Advice about a unique problem I have with trying to book escorts

[Epheros85 113]

Hi guys. I'm really eager to see an SP. I have money to burn. My only problem is that I have some unique social anxiety problems that make me uncomfortable carrying a phone. That already limits me a lot. So, when I do contact an SP that books through email, they uh completely ghost me when they find out I don't have phone. I don't know if it's because they think it's weird or that I might be a cop. Is there....anything that I could do to tip odds in my favor of not scaring off all escorts? And Is it unheard of to see an escort without texting them in front of their building/hotel/whatever?

[NotchJohnson 214136]

Honestly...you must have a phone at home?  A landline phone that is.  So why not get the lady visit you at your place?  I would advise you to get a reputable lady from this site, a lady that has some recommendations so that you are sure to get what you pay for.  Another way would be to pay her ahead of time, either fully or partially and explain to her that you don't have a phone but that you will be there at a certain time and place, your place or hers.

 

Just saying...

[Guest]

  To echo NJ, can also call from an hotel/motel where you could host or find an old fashion lady who still accept confirmation calls from specific phone booths.

   Also, prepaid burner phones are quite cheap.

[Meg O'Ryan 266444]

Personally I feel comfortable meeting with someone that I can call back....cell or landline. Email is not gonna cut it

[Meg O'Ryan 266444]

nice to hear from you!

[roamingguy 300292]

Nice hearing from you Meg 😊 

 

[Meg O'Ryan 266444]

while i am still active I have not visited this site in awhile

[Epheros85 113]

I have a landline, but not a good living situation to be hosting. The hotel thing is a decent suggestion, as is the burner phone. I'll give those some thought. Thanks for the advice.

[Genevieve Marceau 68000]

12 hours ago, Epheros85 said:

I have a landline, but not a good living situation to be hosting. The hotel thing is a decent suggestion, as is the burner phone. I'll give those some thought. Thanks for the advice.

We have ways to verify is the phone is a burner phone, and a burner phone is just as suspicious as no phone at all. I'd recommend that you attach a photo of your IDs to your email request, along with a little something from her wishlist - or even an offer to pay a deposit. 

[Aaronthick 3]

It would be great if there were still pay phones around. That would solve the problem completely I would think. You could even call into them back in the day. That’s a unique problem for sure. Best of luck I hope you find a work around that fits your lifestyle.

[JackJack 24]

At least a burner phone.

Thing is email is probably the least secure method of communicating. If your worried about ppl snooping in your business, landline ( then cell ) phone would be better.

I think SP's have enough ppl wasting their time ( or worse ) so just look at it from their end.

 

[beesh 1286]

@Epheros85

All these are great advice, I hope they work for you ...BUT if they do not, here is my 'techno centric' middle path option !

If your anxiety is regarding carrying a small device - buy large: a SIM card enabled tablet

for eg Rogers Samsung Galaxy - https://www.bestbuy.ca/en-ca/product/rogers-samsung-galaxy-tab-a-8-32gb-android-o-lte-tablet-with-snapdragon-425-4-core-processor-black-monthly-financing/13572000

This way, you will be less worried about loosing it (if that is one of your anxiety)

A SIM card tablet can send/receive text from that number (& do anything a phone does), it is not a burner phone, just another phone #

You can PM the companion if she is on Lyla

Also watch Netflix while you wait for your appointment 😃

[Guest]

15 minutes ago, beesh said:

@Epheros85

All these are great advice, I hope they work for you ...BUT if they do not, here is my 'techno centric' middle path option !

If your anxiety is regarding carrying a small device - buy large: a SIM card enabled tablet

for eg Rogers Samsung Galaxy - https://www.bestbuy.ca/en-ca/product/rogers-samsung-galaxy-tab-a-8-32gb-android-o-lte-tablet-with-snapdragon-425-4-core-processor-black-monthly-financing/13572000

This way, you will be less worried about loosing it (if that is one of your anxiety)

A SIM card tablet can send/receive text from that number (& do anything a phone does), it is not a burner phone, just another phone #

You can PM the companion if she is on Lyla

Also watch Netflix while you wait for your appointment 😃

   While not fully informed on his "unique social anxiety problems", I think it has more to do with being connected 24/7 than the size of the device used.

[Epheros85 113]

Thanks guys. I appreciate the advice. I became desperate enough to go out and get a prepaid phone just to test the waters and see how I feel. So far, not bad. And yeah, it's not about the size of the device haha. I even saw my first (well, second ever) SP. Unfortunately, it was a bait and switch situation, and didn't enjoy it much. I'll...try again I guess.

[NotchJohnson 214136]

17 minutes ago, Epheros85 said:

Thanks guys. I appreciate the advice. I became desperate enough to go out and get a prepaid phone just to test the waters and see how I feel. So far, not bad. And yeah, it's not about the size of the device haha. I even saw my first (well, second ever) SP. Unfortunately, it was a bait and switch situation, and didn't enjoy it much. I'll...try again I guess.

I would suggest to see a lady that was recommended on this site for your (not first or second time) third time and you will have a much better experience with that.

[Epheros85 113]

35 minutes ago, NotchJohnson said:

I would suggest to see a lady that was recommended on this site for your (not first or second time) third time and you will have a much better experience with that.

Okay, I'll keep that in mind thanks.

[Tiredofthis 0]

On 11/13/2021 at 7:51 AM, Genevieve Marceau said:

We have ways to verify is the phone is a burner phone, and a burner phone is just as suspicious as no phone at all. I'd recommend that you attach a photo of your IDs to your email request, along with a little something from her wishlist - or even an offer to pay a deposit. 

I paid a deposit twice two separate SP got ripped off twice. I put a post up of the one girl. I’m putting the other one up to. She just ripped me off for a deposit. I’m done with the Sudbury SP. TERRIBLE seriously 

[Truth 0]

On 11/12/2021 at 1:03 PM, Epheros85 said:

Hi guys. I'm really eager to see an SP. I have money to burn. My only problem is that I have some unique social anxiety problems that make me uncomfortable carrying a phone. That already limits me a lot. So, when I do contact an SP that books through email, they uh completely ghost me when they find out I don't have phone. I don't know if it's because they think it's weird or that I might be a cop. Is there....anything that I could do to tip odds in my favor of not scaring off all escorts? And Is it unheard of to see an escort without texting them in front of their building/hotel/whatever?

 

[Truth 0]

You need a phone so you can msg her when ur there . If you msg when you get to a location she's gonna know once she receives the text  that ull be at her door in 30 sec or a min . . This way she's not lookin out the window every 30 secs or waiting 2 hrs for you . 

  Mind you this is just one of several reasasons .

My advice get a phone ..wtf..

[Guest]

6 hours ago, Tiredofthis said:

I paid a deposit twice two separate SP got ripped off twice. I put a post up of the one girl. I’m putting the other one up to. She just ripped me off for a deposit. I’m done with the Sudbury SP. TERRIBLE seriously 

   Never send deposits to unverified providers.

Suggest you read this:

How to: Verify pics, ads and identify potential fraud. - Lyla

 

[ayushiest 3]

Well, if you didn't had ethic's issues then why not?

Worth it or not is depending on what you want and what you pay, as long as you sure what you are doing and you had a firm reason for it.

But I would say that is not for long term, unless you are very very rich person.