JLeeLewis 1344 Report post Posted January 29, 2022 I’ve noticed over past few months that the amount of discussion on this site is nothing like it was a year or more ago. Even the private massage group is completely dead. Just wondering if it’s due to the long list of DND, lack of any new talent in the city, or too many restrictions on what we can and cannot talk about on here? Other similar sites appear to have a more active membership. 1 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
GoodLick 34 Report post Posted January 29, 2022 It's just the slow death knell for this Winnipeg sub. The restrictions and rules have driven most of the discussion over to the other ERB. There use to be a thriving discussion on here between clients and providers. Don't see it coming back any time soon. 2 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kmoppai 1089 Report post Posted January 29, 2022 The DND definitely lowers public talking. There's also been numerous petty fights I've seen over the last few years, I would say people are less inclined to put their opinion on here. It's a shame, I like this place. But I guess since covid I've also been less active on the table and on the board here lol. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ruralboy 35 Report post Posted January 30, 2022 There are a lot of dnd. Kind of makes it tough to achieve what this site is intended for. Also, massage places do not have the travelling ladies or amount of new ladies that the main escort site has. I mean how many times can we comment on the same few places that we are allowed to? 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
builder3007 138 Report post Posted January 30, 2022 3 hours ago, GoodLick said: It's just the slow death knell for this Winnipeg sub. The restrictions and rules have driven most of the discussion over to the other ERB. There use to be a thriving discussion on here between clients and providers. Don't see it coming back any time soon. Have to agree. Then you add the pandemic on top of things. too bad this used to be very helpful place to come to 1 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
foofer 217 Report post Posted January 30, 2022 5 hours ago, JLeeLewis said: Just wondering if it’s due to the long list of DND, lack of any new talent in the city, or too many restrictions on what we can and cannot talk about on here? Kinda, no, hell yes. The DND does put a damper on some stuff. I can see it's purpose, though. There seems to be new places opening up all the time, so there is new talent coming in. The biggest problem is the rules actively discourage participation. It's impossible to give an honest review. Have a bad experience? All you can do is sit back and watch another guy TOFTT because you can't post a review. If there is a known bad MP, all they have to do is change their name and they get a clean slate to take advantage of even more customers. WTF? We can't warn or recommend due to it possibly outing the offender. It's complete bullshit. The only allowed purpose of this site is to shill for providers so they can claim to be "well reviewed". Well homie don't play dat game. If I can't post a deserved bad review, I won't post a recommendation either. Not about to have this site benefit from my effort while censoring me for telling the truth. So for anyone asking "Has anyone tried xxxxxx?" The answer is probably yes. You'll just have to ask elsewhere if you want an honest answer instead of the site sanctioned "AAA+++ 5-Stars! Great eBayer! Worth double the price!". 5 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Rom 20 Report post Posted January 30, 2022 For DND I would say. We should not talk too much informations also. They have personal or business life as usual. But some members discuss too much publicly & also they change name for reason , one of those is their owner can’t recognize them. As some spa doesn’t want their employees to work any other place. They have or don’t have enough clients even. But mentioning AKA giving them hard time to find job. if they provide me something, doesn’t mean they will provide each & everyone the same. There is a matter called RESPECT their decision also. If you are crossing their boundaries might be they will not do minimum to you but the more clear discussion also a reason for the attendance to have hard time. Don’t you think some members are responsible for the growing DND!! 1 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ruralboy 35 Report post Posted January 30, 2022 Rom, I have to disagree. If I’m reviewing a auto mechanic I am not reviewing him for how great he makes potato soup, I’m reviewing him on the skills I have hired him for. If you are an escort by choice people should be able to review your escort services and if you work at a rub and tug people should be able to review your rubbing services as well as your tugging services, all of them. This respect the privacy holly mother of god crap makes no sense. The choice was made to be in that “profession”. I understand if someone found out and posted their real name, home address or something private but to use their fake name with info on services, why not? 4 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ParkerLewis 46 Report post Posted January 30, 2022 Some of our better attendants and locations are on the DND list, I'm happy to oblige if I'm aware, yes we probably should be more polite when a member does discuss, just quietly remove the post. I look at it this way , if the good providers stop working because we're discussing them , I'd rather just stop discussing them so I can keep seeing them. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
foofer 217 Report post Posted January 31, 2022 16 hours ago, Rom said: also they change name for reason , one of those is their owner can’t recognize them. I have to call BS on this one. The community is small. If one person quits, in less than a week the bosses will know where they moved to without our help. It's not like Forever is still wondering what happened to Rose. While it's not good to discuss what exactly happens behind closed doors, some people go completely overboard when it comes to other things. Like "OMG! Don't say the full address. Just say the street!". Yeah. Like Johnny Law is going to be chasing his tail for months trying to figure out which of two places on that street you're talking about. They know. I'm sure their firewall at work is not blocking LL and kijiji. They probably got better intel on who's doing what than we do. Either we're here to discuss and help each other, or we turn out the lights. Better no information than bad/one-sided information. 1 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
