Rockernroller 3 Report post Posted March 26, 2022 So a request and a small review to start was given as asked . If you don’t respond does that mean we are not welcomed? Wasn’t sure how detailed a review is required ? Thx Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bergvolk 39 Report post Posted March 26, 2022 18 hours ago, LibraSun said: Just found out I was kicked out of this group because of the inactivity. I have been busy. I did not see any new post/comment in the group either. Did you PM him? I had to do that way because I am going to the same places and they are on DND list Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
usernametaken 2891 Report post Posted March 26, 2022 If you join the group and don't post regularly.....don't expect to remain in the group.....no camping out!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
usernametaken 2891 Report post Posted March 26, 2022 2 hours ago, Rockernroller said: So a request and a small review to start was given as asked . If you don’t respond does that mean we are not welcomed? Wasn’t sure how detailed a review is required ? Thx Just means was hard to find your name because of dumb spelling Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JLeeLewis 1344 Report post Posted March 27, 2022 I got kicked out!! 😭😭😭 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ParkerLewis 46 Report post Posted March 27, 2022 I will admit I am curious to see the Gossip at least once lol... However I fail to see the benefit to Lyla, taking any liability risk because a Handful of Members who are undoubtedly going to increase the risk to providers thru unintended consequences... A private chat room enabled by Lyla has risks to their Business... Also no real Monetary Benefit to Lyla, Providers, perhaps a small cost savings to the private group... 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bergvolk 39 Report post Posted March 27, 2022 2 hours ago, ParkerLewis said: I will admit I am curious to see the Gossip at least once lol... However I fail to see the benefit to Lyla, taking any liability risk because a Handful of Members who are undoubtedly going to increase the risk to providers thru unintended consequences... A private chat room enabled by Lyla has risks to their Business... Also no real Monetary Benefit to Lyla, Providers, perhaps a small cost savings to the private group... I partially agree. Because of comments that I read here, I became regular in some places. Now, those places are on DND list. People beggining now on this hobby are not going there. The establishment is loosing the money. On the other hand, the use of some words can ruin the reputation of some professionals. Maybe, when reading between the lines is not enough, send a PM. The same way, I gave "some details" of my visits pm the person who was interested . Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
coitusonmymind 101 Report post Posted March 28, 2022 i am curious of other providers as well, i go to my regulars but would like to explore more of what the city has to offer. So far Toronto is best but that's just because its populated. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bergvolk 39 Report post Posted March 29, 2022 Yeah me too. But I can't go every week. I sent a bunch of reviews, but mostly of the same places. I wasn't accepted yet. Unfortunately is not everyone who makes 50 bucks an hour . I am just a regular looser with 2 jobs to pay my bills 😅 1 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ParkerLewis 46 Report post Posted March 29, 2022 FOMO... There is only so often you can post without rehashing the same thing.. c'mon the reality is we have about 12-15 public places a handful of private locations with maybe 20% turnover in the last 2 years.. when you add in the do not discuss preferences of the providers there is not alot to post... So you have 54 people who think they go lots and want to talk about each visit to each other, that will run out real quick. Your not missing out fellas, the main board has enough info to get started, then it's up to you ... I get some want a short cut to the good providers, however you would already know them if they let you in the group. because they want your 'juicy' info to get in lol.. 2 3 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Mattyice204 61 Report post Posted March 30, 2022 16 hours ago, ParkerLewis said: FOMO... There is only so often you can post without rehashing the same thing.. c'mon the reality is we have about 12-15 public places a handful of private locations with maybe 20% turnover in the last 2 years.. when you add in the do not discuss preferences of the providers there is not alot to post... So you have 54 people who think they go lots and want to talk about each visit to each other, that will run out real quick. Your not missing out fellas, the main board has enough info to get started, then it's up to you ... I get some want a short cut to the good providers, however you would already know them if they let you in the group. because they want your 'juicy' info to get in lol.. On 3/27/2022 at 2:38 PM, ParkerLewis said: I will admit I am curious to see the Gossip at least once lol... However I fail to see the benefit to Lyla, taking any liability risk because a Handful of Members who are undoubtedly going to increase the risk to providers thru unintended consequences... A private chat room enabled by Lyla has risks to their Business... Also no real Monetary Benefit to Lyla, Providers, perhaps a small cost savings to the private group... I mean if I wanted to quickly collect a bunch of reviews from our forum members without giving them much of anything in return, I know how I’d do it now……….. 1 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
usernametaken 2891 Report post Posted March 30, 2022 I don't need to collect any reviews. I have been operating the group since 2015 and use sources from other than that group to accumulate the information I need. The only reason I collect reviews is to make sure you're capable of leaving one. Some people are better than others at posting reviews if you know what I mean. If people don't post reviews in the group there's no point in having a group. 1 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bergvolk 39 Report post Posted March 31, 2022 I understand that. However, on 20th March I sent a PM with around 15 reviews and wasn't accepted. Maybe it is not a good number but it is legit. Unfortunately, probably there's only one or two new girls on the reviews, and mostly I followed some of your recommendations. If they are not well written, sorry, maybe a template on how people prefer reviews would be useful. If I wasn't accepted for something that I said, or because I can't afford a massage every single week, I believe a feedback would be nice. Anyway, I will keep giving informal tips for people by the PMs. And I hope some of them answer my questions too. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
fresh 8278 Report post Posted March 31, 2022 On 3/27/2022 at 4:55 PM, Bergvolk said: I partially agree. Because of comments that I read here, I became regular in some places. Now, those places are on DND list. People beggining now on this hobby are not going there. The establishment is loosing the money. On the other hand, the use of some words can ruin the reputation of some professionals. Maybe, when reading between the lines is not enough, send a PM. The same way, I gave "some details" of my visits pm the person who was interested . One of the original intentions of the private group was to provide more protection to providers. the general public can see quite a bit of our posts here even without joining lyla few years back local residents used information from this website to try and get a local massage business shut down. moving more detailed discussion to a private group page made for less risk that our conversation could cause our providers problems like this. This was my biggest reason for joining in on it. escort discussions on here don’t pose the same threat to the escort because they protect their identity by many ways in their ads and can change locations usually. a massage room in back of a salon where a provider has helped us out can be outed and can hurt her reputation in the rest of the judgemental world 1 1 Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bergvolk 39 Report post Posted April 1, 2022 That's why I would prefer to mention some stuff in a private group. And it does not need to be about "juicy " stuff only. It's about preferences. Sometimes a massage in your feet turn you on, and for you it is teasing. It would be easy than PM 2 or 3 people every time. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites