Im starting to hate this industry

[Guest]

   As I hinted in a previous post, this problem is far from unique to the industry. On many websites you'll see people advertising items, vehicles or apartment rentals below market value under pretext, they need money quickly. They'll say many are showing interest, but if you pay immediately by e-transfert or gift card, the item is yours. But once that money is sent, communication ends.

   Same caution if someone ask you to meet in the middle of nowhere.

   Understand the market, use common sense and don't fall for pressure tactics.

[roamingguy 300292]

After a re-read of this thread I was reminded of an upcoming date (yes it'll be post op but one I'm very much looking forward too) that I'm having so a deposit (2nd one) has been sent to the lady.

And I've paid deposits (well in full) since 2011 (unless a lady doesn't take deposits) and never lost a deposit. So I'm going to continue paying companions by etransfer, including for this date.

A Rambling From Someone Who Doesn't Hate This Industry

RG

 

 

[Jenesis 294]

On 2/21/2022 at 2:05 PM, Kitten said:

 

 @Phaedrus your mind is my favorite 💋

You should try his tongue 😉

[harboursmoke 3087]

On 2/20/2022 at 1:58 AM, Quietfun said:

I dont care if you have a different opinion.. i honestly am so sick and tired of the scams.. all you providers expect it like its just a simple request without ever acknowledging that clients are getting screwed over sending deposits.. i am just getting over trying to have faith in SP's .. trying to find a regular is a fucking nightmare fulm of scams and rude ass women

There are alternatives.  PM sent. 
 

[SarahAlexxx 2025]

2 hours ago, harboursmoke said:

There are alternatives.  PM sent. 
 

I think this thread is a venting thread. There's lots of lovely ladies in this thread that I'm sure would be willing to meet him (myself included) but the homework is what seems to be the kicker here. Booking a SW requires work... on both ends.

[harboursmoke 3087]

1 minute ago, SarahAlexxx said:

I think this thread is a venting thread. There's lots of lovely ladies in this thread that I'm sure would be willing to meet him (myself included) but the homework is what seems to be the kicker here. Booking a SW requires work... on both ends.

Oui, merci beaucoup. 

[JasonM1972 1008]

On 2/23/2022 at 1:56 PM, SarahAlexxx said:

I swear he was a SW in a past life.

Hail King @Phaedrus

He does sounds like he's very mature and emotionally intelligent. I don't roll that way, but if I did, I'd wanna do him, lol 🙂 

[Kitten 1281]

One of my favorites for many reasons. Will still go with the mind 💖

[Quietfun 20]

I think a lot of you replying have never seen the level of effort going into these scams. Im assuming a lot of you live in the major cities where there is literally dozens or even hundreds of women providing services. These scams go beyond being verified on LL. Some of them have twitter accounts, instsgrams etc. I have even been hustled by ads that have reviews on CAF. I have been hustled by ads that have websites.. and because i look for an outcall. I have even been hustled by legitimate providers. That's the absolute worst when they laugh because they already have "regulars" and hustling someone for outcall deposit is nothing to them and wont affect their bottom line. It's not as cut and dry as a lot of you make it seem but I do appreciate the suggestions

[Genevieve Marceau 68000]

On 2/20/2022 at 12:58 AM, Quietfun said:

I dont care if you have a different opinion.. i honestly am so sick and tired of the scams.. all you providers expect it like its just a simple request without ever acknowledging that clients are getting screwed over sending deposits.. i am just getting over trying to have faith in SP's .. trying to find a regular is a fucking nightmare fulm of scams and rude ass women

We heard you the first time on your thread here, and now you are at it again 8 days later? What are you trying to get out of those discussions? 

 

[StephanieMystique 1892]

@Sugar Kayne I received the same 'person' messaging me Feb 1st phone number 5413625836. 

 

I called them on their 💩 real fast. The photo is at least screenshot twice. Once opened the pixels of the photo are awful. I told them to go scam someone else and stop wasting my time. 

 

Sorry for hijacking the thread for a moment. 

[Phaedrus 209521]

On 2/24/2022 at 12:42 AM, beesh said:

 

well... we do not have evidence that @Phaedrus is not a SW in this life 🤨

who knows ... may be he is a super elite super secret companion..... the kind they make movies on, with yachts & casinos

may be he is the one they call when Shania Twain or Bryan Adams need love 😏

 

... yeah !  I will roll with this narrative  ! 😜

~

Shit. You got me.

You know how elite companions often don't have that many clients? I am, in fact, so utterly super-elite that I have... no clients at all! How's that for exclusivity?

[Phaedrus 209521]

Gah. Double post. Please ignore.

[Guest]

   Here a few words of wisdom on the topic:

    - Some things are worth a lot more than money.

    - Doing everything right doesn't guarantee a positive outcome.

    - And no opinions or experiences will ever reflect your own.

  If you value something, don't give it to someone you never met.

[SarahAlexxx 2025]

18 minutes ago, clearbluesky15 said:

Don’t we do exactly that with Amazon suppliers though? There is a whole marketplace of suppliers, but we trust Amazon reviews to help guide us to the best offerings 😉

I value my time and give it away to strangers. Most of which dont come with "reviews". Lol!🤷‍♀️

[Guest]

4 minutes ago, clearbluesky15 said:

Don’t we do exactly that with Amazon suppliers though? There is a whole marketplace of suppliers, but we trust Amazon reviews to help guide us to the best offerings 😉

  First, Amazon reviews are too random to be reliable. You either find other sources or take a chance.

  Second, If a product is crap, damaged or undelivered, Amazon will take returns or simply issue a refund depending on the value of the item. Even if the process is sometimes slow, you'll see your money back. If not, there still some legal and financial options to resolve the situation.