fresh 8278 Report post Posted January 31, 2022 2 hours ago, foofer said: I have to call BS on this one. The community is small. If one person quits, in less than a week the bosses will know where they moved to without our help. It's not like Forever is still wondering what happened to Rose. While it's not good to discuss what exactly happens behind closed doors, some people go completely overboard when it comes to other things. Like "OMG! Don't say the full address. Just say the street!". Yeah. Like Johnny Law is going to be chasing his tail for months trying to figure out which of two places on that street you're talking about. They know. I'm sure their firewall at work is not blocking LL and kijiji. They probably got better intel on who's doing what than we do. Either we're here to discuss and help each other, or we turn out the lights. Better no information than bad/one-sided information. I think we can discuss it with indication to which place it is without giving the exact location it might be easy to figure out but a little ambiguity can help a lot to protect people from unwanted attention Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
GoodLick 34 Report post Posted February 1, 2022 On 1/30/2022 at 8:50 PM, fresh said: I think we can discuss it with indication to which place it is without giving the exact location it might be easy to figure out but a little ambiguity can help a lot to protect people from unwanted attention Nope. Based on past experience, here's what you can expect: 1st post: Where? ........(wait 3 days)....... 2nd post: Who? .......(wait 3 days)........ 3rd post: Who's on first!!!!! Rinse and repeat Just for the hell of it, here's a snapshot of the past 10 years. Back when this was CERB, the board enjoyed the same if not more foot traffic than the other ERB. Now they have about 5 times more foot traffic on average. Quite a few things need to change on here to get that membership back. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bergvolk 39 Report post Posted February 1, 2022 (edited) What I do, I usually answer privately. But is difficult to ask, like "info abou R... at T....... Dr" . Some people got it and answer you. Some just ignored it. Who knows. Maybe in a future we are gonna use this to talk about going to church .... Edited February 1, 2022 by Bergvolk Typo 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
usernametaken 2887 Report post Posted February 1, 2022 Code is good I got R at Dr but no T at sc gonna try L on F see how it goes. T Y 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kmoppai 1089 Report post Posted February 1, 2022 I get the DND from the MP side of things, but that totally defeats the purpose of the board here. I have a few guys I chat with though PMs here, but its almost like we need another deeper group chat unavailable to the public to talk anymore. Like, I seen an add today from a spa east of the forks, but west of regent. I'd love to ask whos working there, but... I can't? Am I even allow to be that vauge? 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JLeeLewis 1344 Report post Posted February 1, 2022 1 hour ago, Kmoppai said: I get the DND from the MP side of things, but that totally defeats the purpose of the board here. I have a few guys I chat with though PMs here, but its almost like we need another deeper group chat unavailable to the public to talk anymore. Like, I seen an add today from a spa east of the forks, but west of regent. I'd love to ask whos working there, but... I can't? Am I even allow to be that vauge? We have a private massage group chat. It’s pretty much dead. Mod steps in, chastises us for saying things against the rules even though no one can see what we’re saying, then deletes 2/3 of our posts and comments. 🤷♂️ 1 1 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Piranha 166 Report post Posted February 1, 2022 Maybe we need to start a convoy and head to Ottawa to regain our freedoms here on Lyla. 1 4 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Greenly 791 Report post Posted February 1, 2022 I just come here for amusement, to chuckle at the petty drama. 😀 For any useful info I check out the other review boards. 1 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
D33pStat3 1 Report post Posted February 2, 2022 This post quite possibly has the most action this board has seen in months 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JLeeLewis 1344 Report post Posted February 2, 2022 3 hours ago, D33pStat3 said: This post quite possibly has the most action this board has seen in months You are welcome! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
builder3007 138 Report post Posted February 2, 2022 3 hours ago, D33pStat3 said: This post quite possibly has the most action this board has seen in months This and the how far to undress for RMT post Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TakeMeToParadise 21 Report post Posted February 2, 2022 Yeah there needs to be more interaction and honest discussion of the SP and services Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wpgroughrider 108 Report post Posted February 2, 2022 I concur....but there really is no easy solution. My experience on the other boards is that 99% of the info pertains to escorts and not massage Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
usernametaken 2887 Report post Posted February 2, 2022 A few yrs ago positive and negative reviews were allowed. But that has changed. The winnipeg mp review market is in need of a good forum for reviews, they fail to realize that I guess. How can you have a public review board with only positive reviews? Imagine if Google reviews were positive only!! 4 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
DwayneR 2105 Report post Posted February 3, 2022 (edited) I avoid visiting the ones on the DND list. Their not on my radar. DND = Do Not Disturb Edited February 3, 2022 by DwayneR 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites