the way😊

[Guest lydiahardwood]

4 hours ago, Allie Zeon said:

Thank you @loopie daughter ❤️ @lydiahardwood love the questions and answers.  We are a big family indeed.  There is definitely a connection and for me personally, there is a similarity between your life loopie and mine.  I feel also a little too old to build up a new relationship and being a companion help me satisfy my sexual needs and for me personally, I actually have made few friends along the way😊

Thanks, Mom! ❤️ 

I think it's an amazing thing that you are happy alone and have this to satisfy that part of your life. You're an inspiration.

[RayRenpelle 429]

I really appreciate your comments @loopie. I too am alone and too old and of poor health. And so lacking experience in sexual matter. I am fortunate to have found a companion that I see as often as possible who has been kind, understanding and willing to teach me. I realized I knew so little. But she ( @KylieJane) has patiently taught me so much. Ever so thankful to her for being a part of my life. So I truly appreciate your interview and to know that there are others like me. Also thank you to @lydiahardwood for bringing those interviews to us!

 

[Phaedrus 209521]

Thanks, @loopie! And great to see you around these parts again!

[NotchJohnson 214123]

Those were all great answers @loopie, @lydiahardwood really knows what to ask and always impresses me.  Keep up the great community going both of you.

[loopie 15358]

Thanks guys!  It was fun doing this interview.  I moved away from Ottawa just before the pandemic, but used to be quite active on here.  I still check this site to get in touch with some providers.