  Quite different from dealing with an underground marketplace where consumer protection laws don't apply.

[Guest]

2 minutes ago, clearbluesky15 said:

The analogy was that with a community, reputation matters and those with the best reputation have it for a reason. 

     Reputations don't always meet expectations. And being real, doesn't necessarily translate to good or safe. Can use those as a baseline, but should still do some homework.

[LoonieOfCanada 1]

Indy Companion collection is a good resource to find real one's 😉

 

 

 

 

 

 

[Christina Di Milano 0]

On 2/20/2022 at 12:58 AM, Quietfun said:

I dont care if you have a different opinion.. i honestly am so sick and tired of the scams.. all you providers expect it like its just a simple request without ever acknowledging that clients are getting screwed over sending deposits.. i am just getting over trying to have faith in SP's .. trying to find a regular is a fucking nightmare fulm of scams and rude ass women

 Hello maybe merb.cc /terb.cc/perb.cc would be better for you! Tryst.link as well! There are reviews with lots of escorts who have been in the industry for years and they identify them really well! Especially the ones who have been there over 5 years! Those girls are usually serious! Xxx Hope this helps!

[OverTheTop 27]

On 2/20/2022 at 1:58 AM, Quietfun said:

I dont care if you have a different opinion.. i honestly am so sick and tired of the scams.. all you providers expect it like its just a simple request without ever acknowledging that clients are getting screwed over sending deposits.. i am just getting over trying to have faith in SP's .. trying to find a regular is a fucking nightmare fulm of scams and rude ass women

I hear ya. There are only 2 mature SP in my area- one is a coke head who I had a horrible experience with. But found The other to be a pleasant surprise and stick with her now. 

I think the bad blood goes both ways with the SP having their share of no shows too. Keep looking. They aren't all cons!

[hardydardy 1029]

This would all go away if the powers that be would've legalized everything and everyone when they changed the laws, in the first place SP's and clients could make their own choices. There would be no stigma's or legal ramifications for the client to report the ripoff. SW's could operate openly as they do in other countries. Traffickers etc. would go the way of the Marijuana, Bootleggers, have with lifting of prohibition and legalization of weed. Why do we look at Europe with its Red Light Districts with a sense of 'its OK' and yet we have a system here that allows for nefarious characters to profit of those who are part of the world's oldest profession. There needs to be change that protects all (SP's and Clients). While SP's have to advertise in 'offshore sites' at great expense to get the word out. This leaves everyone ripe for the picking. SP's have to trust what comes to and through the door based on a couple of texts and are vulnerable to who knows what. If things were different established SP - Client relationships would be easier and stabilize the life of the SP (no getting evicted or outed from apartments, hotels etc) the SP would have the right to carry on their work in a particular location as long as there was agreement with the landlord / facility. Many Hotels are looking the other way now and taking the money and a see no evil approach however if something happens the SP is out in a snowbank. ...... Time for the craziness to stop!

[Guest]

On 2/20/2022 at 1:58 AM, Quietfun said:

.. i am just getting over trying to have faith in SP's .. trying to find a regular is a fucking nightmare fulm of scams and rude ass women

I can definitely see how it may be frustrating for you. And yet, I can't help but think of everything clients have put me through as well.

Name calling, threats, no shows, low ballers, sending me to the wrong address for kicks, even had a client break my door and steal my money after I saw him.

The misogyny, disregard and disrespect I encounter every day is sickening. My point: it goes both ways.

 

 

[Exotic Touch Danielle 31728]

15 hours ago, clearbluesky15 said:

I'm sorry you and the other SPs deal with this... it's not fair and you shouldn't have that stress in your life.

Right ... everyone seems to forget all of the added bs we have to go through trying to provide a service(it isn't always a walk in the park for us as well...especially when our safety is not taken serious)

I just seen a gentlemen when I was in PEI steal money from me

I felt extremely violated and used and yes hurt

So when we ask for deposits it's for a reason and I thank God for those gentlemen that provide one without a problem 

 

[Miss-chelly 38]

that's why when u find a girl who will actually work for her money and has morals and has a sense of making good impression unpon who she is with wanting to be trusted and taking her job seruiouly, YOU SHOULD KEEP HER. And i have also has been on the shit end being robbed and sent to random locations just to waste my time for there kicks but when these women ripp these good gentle off only makes it harder for girls like me who are legit to have a nice a easy encounter.

[Exotic Touch Danielle 31728]

On 3/21/2022 at 5:02 PM, Miss-chelly said:

that's why when u find a girl who will actually work for her money and has morals and has a sense of making good impression unpon who she is with wanting to be trusted and taking her job seruiouly, YOU SHOULD KEEP HER. And i have also has been on the shit end being robbed and sent to random locations just to waste my time for there kicks but when these women ripp these good gentle off only makes it harder for girls like me who are legit to have a nice a eas

On 3/21/2022 at 5:02 PM, Miss-chelly said:

that's why when u find a girl who will actually work for her money and has morals and has a sense of making good impression unpon who she is with wanting to be trusted and taking her job seruiouly, YOU SHOULD KEEP HER. And i have also has been on the shit end being robbed and sent to random locations just to waste my time for there kicks but when these women ripp these good gentle off only makes it harder for girls like me who are legit to have a nice a easy encounter.

Yes I does make it hard for us BUT we wouldn't have to ask for deposits or other means of security if we didn't have reason to

I have been in this industry for along time and I have always tried to give people the benefit of the doubt and over look deposits to only have my time wasted..people sometimes like to take advantage of others when they can

I feel alot better now asking for a deposit knowing I can secure my time at least

Especially when I am inviting you into my personal space

If uncomfortable with sending a deposit or I.d they can always contact a lady that doesn't require one