Am I wrong to fuck with LL idiots?

[Jenesis 294]

So maybe the inquiries are just getting to me but I have to admit I have had some fun with some of them and I wonder if that is maybe a bad thing but it is just to fun to stop. 

Now I know many ladies would not be able to reply like this. Many will have to talk to these guys because they need the booking but I don’t so I like to fuck around.

I don’t think this will actually teach these guys anything but someone suggested I might be making it harder for other ladies by pissing these guys off with my snide comments.

So am I wrong for having this fun?

[Guest]

8 minutes ago, Jenesis said:

I don’t think this will actually teach these guys anything but someone suggested I might be making it harder for other ladies by pissing these guys off with my snide comments.

So am I wrong for having this fun?

   I doubt many would want to do business with someone unwilling to learn from their mistakes.

 Many times I read and replied to "any info" threads where the answers were in the ads they were inquiry about. Part inexperience and part laziness. And if they lack the ability to understand and correct themselves, this is where idiocy starts.

[Neil young 79]

If a man can't approach you with the respect you deserve, they should get what is coming to them.

I am well informed on the BS that SPs put up with and all of you deserve a metal for what you go through.

 

[Phaedrus 209521]

Fucking with them: great!

Fucking them: not so great, probably :)

Seriously, though, if you can get some entertainment out of the idiots and timewasters then I see no reason why they shouldn't be useful for *something*. Maybe they'll even learn to appreciate the people who are prepared to put up with them...

[Andee 220524]

I have gotten many good clients from LL. You are basically painting them all with the same brush. Fucking around with them is I believe asking for trolls or stalkers.  Why bother? I don't understand why even contemplating such is a good idea.  

[NotchJohnson 214123]

I have booked with LL ladies(for a lack of a better word) in the past that were way way below average and that did not respect the agreement that THEY proposed in the beginning.  I can understand how this thing can be in both direction but my time is way to precious then to "fuck" with them.  In the same sense if @Jenesis has the time to do so then I'm glad that someone sets them in their place. Also if @Andee got many good clients from LL then that's a good thing.

I think that what Jenesis was referring to was the time wasters and low ballers.

[Jenesis 294]

10 hours ago, Andee said:

I have gotten many good clients from LL. You are basically painting them all with the same brush. Fucking around with them is I believe asking for trolls or stalkers.  Why bother? I don't understand why even contemplating such is a good idea.  

I have as well. I took out the examples because another escort pointed out the unprofessionalism of doing it and how hard we all work to show we are professional and I am/was a bad example in posting the texts. So I removed

 

To clarify, these were all first-time contacts that I promise you were a WOT. Which let's me see now, with the help of posters like yourself, it was a waste for me to even reply. 

 

I have preached about ignoring these types of people. I was even interviewed here on it and I was going against my own advice. 

 

This has now changed from questioning if the behaviour was right/wrong in general to also now being why it was actually personally wrong for me. I have had to look deeper into my own actions and I think I have come to the conclusion that I am at the beginning stages of burnout. 

 

It is weird because it has not happened like I thought it would. But I think I was getting snappy instead of my usual quick witt comebacks. 

 

I'm reflecting more on it but I think I will be cancelling tours next month at the very least, maybe even longer. 

 

Mental health is so important and I am glad I have spaces to post, get other opinions and perspectives, and reflect to either accept or change behaviour. This is under the change category. 😘

[Andee 220524]

10 hours ago, Jenesis said:

I have as well. I took out the examples because another escort pointed out the unprofessionalism of doing it and how hard we all work to show we are professional and I am/was a bad example in posting the texts. So I removed

 

To clarify, these were all first-time contacts that I promise you were a WOT. Which let's me see now, with the help of posters like yourself, it was a waste for me to even reply. 

 

I have preached about ignoring these types of people. I was even interviewed here on it and I was going against my own advice. 

 

This has now changed from questioning if the behaviour was right/wrong in general to also now being why it was actually personally wrong for me. I have had to look deeper into my own actions and I think I have come to the conclusion that I am at the beginning stages of burnout. 

 

It is weird because it has not happened like I thought it would. But I think I was getting snappy instead of my usual quick witt comebacks. 

 

I'm reflecting more on it but I think I will be cancelling tours next month at the very least, maybe even longer. 

 

Mental health is so important and I am glad I have spaces to post, get other opinions and perspectives, and reflect to either accept or change behaviour. This is under the change category. 😘

I was not judging you.  I know how hard it is to navigate enquiries on a daily basis, trying to ascertain the good guys from the timewasters.  I actually work part time as a booker for another provider and I find it easier to deal with the time wasters etc. when they aren't for me but it still takes a mental toll on us and of course it's natural to want to go to that place where we really want to give it to them.  In the end though, there is only so much educating we can do while maintaining our dignity and not using up valuable time.  I hate to say it, but in the past 10 years due to the Internet and anyone and everyone posting as providers and would be clients, we have to trudge deeper in the trenches to weed out the good ones.  I only work part time these days and I am blessed that being older I am actually spared a lot of the coercion that new and younger providers face.  My friend who pays me to book for her says it's worth it to her in mental energy and stress saved booking her own calls.  I am fortunate that I have been around since the 90s and have seen the progression and changes in the industry and as much as I may not like how some things are, we have to adjust to the way things are while maintaining our boundaries.  For example, text apps may suck, but it's pretty hard to ask clients not to contact us using them when many providers use them themselves.

[Andee 220524]

14 hours ago, NotchJohnson said:

I have booked with LL ladies(for a lack of a better word) in the past that were way way below average and that did not respect the agreement that THEY proposed in the beginning.  I can understand how this thing can be in both direction but my time is way to precious then to "fuck" with them.  In the same sense if @Jenesis has the time to do so then I'm glad that someone sets them in their place. Also if @Andee got many good clients from LL then that's a good thing.

I think that what Jenesis was referring to was the time wasters and low ballers.

I hate to say it Notch, but lowballers and time wasters are not just prevalent on LL.  The new reality of this business is we have to accept that 80% of enquiries will never result in bookings or good clients.  We may not like it, but that's the way it is.  My motto is if You don't agree with my booking protocol, then there's nothing more to talk about.  Period.